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Q: Is it true that if your period is abnormal .. like it is a period that you never expect it to come and it skips a few months .. that you won't be able to have a baby when you get olderI'm 15 and I started my period at March (9 months ago) And I haven't had it since July (5 months ago) And I know there isnt anything wrong with me because my friend is the same way and her doctor said there is nothing wrong with her. And I read articles about your period not getting regular until a year after. But my question is .. Does this mean I won't be able to have kids? Because I want them and I don't want that to happen!
No, ususally its okay. Until after about a year or so, mine wasn't normal. I know 5 months is a lot, but you should be fine. Although I'm not a total expert on this, you should be able to have kids. If you're really worried, maybe try to find a doctor who will help you.

Q: ill give 5's for this!

who sings this song:
im lookin for attention
not another question

a girl sings this song and thats all i know about it so ya. thanks
If you just want the singer its Kelly Clarkson. The song is Walk Away. I love her cd! ♥

Q: what are some good things to ask for for christmas ecause i want some things but like my dad asks me and i dont really know what i want i want a tiffanys necklace but i dont wanna seem like a spoiled stuck up priss so im not gonna sk but i need some good things to ask for
Now this is a fairly easy question. Although, like you said, you don't want to act like your spoiled, I understand, maybe save your money for the necklace. You know, just..save. You could ask for any movies, any cd's anything from the mall, gift certificates, games, or books. Very simple. If you want to tell me anything else that I could answer for this question, leave it in my inbox. Thanks!

Q: I've known this guy since I was three and we have been dating since I was 15. we are totally in love. but, we havent had sex yet and I'm 21!!! Is there something wrong with me?
No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Now I don't know what your plans are about doing it, but there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 21. I promise. ♥

Jess

Q:
Does sex hurt the first time?
It depends on if your hymen has been "broken" by either using tampons or exercising. I personally do not know, but I hear that from various sources. I don't you think you will ever know until you have sex, because everybody's bodies are entirely different.

Q: whats pros
and
cons??
In the sex category? Anyway:
Pros= positives about something
Cons= negatives about something

Q: does anyone know any really cute friendship quotes? im trying to find some for christmas cards im making for my friends. i dont really want corny ones but any you can give would be great thanks!
Of course. I'm your quotes-kinda person:
http://www.livejournal.com/tools/memories.bml?user=__quotexwhore&keyword=friendship&filter=all

sorry its so long, but sort through these and i think they may help.

xJessx♥

Q: I need ideas 4 my girlfriend for X-mas...any suggestions...plz?
As long as she' girly and everything, just buy her a cute card and get a 20-25$ gift-card from the mall. Like, wet seal, bath and body works, any of those stores. Now if she's not into that, just buy her a gift-card for the mall altogether, or any other of her favorite store(s).

Q: I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?
No, you are definitely NOT wrong. Omg, why would he do that to you? Try confronting him. If he denies, show him the proof and ask whats up. Its your decision to break up with him, but if I were you, I would. Good luck. And, I am truly sorry.

Q: okay so the other night, my friend told me she likes me, and 2 nights later I asked her out. And she says "I would love too, but I have to bring my grades up and I have Cheer competitions almost every weekend in in January." I really like her and my other friend told me just to give her time. And i don't know if i should give her time or what to do?
If you really like her, then you have to give her time. If she really likes you, then she'll be waiting to go out with you when the time is right. Just be patient and enjoy it when she is around.

Q: ok i'm 13 yrs old and a little bit emberessed to sayt this but here i go...my boy feind wants to finger me and i'm kinda scared and i just don't kno what to do..i mena i want to but i'm just askin muh self questions leik will it hurt wll i cry ..what should i do please help ..thnxx
I, myself, have never gone through with anything like that before, so I'm not sure what the physical pressure will be. But it depends, how close are you and your boyfriend? I mean, your only 13? I know you don't want to hear this, but maybe when your at least 14 or 15, even if your not with the same guy. I know your asking for help, and it's a bit complicated to answer this. What do you feel like doing? Do you know/trust him well enough? If it's just peer pressure, everyone goes through with that. I'm going through it right now, and I'm 14. If you feel like it's the right thing to do, go ahead and try it. But if you don't feel it's right, even if your boyfriend has to leave you, don't do it. If that's the case, you'll be worried that your bf will leave you, right? Well, if he loves you that much, he will stay. But do what you feel is best. I'm glad that you asked and good luck, hun.

Q: okay i have a very werid problem...i have two periods a month and they each last 8 days...is this strange and/or bad for me? ill rate 5's unless its mean
I think it's a little strange that you would be having 2 periods a month. If possible at all, you should try to go see a doctor and ask him/her what the problem might be. I mean, this could be serious! I mean, not to scare you, but it's possible you could have a problem, or that's just how your body works.

Q: Does discharge mean your close to your period?
It can mean that. Sometimes after you get your period, you can have discharge too. Also, if you have anything like cottage cheese-looking stuff coming out, you probably have a yeast infection.


Q: ok thsi is going to sound really stupid...but i can not for the life of me figure out what that blue chalk stuff does. i mean i know you put it at the end of the stick, but what does it DO? why do you put it there? if i dont use it will it affect my game? i will rate you high if you are able to tell me!
It grips the cue ball so when you play, so the end it doesn't slip.

Q: Is it normal to completely lose your appetite when you have the flu? Food makes me feel sick right now.
Yes, and definitely. The flu makes you terribly ill, obviously. Feel better.

Q: okay like i want a purse. but i dont know what to get. like "whats in". anyone know? im the kinda girl that like shops at abercrombie american eagle gap and all that! please help! lol. im usually not a purse type of girl but like now i really want one
You know that store? Wet Seal? Well, let me tell you, they have the most cutest and "in" things you'll ever find. Try going there. Here's their website:
www.wetseal.com

Q: ok so im 5 5....5 6 and im 124 pounds i think im overweight but alot of my friends say im skinny and some of my guy friends who mess round and pic me up say im light but when i look in the mirror i dont see skinny i see fat
am i fat or overweight/healthy
your healthy

Q: ok, im a 16 y/o guy, and i've never had a health class (reason i'm asking.) What are some signs that a girl IS NOT pregnant? like, is her period not the same? my girlfriend is 15, and we dunno. we had sex about 3 weeks ago, and we were woried about it. she's on her period right now, but does that mean she is FOR SURE NOT PREGNATE
?
Uhhhh...YEA..i think you and your g/f are both dimwits..i mean..what, she doesn't know about that? dear lord. and learn how to spell. As a monderator, I think I should rate you one. :-)

Q: can anyone help me think of some love songs that are about knowing someone for a long time& then falling in love with them? I'm trying but I keep running a blank! thanks in advance! :D
If I ain't got you
Alicia Keys

:-) congrats

Q: i had a boyfriend for almost 3 years we did everything for eachother i thought he loved me but i guess not...i found out he cheated on me 3 times and he is in the military..he got stationed in germany met a girl and brought her home..wat should i do??
Of course, after being in a realationship for 3 years...like, whoa. I would most likly break up w/ him. Now I'm not sure what you would do, because if you're really sensitive and you love him, you would probably stay together with him, right? Right. but if you dont like being cheated on, you might as wel..break up. There's nothing else you can really do unless you talk to him about that soon enough.

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xcheerbabex108
Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:

I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.

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