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I'm going into my senior year of high school and I haven't had a boyfriend in almost a year. (its by choice) But my question is (link)
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My senior year was my least busiest, but I still think no. You have enough time to get extremely attached to him, then you may have to break it off because he goes to a distant school and you never see each other. Or you'll try to make a long distance relationship work, and be miserable all school year wondering if he's meeting someone else, if he's getting tired of the relationship, or just plain missing him. Another thing, never pick a school just because a boyfriend goes to the same one. Choose one that best suits you. I've seen a few girls try this, and I think it's a big mistake. You'd be living for him, not yourself, and this is pretty much what determines the rest of your life.
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Okay this is for the guys. When girls wear short skirts (not to short but short) Do you think that would be a cool girl to get to know, or that would be a cool girl to hook up with? (link)
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I think almost anyone (With the exception of extraordinary annoying people) is worth getting to know. "Hooking up with" doesn't factor in until later.
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What is a good line right before u kiss someone. bc im not a brave enough person jsut ot do it i need a line. (link)
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How about, "Prepare yourself, I'm going to kiss you now!", or just simply "Kiss!". I think those will work.
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How long does poison ivy usually last? (link)
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It always depends on how alergic you are and how often you irritate it. If you're not too alergic and you don't scratch it, it sould be gone in a week or so.
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Well, my boyfriend of 10 months just broke up w/ me and I'm kinda wondering wut he means of wut he told me. He said "I think we should see other people," but then he said later how he's not breaking up w/ me bcuz of another girl. Then I asked him why he broke up w/ me abuncha times, and everytime he said he didn't know why. Then he said, "I think I just need sum time alone," so that sounded like maybe there's still hope left. Does any1 know wut he meant when he said all of this? Also, wut should I do? Ando do u think there is any hope 4 us?? (link)
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I can tell you what I think, but I'm not so sure you want to here it.
Okay, here it is. I think that he either lied and is thinking about someone else, or he got bored with the relationship or wanted time apart to find out what he really wants. Either way, he's not going to be blunt because he wants to spare your feelings. He does care for you, and there's always a chance you two will get back together. On this break, however, I think it would be healthy to talk to other guys.
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how long do u have to usually masturbate to have an orgasm?? and what does it feel like?? sorry if this is a personal question. I RATE GOOD!!
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It's different for everyone
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ok well i want to make a cd for my bf and i want to put songs on it like the reason and everything sucks when you're gone. you know things like that but i dont know what songs i can put on it. i want to stay in the rock/punk area if possible but it dont really matter i guess. please, if you know if any songs, tell me. thanks. (link)
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Fear Before the March of Flames: The 20th Century Was Entirely Mine
The Blood Brothers: Meet Me At The Water Front After The Social
Refused: Blind Date
The Bled: Porcelain Hearts And Hammers For Teeth
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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :( (link)
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Of course not! Even though you're interested in him, keep in mind the fact that he's not interested in you. He's only interested in sex. It's not worth it. Don't waste your first time with someone who doesn't love you.
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ok im 13 and so is my boyfriend, weve been going out for over 2 months now... hes had sex with other girls b4 but ive nevr had sex b4... he wants to have sex with me really bad but he always says he understands if i dont... i kinda do tho... but then i dont... im really confuzed cuz i really lov him its just i dont wanna get pregnant and i people will find out if i have sex with him and i dont want people calling me names like a slut and stuf, at this same time im in a huge fight with some girls, but i really wanna have sex with my boyfriend but then i dont! i NEED HELP!! (link)
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Let's weigh out the possitives and the negatives.
Possitives:
1. It would satisfy your apparently sex-crazed boyfriend.
2. There's a chance it will feel good.
3. It will satify your curiosity of what it would be like.
Negatives:
1. You could get pregnent (Even if he uses a condom)
2. You could get an STD (He's had sex before)
3. It's going to probably hurt a lot.
4. It could ruin your reputation at school (The whole people calling you a slut extravaganza)
5. If your parents found out you would be in deep shit
6. There are several more reasons but I think 5 is enough.
I don't think it would be wise to have sex yet. You're too young
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This is more of an opinion question than an advice thing, but I figured I'd ask anyway...never hurts, right?
If a guy asks you to marry him in the future, but doesn't give you a ring, does it count?
Lol I'm just curious to see what you guys think. (link)
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If he's planning on getting a ring, yes. If he said it in a nonserious manner, it means no but he's thinking about it. If it's a total stranger, then no.
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i cannot use the bathroom when im not at home. im so afraid someone will come thru the wall behind the toilet when im going and strangle me like in austin powers 1. is that weird? (link)
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Well, it's weird that you're afraid someone will try to kill you, but it's not weird to be afraid of public rest rooms. They're extraordinarily unsanitary.
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girls ok im a guy ok looking good since of humor fun to be around.but gettin to meet u is the hard part what is best way to confront a girl i see (link)
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From what I here, confidence.
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hey! well i have blonde hair, and about a year ago i got highlights just to make my hair color a little bit lighter, and i got them redone about 4 months ago. but now my hair is growing in darker, so its a light brown, and my roots look really bad cuz there is like a line where my hair goes from blonde to brown. well i dont know if i should just get more blonde highlights, or if i should get low lights(brown hightlights) so that it blends better. plx help! thanx (link)
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I would go with low lights. They'll look better longer as opposed to blond highlights. If you get blond again, you have to redo it more often.
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hi,
i recently figured out that my papa(uncle) has cancer and i am extremely close to him i live with him, and he was supposed to be fine until he had surgey and they found cancer in his liver stomach esophagus. and i just can't seem to get over it and i feel HORRIBLE i havent gone to school in 2 weeks(my parents dont know) and i act like im leaving for school they go to work and i just go back inside. Well What Should i do (hes gonna die anytime) sign,
ihatecancer01 (link)
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Well, hiding isn't the best thing in the world to do. Talk about how you feel with your uncle. School is important, so you need to start going again, I'm sure everyone would want you to. There's nothing you can do to stop the cancer, but at least you can spend time with him before the end.
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My brother (he's 20) has been dating this girl (she's 22) for about 2 years on and off. The only reason they got together was because my brother found out he was the father of their now 3-year-old. They can never seem to stay together for more than 3 months at a time. But each and every single time they break up, they end up getting back together. They are together now and I found out today that he's going to ask her to marry him. The problem is this girl has caused nothing but problems for me & my family. I have an aunt who won’t even come to family gatherings if my brother's girlfriend will be there. She likes to cause problems and not a whole lot of people in my family even remotely like her. She's also had my brother thrown in jail for no reason at all when they were separated. How he can take her back after that is beyond me. I don't think she's good for him at all. I know he can do a lot better than her. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to see him marry this girl but I also want him to do what he thinks will make him happy. What do you guys think I should do? Sorry this was so long... (link)
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It seems clear that your brother is marrying her for the child. What he doesn't realize is how traumatizing it can be for a child to live in such an unstable enviroment. But who knows, people change. Maybe she'll change for the child. It's my personal opinion that the best thing for the child is to grow up with its parents separated. My point is, and I hate to say this, but there's probably not much you can do. Try not to tell him what he should do, or that he's making a mistake. Instead, try to help him make the right choice himself, with examples, etc. Your brother probably won't respond to people telling him that he's making a mistake, he probably needs to see this himself to be convinced.
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Hey Everybody!!
Well...I'm engaged now, and I'm starting to plan my wedding. I'm not sure of my color theme yet...but I know that it'll most likely be on the beach, in the summer...mainly around July or Aug. My dress will be either off white or white. My question is...does anybody have an suggestions about colors on bridesmaids or..other things such as decoration. Thank ya'll soo much.
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Well, if you have it on a beach adjacent to the ocean, blue would be a nice compliment to the blue water.
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I've had a huge crush on this guy for almost a year now. He know's I like him, but he tries to ignore it like most guys do. He's in with the "popular" croud, but he's still acts really sweet and out-going and doesn't care what other people think. He waves at me a lot, he stares at me a lot, he plays with my hair and asks me to do stuff with him (in school, i.e. be his partner), and he also talks with me a lot more then other people. And just little stuff like that.
I know that a lot of people say "If you like someone, you automatically think they like you back", but I really think he likes me. But that's just me, and my friends think it's stupid to talk about, so does anyone have any adivce? Does he like me? o_O;
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From what I've seen, the opposite is true. If someone likes someone else, then they tend to think that that someone probably doesn't like them back. There's a really, really, really, really, good chance that he likes you, so I would ask him to something outside of school. That way you have more time to talk and see how much you have anything in common.
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I'm a female who is 15 years old. I'm going to be a sophomore in high school starting September. My question is, I can not seem to ever find a guy that is worth my time. Don't get me wrong, I'm on pom squad, I'm not a geek or anything. I just can't seem to find a steady boyfriend. I usually date older guys but I'm trying to find someone more my age. Any ideas on how to become more approachable to guys? (link)
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I'm a geek! I used to be a little jock-ish, but things change. (cries over geekiness) Anyway, as you know, there are a lot of jerks out there. Good guys are few and far between. It's common for girls your age to date older guys because of the maturity gap. Most guys your age, and I'm sure you'll agree, are really immature. To tell you the truth, you're probably approachable enough as you are. Boyfriends are overrated, seeing as how most relationships at your age (or any age for that matter) end in heartache. Just have fun, and try not to look for a steady relationship. They're almost nonexistant at 15.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out 4 about 10 months. Just a lil while ago he told me how the first few months of our relationship he was in2 porn, but then (him being his sweet self) said that the reason why he stopped was me bcuz he didn't wanna hurt me. Of course I 4gave him and everything, and I no I should b happy that he stopped cuzza me, but I still feel kinda hurt. I also feel... I don't really know... but I have a very small chest and just about no butt, and I feel kinda like he would want more than just me. He always says he loves me and I'm so beautiful and everything tho, so I'm happy about that. I think I'm just bn paranoid or w/e about this... but should I still feel a lil hurt that he was in2 porn instead of me? Also, should I worry about how he thinks of my (pretty flat) body? (link)
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Trust me, even if you looked exactly like the porn girls, he would have still watched it. It's not about that. He wouldn't be dating you if he didn't think you were beautiful. I wouldn't worry about it. A lot of girls feel the same way you do. My best friend had the exact same problem, only her boyfriend couldn't stop watching porn and my friend's very beautiful. So it's pefectly normal to be worried about this, but keep in mind that not all guys are pig-headed enough to find only pornstar-like girls attractive.
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ok i gotta ask this now..i heard someone say something bout there bf bein bipolar..what does that mean? is it like split personality?! also..my ex was really mean and called me hoe and stuff then like the day before that he was like baby i love you ill never leave ur side..is that bipolar? (link)
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There are different levels of bipolar. I was convinced that I was, but a friend went to great lengths to convince me I'm not. It's a version of depression characterized by extreme highs and lows. One moment your on cloud nine, the next you feel like you want to die. Most cases that are recognized are the extreme cases. I don't think your ex is bipolar. I think he's just weird, and felt bad for what he said.
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