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Friendship isn't as tight...
me and my best friend have been best friends for like 4 years and we now go to different schools and we still talk but not a lot and we ain't as tight as we used to be for some reason. well probably because of the whole school switch thing but anyways we both agreed that we need to start getting tight again. how should be start becoming really close again? what should we do or go? im really confused. i need GOOD really good advice not bullshit that doesn't make any sense, thanks so much!
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IF you guys are really good friends then you shouldn't have to go out and do something just to bring you to together, but anyways the same thing happen to me and my friend 4 years ago, you to should just plan one day out of the week were you to can get togther or each others house and play a game or something , just to get you two to talk about stuff that you missed out on, or go see a movie or you might want to go to the mall and just hang out.
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Plan a sleepover with just the two of you, and you guyz can like do each others nails hair etc. Go to the mall for a giant shopping spree. Ride your bikes or rollerblade together(if the weather's nice). Or, if you like it when there's a larger crowd, have a small party with friends you met from your new school and ask her to bring some of her close friends from her school. Or if you guys haven't seen each other in a while, send her a cute card or e-card to let her know how special she is to you. Whatever you do, have fun and let her know how great of a friend she is!
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Well, I know how it is to move away from a friend or not be able to go to school with them anymore, because you don't get all that time that you could be spending in class or at lunch together. It really sucks to not be able to hang out as much as you want to.
It sounds like you and your friend really want to be close again, so here's what I suggest:
-go to the movies, concerts, or clubs together. Spending time together as friends is awesome!
-go to each other's houses; it means that you're truly letting each other back into your lives.
-be penpals. I have a friend that I haven't seen in over 5 months, but we stay close because we write letters at least once a week. We write about anything and everything, and sometimes fill up whole pages with meaningless drivel. But it's fun.
Hope I helped! =)
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I'm in the middle of the same thing, because I just switched to a different school and my best friends and I don't hang out as much as we used to. My advice is to just call her up as much as you can and hang out with her as much as you can, most likely weekends. Talk to her about your schools and what's going on with the people you used to go to school with. If you call her tell her how much you miss her and talk about what you could do when you both are free. The school switch will make it hard for you guys to stay close but if you guys are best friends you'll work with it =] Hope I helped!
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