Question Posted Saturday September 25 2004, 7:18 pm
Okay so this kid I know asked me to "leave" with him. He told me I was the only girl he trusts, (hes a great friend, i help him in life a lot) and he wasn't pressuring me into leaving with him but he has a car and he doesn't like his home life and wanted me to go with him. I don't know WHAT to do. It's so unrealistic to leave with him, and I would be so mad if he left on his own (he said he wouldn't with a friend or by himself.. only with me) and I like him. Like... a crush you can say lol. I dont know WHAT to do. :-(
here2help answered Saturday September 25 2004, 8:09 pm: dont go with him. u neva know, he could rape u. its up 2 u but to be on the safe side, DONT!!!
ask me again. i could really help.
love,
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jeanine278972 answered Saturday September 25 2004, 8:05 pm: DONT DO IT! Thats simple. Talk to him about it. Tell him he has so much more to stay for. Tell him u cant go and u would miss him too much if he went. Just tell him how u feel about it.. Try your hardest to talk him out of it..
I dont know how old he is.. im guessing 16 or 17.. but he really shouldnt be running away.. He has so much to stay for.. and u should remind him of that!
LilMia811 answered Saturday September 25 2004, 7:48 pm: dont run away with him. thats dangerous. your parents may involve the cops and you guys cold get in alot of trouble. especially if he is 18 or over, he can get in trouble for kidnapping. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
FrEe2bMe answered Saturday September 25 2004, 7:28 pm: Hey- I know you feel like you are in a really difficult position right now,but you have to do the right thing. You really shouldn't leave with this guy. No matter how well you know him, and how much he knows you. It's really not safe for either of you. All you can do in this situation is be his friend and get him help. You need to tell an adult (like his parents) that he wants to leave because he's unhappy or you should just spend time with him and talk to him about how he is feeling. It's way too dangerous to leave with him though. Just be his friend. Explain to him that if you two were to leave you would just be runnign away from your problems and that never fixes them. He may be hurt oe upset with you, but stick to your ground, get him help, he'll thank you later. :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
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