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alright i'm 15 - and i've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. i'm still a virgin, and plan on keeping it that way until i am ATLEAST out of highschool. anyways, we haven't had sex, but he HAS fingered me. and i've bled before -- maybe because he was being aggressive, but maybe because he popped my cherry. i was just wondering if i were to go to the gyno, whenever i decide to go, if it would look like i wasn't a virgin anymore because my hymen could in fact be broken. like, would he/she be able to tell that i haven't had sex? or would it look like i have? (link)
No, you can't discover a person had sex before only if she is pregnant or admits it. Your hymen could be broken, but there are more solutions to that than having sex. If you have tampons, that will need to break so it can insert. I worried about this too. Relax! There is nothing to worry about. You will not be a virgin only if a penis was inserted into your vagina, that is what I've read millions of times.


What does "pussy whipped" mean? (link)
When a girl has a guy in check. Like...does everything she says, when she says it. She has him in her plam.


ok well theres this guy and well ive been wanting to kiss him since well i met hiM!!
He has told me he likes me and everyone tells me it all the time.
i Just want to kiss him and see what he does and if he goes with it...do you think i should!
we both are crushin each other but not going out YET. (link)
yeaaaa do it!
when your alone, and just kiss him first, like a peck. if it goes well, you guys can start making out... im not really sure what you meant by kiss him (like pretend to kiss his cheek sorta... but miss!!) haha but remember onlllllyyy if your alone

alsooo... if other people say no b/c you 2 arent goin out yet, everyone at my school makes out before they go out... so i dunno how they roll at your school... but yeaa i'd say go for it!


Can you help me find ways to get whiter teeth just short of having them professionally bleached?

Any details on the "bleach them with equal parts baking soda and peroxide" mixture/solution? will be greatly appreciated.

Will there be instances in which Crest Whitestrips don't work? My dad won't let me use them but maybe with some help I can convince him.

My teeth are yellow. i dont drink tea or soda. i used to not brush for quite a long time. i have been brushing regularly for almost half an year (i brush my tongue and floss too). what can i do to get whiter teeth asap? i will continue with the brushing routine but my teeth are annoying - i cant smile. i may be brushing incorrectly.

also i am getting braces. will that interfere with anything? is there a color brace that wont make my teeth look even yellower

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ahh im totally an EXPERT on teeth whiteness!
ok so i first began to get them whitened with orbit white -- trust me it works, WELL!
and after that i became OBSESESEd with teeth whitening!
crest whitestrips did not work for me, at all, but they may work well for other people. I used these similar htings called tres white, its AMAZING, and its deffinantly better than crest because its a more profesional version; not sold in drug stores, you have to order it through your dentist!
lastly, like a month ago i went to myyy dentist actually, and i asked them about whitening toothpoaste, and she said the only one that works is the rembrandt plus, and she was sooo right. ive tried every single toothpaste out there, rembrandt plus IS the only one that worked (for me) its has breaching in it, thats so effective!
if you drink tea/coffee/soda/berry drinks (yes, berrys stain your teeth, so chew them in the back of your mouth!) drink those through straws!
the colors that will make your teeth look whiter for braces are blue and purple. any that have a "yellow" in it make it look ytellow; green, orange, pink. red might work for some. NEVER USE WHITE!!!
lastly, "blue-based" lip stick/lip gloss makes it look whiter. basically what i sadi above. use red lipstick or pink, but dont use oragnge... not that i think you would...?? haha

sooooo i hope i helped thats mossst of the information i know about teeth whiteness... but if you have aaaaaaaaannnnnnyyyyyyyyyy more quewstion, leave me one in my inboxx and ill get back to you assap!!!


This morning i asked -Is it possible to get pregnant from giving a guy a handjob and then letting him finger you after, even if he didnt explode.and you saud "only if he "explodes" as you side of you," - what do you mean by as you side of you ? i dont get it (link)
ahh sorrryyy i totally meant to say inside of u!
basiiically if he cums in u, or if anyhow any of it gets iside of u, then theres a possibility.
but just remember... no "explosion" as u sayy, no pregnancy possibibiltyyy!


sorry about the confusion!! i hope i cleared it up!!


So, yeah I want my ABOUT ME collum to be like..

Bold- green writting

space

not bold, black writting


space

get it? how do I change colors and
get spaces inbetween? (link)
typetypetype

(thats the space, and if you wanna have it like your wrote it, where there is a clear space, you'll have to do two!)

type type typeeeeeeeeee


http://www.webmonkey.com/webmonkey/reference/color_codes/

those are some colors you can choose!

aaaaaallllllssssssssooooooo---> if you want to use italics, use word/wordsss
bold is word/words
underline is word/wordss


if you need any more help, leave me one!


come to think of it
what is book smart? (link)
someone who is like smart like at school... you know with a lot of facts and they get good grades on tests and stuff!


if pee is clear does that mean youre hydrated (link)
yes it means your hydrated and healthy! it alsooo means that your drinking right


my parents were married in late may and my sister was born in mid december. my sister was born right on time. did my parents have sex before they were married? (link)
yeah she must have been about two months pregnant before they were married because it takes nine months before you have a baby


i am 21 and i still didnt get my period!!! it's really weird can anyone help me out? *stephanie (link)
you need to see a doctor


I have to do a presentation on stds for a class and I was wondering if i went to the Planned Parenthood clinic, would they provide information or brochures on stds? (link)
yea they have brochures on almost every single std, and thats a reaaaaaaaally good idea!


Is it possible to get pregnant from giving a guy a handjob and then letting him finger you after, even if he didnt explode. (link)
nooooo
only if he "explodes" as you side of you, or if any gets in contact with youu


My dog had eaten chocolate and i thought he was going to die i was so scared and i don't know if my little puppy ate some too what will happen to my puppy and my other dog?
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it might depend on how much chocolate they ate. if you notice any unusual behavior then take them to the docotr


I'm 14/f and I constantly find myself getting very bored around girls because I have no urge or interest to talk about make up or hair or dresses and celebrity gossip and blah blah.

I am more entertained I guesss you can say when I'm talking with guys because personally, some of them actually talk about interesting topics and some I can get into deep conversations with.

I only have two girls that I can talk with and nto get bored with and one too many guy friends that I'm always talking with...

Is that weird? And another question is would guys be intiminated by the fact that I have a whole group of guy friends and only 2 girl friends??? (link)
i agree with the answer below WAY less drama. I dont think its weird at all. And the only reason a guy would be intimidated is maybe because he wouldnt like that you talk to so many guys..

=]


can you get aids from having sex on your period? (link)
you can get aids anytime, but only if your partner has aids. they dont just come out of nowhere. but during any sexual intercourse you can get ANY std, like herpes. your period will not affect it anyhow


What is that band that women wear around their legs called? The cartoon character Betty Boop wears one with a heart. What's the purpose of it? (link)
theyre garters! theyre not used much anymore, unless to make a "sexy" statement. for example, on last season of americas next top model, caridee walked in wearing one. the purpose of it uuuussseeeddd to be to hold up your stockings, but now its just more of a fashion statement!


i've had my nose pierced since the beggining of december and ever since i switched my ring to a smaller size (i couldn't get the 18g in because all the curves and stuff. too difficult and it hurt really bad) it keeps getting t his bubble constantly on the side of my nose. like right beside my nose ring. and when i think it's going to go away it decides to come back. i clean it with hydrogen peroxide about 2-3 times a day. and it never seems to go away.. doe anyone know how to treat this or what the hell it is? thanksss =] (link)
well you should put your starter back in and keep cleaning it but dont use peroxide. peroxide is for cuts so it can close the wound. use soap it will keep the whole open and clean it. after this it should start to heal.


okay...i'm not going to have sex anytime soon. not even close. but just for my information, when you have sex, is it before, after, or during your period? (link)
you can have it anytime, normally not during your period, cuz thats just messy! you can have it after or before, it doesnt really matter, but you should allllwwaaayyyssss use protection. some people dont mind if its during your period


ok well im a female im 5'6" and my weight is about 115.. does that make me underwieght or overweight or what? cuz personally i think im fat but my friends tell me im skinny i want to diet but im afraid i might become anerexic or somthing. Soo what do you think.
(sp?) (link)
for your age and height, its a good weight. like its skinny, but not toooooo skinny! if you want to lose some weight, i wouldn't go past like 5 pounds, because otherwise you'd be too skinny. i wouldn't reccoment that, cuz i think you at a good wieght right now, because like i said, your skinnier than the average weight!


How did Evanescence get their name and what are the names of the people who are in evanescence (besides amy lee of course) and what part do they play? (link)
the band name means to vanish or dissappear, dreams/hopes disappear, fading, etc.

Amy Lee (vocals, piano), John LeCompt (guitar), Terry Balsamo (guitar), Will Boyd (bass) and Rocky Gray (drums).




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