If you want to work at it you have to do things to catch his eye. Flaunt your best attributes, whatever those may be. Flirt with him but leave him hanging and always guessing what your intentions. Laugh at him even if he's not funny and most of all make him feel important, basically make him feel like the man. Be confident because that can make up for what you may or may not lack in physical attractiveness.
silent_x_cry answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 11:14 pm: It depends on what you want right now. Do you want a relationship? Guys to flirt with? Sex? It all depends on what your actual wants/needs are as far as guys go. However... I must say that my guy thinks it's cool that I read Playboy. But that's beside the point. ;) [ silent_x_cry's advice column | Ask silent_x_cry A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 9:07 pm: First and foremost, BE YOURSELF. If a guy can't like you for who you are, you don't want to be with him.
Talk to him. Make sure you have actual conversations, not just like "hi." "Hi" "What's up?" "Nothing." "Oh." kind of things. Lol. Those are moodkillers. Lol. Ask him questions he can't answer with a yes or no.
Notice little things about him. Like if he has a shirt on that says something, ask him what it says.
Flirt. However, you don't have to act like a slut to get his attention. Smile at him, laugh at his jokes, but only if you really think they're funny. Lol. Join into conversations he's having with his friends, show him you know about the stuff he does and it interests you, too (if it does).
Just be honest with him, AND yourself. Hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
shugabob answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 7:16 pm: im a guy so i know wut we like in girls:
outgoing, nice, likes to do things, athletic, NOT GREEN(has done shit b4), honest, tell us secrets, trust us, tell us how u feel, open-minded, 5-15%sluttish [ shugabob's advice column | Ask shugabob A Question ]
Bethers5143 answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 6:46 pm: o goodness..FLIRT!!! act really interested in him and just invite him over or to hang out after school or work or whatever. good luck! *Bethers* [ Bethers5143's advice column | Ask Bethers5143 A Question ]
FrEe2bMe answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 6:41 pm: First and foremost be yourself! Other things to do:
Be friendly and talkative
Be hintful
Show him that you are interested (ie. invite him somewhere, call him for hw help, study together,write a note,etc)
Act NATURAL..and let things happen naturally..but take some initiative..you only live once..take a risk..LIVE! :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
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