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im so nervous around my b/f cuz i never know what to say! any ideas? thank you! (link)
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Aww, don't be nervous. You obviously at ne point were confortable talking with him otherwise y'all wouldn't be going out! Just be yourself and have fun. Y'all could play like 20 questions or something dorky like that so that you can get to know each other better and open up more. Also, tell him how you are feeling. He might feel the same, or he could just support you and help you work on opening up to him. You could also be around him with other people like in a group..like in front of people that you know you can trus and that you can be a total goof in front of. Jst have a good time. As time progresses it will get easier for you and more comfortable; just work on it a bit. :)
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Okay, I'm a girl show I should know, But what exactly does PMS stand for, I know pretty much what happens when your PMSing, but what does it mean?
Oh boy do I feel stupid lol. (link)
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PMS stands for Postal Mood Swings. But the real meaning is Pre-Mentruel Syndrome! And it USUALLY happens or people say 'you're PMSing when they are on their period and acting kind of bitchy out of nowhere. Don't feel stupid. :)
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Hey i was wondering if anyone knew of any good shampoos for curly hair. My hair is pretty soft but i want it to be really soft and for it to look soft and shiny. I tried dove and that works ok but if anyone knows of any good ones for curly hair..or just in general that'd great thnkx :-) (link)
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Hey there. For naturally curly hair or really any time of hair I would suggest using an in-saloon brand. Biolage shampoos and conditioners are what many good hair places use. It leave you hair soft, less frizzy, silky, smoother, straighter, etc. You can get it at your saloon or Ulta or Sally Beuty Supply. They have conditioner as well. And, other very good hair products (Ie: Try Biolage Thermal Active Setting SPray insteado f hairspray when scrunching hair or adding mousse) The Biolage shampoos are a bit costly, but get hte job done and they are sold in large containers. :)
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Hey everyone!! This is "xO.Carrie". Hey i was wondering if anyone knew any good research sites on modeling?! mY mom really wants to sign me up!! Thanks guys!!
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Hey-It really depends on where you live..I live in Texas and Page Parkes is a pretty big deal here. I believe there's also a location in Florida. See PageParkes.com for more info. But also, you could be a catalogue model like for Foleys, Neimans, Limited Too..all you have to do is go to the store and ask an employee for more info. But I think a good site for you to check out would be the page parkes one because it also gives you good places to go (nationwide) for modeling school. Good luck, if you need any more info let me know. :)
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how do i get a girl to have sex with me..we have been dating for 2 years now and she wont do it (link)
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Okay first of all you cant just "get a girl to have sex with you" If you've been going out with this girl for 2 years you most likely care about her a lot, and maybe love her right? So you should respect her too. If she doesn't want to have sex, DON'T force her. That's not right. It might be agaisnt what she believes in or she just may not be ready. Give her time. You should have sex only when both people are ready. If you have been bugging her about it lately, thats not going to speed up the process. Give it time, she'll be ready when she's ready. In the meantime, be a good boyfriend, and respect her. Just enjoy the fact that you are with someone. If you really feel the need to, you can talk to her and say I don't want to pressure you, but when you are ready, I am. Just back off and she'll come around. Also, you may want to build up to the sex thing (if she's up for it) you could do other stuff... :)
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Hey...I'm not sure how to say this but I will anyway...I want to start dating but I don't know If I can build up enough courage to ask my parents if I can have a boyfrined. They are the most protective people in the world sometimes the don't even let me go anywhere with my frineds. I do have a guy and we're frineds but they get suspicious of him...I do like him but they don't know that
Do you have any tips for me to ask them if I can ask him out?
It aould be appreciated
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Well, the best thing to do is to just get brave and talk to your parents. Don't whine or like yell. Listen to what they have to say. They will prolly do the same in return. Show them that you are maturing and capable of dating. Just tell them the truth and how you are feeling. Talk civily! Just say : I know you want me to be safe, but I feel like y'all have raised me well enough to make cgood choices...I think now that i am ___ years old I could maybe start to date" Then see what they say. If they are totally against it, suggest a compromise like having the guy over to dinner so they can get to know him or group dating. They'll come around! :)
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my girlfriend and i are sort of drifting apart... so its getting harder to like her when i dont see her too much... but my best friend and i have been hanging out a lot and im starting to like her... but i cant break my girlfriends heart but i dont want to be dishonest with her???? (link)
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Well, this can sometimes happen. But, maybe y'all are drifting apart because you've already lost interest or because you don't apply effort to make time to see her. You may want to think about those 2 things. I think that before you take any breaking up or getting together action you should put forth some effort and spend some quality time with your gf that way you can see if you still have feelings. Try and spend 1 whole day with her, just you and her. If the feelings are still there, then work from there. If not, just be honest and tell her how you are feeling. But you definately have to try first or that's just wrong. Just tell her you feel like you've drifted apart, and you've enjoyed the time you had, and you want to be friends but you've might of developed other feelings. Just be honest. Everything will work out for the best in the end. :)
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I met this guy online, and he's 36. Yea old but I didn't plan on going out with the guy. He said he liked me and this guy is looking for a serious relationship. I am not, and I just want to be friends. We still talked on the phone, and online when I told him that I didn't want to be more than friends. Well he awlays got mad because he really likes me and he thought that if I talked to him more and more I would change my mind about going to visit him. He would always mumble stuff on the phone and I hated it so much. And when he did it another time, I was so pissed off. So I emailed him, told him that if hes trying to get me to come visit him that its not woking. That its rude to be saying what he says about me not coming to visit, and that he has to understand that we will only be friends. He understands but I'm scared he's not going to talk to me anymore. Because if he was trying to get me to change my mind.and if he knows its not working. I dont think he's going to try anymore. But this guy is so cool, and a great *friend* if he doesnt call this weekend I'm gonna be pretty sad. I regret sending the email, but on the other hand I dont regret it. Because I'm always hiding my feelings but this time I stood up for myself. Sorry its so long. I will rate you 5's! (link)
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So...you never really stated your question, but I'll answer with what I think you may need/want to here. Internet relationships/friendships are ALWAYS a risk because you never FULLY know the person because it's never in real life. You may thing you know him, but for all you know he could totally be a liar and all that. You have to use your head. If the age thing doesn't bother you, than that's fine, that's you preference. In my opinion, you did the right thing by sending him that email because you should never put/keep yourself in uncomfortable positions. It wouldn't have been safe for oyu to go visit this guy. The guy may not call you ever again, and if thats the case you just have to deal with it. If he does call you, well contiunue talking but maybe not a "friendly or personal" and maybe not as much so he can CLEARLY see the answer is no. Remember, be smart, be safe. Everything happens for a reason. What's meant to be will always find a way. :)
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how do u add someone to ur favorite columnists? thanx (link)
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At the top of the users site it will say :Add as a Favorite, or Add as friend. Then they get added to your favorites. To double check this then click on Favorite Columnists and it will give you a list of the people you have as favorites and who has you as one. :)
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HeLoo i hav a queston bout..umm..some kinda gross stuf i gess...~im 14 and fer abouT um, 3 yearz i have this stuff in my unnerware its like whit and i dun no wut it is? is it like some sickness?ƨ? its like relay gross i thought it would go way afta i got mah period but it din't and iono its lyk embarassing if neone sees my unnerpants cuz its rely NASTY. is dis normal?? is there n e way i can yk rid it cuz idont want nasty white stuff comin out of my vagina!!!!!!! hey tanks i rate high! (link)
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Hey that "white stuff" is just vaginal discharche. Every young maturing female gets it. It's totally natural and normal. Some people have more that comes out than others. And on some days you have more less. If you don't like that it gets in your undies try wearing a thin pantyliner or thong liner. Don't worry though, there's nothing wrong with you! :)
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k well my friend is involved on a sports team so obviously they r going 2 get close and be good friends but b4 that we were bff and now i feel like i am being excluded, she will mention things 2 me but not invite me and if she does i always feel excluded because i wasnt really invited im juts a tag along. its really starting to bother me and im sick of feeling liek an outcast with her new friends and i dont no what 2 do bcause this is really botherin me (link)
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Hey, first of all, don't feel alone. Everyone goes through what you are feelig at least once. It's natural. That's okay that your friend may have other friends, but don't let it get you down. Instead, turn the situation around. Start going to your friends games more nad supporting her and the other teammates (ie: make signs for some of them). Just be her friend. Another thing, start talking to everyone! Like outside of your friends athletic games talk to them and get to know them so that next time you will be include first hand. Also, make some new friends. Be friendly! Introduce yourself! You don't have to have only 1 best friend..just meet tons of friends. Also, try talking to your friend and telling her how you feel. Chances are, if you say is nicely and sincerely she'll uderstand. :)
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i'm a 5 foot 3, 13 and a half year old girl. how much should i weigh? (link)
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Well, you school really weigh whatever you feel most comfortable weighing. You schould go to bmiscale.com and type in your weight and height and it tells you if you are under weight, over, just right or obese. So check there! :)
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What are some good screenname Ideas?
-I love Avril Lavigne
-I LOVE LOVE LOVE orca whales
-I skateboard
-I'm a punk, tomboy type
Thanks, I rate really well (link)
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Here are a few: If you want some more let me know!
OrCaWhAleLovEr05
Whalelover22
PuNkrOckWhaLes56
PunKiNtOmBoy12
SkAteboaRdpUnK
PuNksKatiNAVRIL
tomboytype44
ilovewhales
iloveavril
im a skater
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this is a really fast question. how do you get a guy interested? (link)
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First and foremost be yourself! Other things to do:
Be friendly and talkative
Be hintful
Show him that you are interested (ie. invite him somewhere, call him for hw help, study together,write a note,etc)
Act NATURAL..and let things happen naturally..but take some initiative..you only live once..take a risk..LIVE! :)
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ok im like really white all my friends are way darker then me. anyways you know those different lotions that give you a tan what one works the best and doesnt turn you orange and really dark but gives you a beach tan. i dont want to go to a tanning bed because that can give you skin cancer or something. thanks. (link)
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Hey there. Well, in actualuality we all know that the best way to get a natural looking tan is to do so naturally-lay out in the sun! However, we often are unable to do this. So here's the solution: All skin pigments react differently to those fake tanners...and often like you say may turn you orange. There is a tanning lotion/application called Toma's Tan Perfect. It was orignally introduced on HSN network and has since been distributed to the Walgreen and sometimes Eckerd chain. It's amazing. The stuff comes out brown so you can see where u are distributing it for an even look. It makes you look so tan. And it's even water resistant. If you can't find it at the mentioned places check Hsn.com :)
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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
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I know it's seems like your in deep love right now, but it's not the wisest decision to be angaged at y'alls age. You two have so much more growning, learning, and experiencing to still do. There's no need to rush it. That's okay to have a serious relationship at your age if you both can handle it, but it's not really practical to be engaged. Instead, you could each have 'promise rings' like to promise to always care and respect and be there for each other. It's still meaningful but no quite as drastic. What's meant to be will always find a way. There's no reason you two can't just continue to be together for right now. Save the engaged thing for when you've graduated high scool or even college and have a job and are finacnial stable. I know it seems like a long time, but you have your whole life to spend with the one you love. Plus, I know it doesn't seem like it, but you're so young and there might be someone else out there. You never know. Also, the mere fact that you are questioning shows that you aren't quite sure yourself or ready. Just talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you'd love to marry him, IN THE FUTURE. and suggest the promise ring idea. Just give things time to go down their natural path. :)
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so how come everybodys into scrunching their hair now(not that i havent tried it)??? anyways...is there any other way i can get my "scrunch" to hold without adding hairspray? it makes my hair stick out....i add gel to make the curls and then i add the spray to hold it...can i do this without adding spray? will it still hold? (link)
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I guess everyone's into it because people see other people doing it and they want to give it a try. Anyways, I would suggest using a combination of gel and mousse instead of just plain gel. Try Clariol Hermal Essenses maxinmum hold. Also, instead of using the hairspray try using Thermal Active Setting Spray by Biolage (Ulta or Sally Beauty Supple $10). Then use a diffuser or set your blow dryer to low and dry it for a few minutes. This won't make it "stick" or be frizzy. It also won't make your hair stiff like hairspray but it still holds. :)
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I have an online photo album. One of the categories of one of the albums is football games. Each album you can allow any song to play while people look at the pictures in that album. What would be a good song to play in a football games photo album? (link)
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Hmm, maybe like your schools fight song (you can usually download them off of your school website), or any schools fight song. Or a song that mentions Friday Night Football games in it. Or Young! by Kenny Chesney. Just pick something upbeat and fun! :)
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Okay so this kid I know asked me to "leave" with him. He told me I was the only girl he trusts, (hes a great friend, i help him in life a lot) and he wasn't pressuring me into leaving with him but he has a car and he doesn't like his home life and wanted me to go with him. I don't know WHAT to do. It's so unrealistic to leave with him, and I would be so mad if he left on his own (he said he wouldn't with a friend or by himself.. only with me) and I like him. Like... a crush you can say lol. I dont know WHAT to do. :-(
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Hey- I know you feel like you are in a really difficult position right now,but you have to do the right thing. You really shouldn't leave with this guy. No matter how well you know him, and how much he knows you. It's really not safe for either of you. All you can do in this situation is be his friend and get him help. You need to tell an adult (like his parents) that he wants to leave because he's unhappy or you should just spend time with him and talk to him about how he is feeling. It's way too dangerous to leave with him though. Just be his friend. Explain to him that if you two were to leave you would just be runnign away from your problems and that never fixes them. He may be hurt oe upset with you, but stick to your ground, get him help, he'll thank you later. :)
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i was wonderin' if anyone knew any fun websites to go on because it starts to get a little boring going on the same website. Thanx a bunch (link)
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BORED.COM
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