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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

ok so like 2 months ago this guy fingered me and i strted bleedingand it was very discomfortable (im a virgin), two months later i get fingered again and i bleed again but there was little pain.......whats wrong with me?
thanks

It's possible the first guy poked your hymen. I don't think it's broken because you bled again two months later from being fingered again. Or he/they just fingered you too hard. You're fine. If you bleed for longer than a day, you should see a doctor. You're fine though, so no worries. :]

♥T!NA

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whats espn?


cioz remember in mean girls the dumb girl said that she thinks she has ESPN?

ESPN is a channel for sports on TV. She meant that she had ESP which means she's psychic. :]

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okay i like this guy..and people say he likes me back. I've never had a boyfriend before so i was a little nervous about it. HE said he was gonna ask me out, and than blew me off. My friend asked him why and i just says no i dont like her or idk. does anybody know what this meanss?
any advice helps=)

He's a dickhead, and he probably doesn't like you. Leave it alone.

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i have this huge problem this boy jus broke up with my best friend lizy and today i sorta hung out wit hym but he grabbed my bff emme's ass i mean she is supper skinny and totally dosent have one lol but she ii let hym do that cuz i really really like hym o should ii oo idno please help me!!!!!!! PLEEASEE

Probably not. If he grabbed someone's ass that wasn't your's, he probably doesn't like you.

Also, not to be completely rude, but spelling is key. Learn how.

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I like this guy, he has a girlfriend, and I think she would hurt me if she knew. I am not friends with his girlfriend and we don't get along but I still feel guilty. He cheats on her all the time. I don't want to be the girl he cheats with, but he is so cute. My friends don't like him, but they support me. They tell me all the time, "he likes you", I want to believe them, but they tell me stuff like that a lot. He has this charm that just makes you feel so special. He can be really perverted, but I think he is just insecure on the inside. I really like him, and I know he is all wrong, but it feels right. Should I tell him?
From, Chelsea (Female, 14)

If you know his girlfriend could potentionally end up hurting you, I'd leave him alone and let him play her. If he cheats on her with you, you're in trouble just as much as him. Just leave him alone & wait til they break up to make a move.

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When I broke up with my boyfriend for cheating on me, I gave away a 40$ necklace he gave me to my best friend. She was so mad at what he did, she broke it into a ton of little pieces.
Now my mom wants me to give the necklace back to him (she doesn't know my friend broke it) but I don't know what to do! I don't want to tell her my friend broke it, but I have no clue what to do now!

Tell your mom that you gave the necklace to your friend, but leave out the part where she broke it. Or, just say you lost it & don't know where it is. Besides, I don't know why she would want you to give it back if it's considerably YOUR'S.

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i know nick canon and christinia milian broke up because he cheated on her. but i was watching Wild and out and she guest stars on it, and at the end shes like "Nick im Yours" so are they back together or like shes just playing?

That's an old episode. They're done.

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I want to do some changes on my myspace. What are some good pictures, poses, angles, or w/e tu use/do? Any advice is good advice, thanks.

You could sit on the floor or bed & take your pictures. Go outside, or go to a really pretty/private place. Take mirror pics. Either way, those would be really cute. If you want quotes or whatever, google them. As for other pictures for captions, go to photobucket & type in the specifity of what you want in the picture, and it should have something for you. But if you don't wanna be specific, go on www.xanga.com & click Blogrings. Type in "photography" and click the blogring you want, then just take it from there. ;]

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OK i need all of your opinions! i have to write a story, and i'm deciding between two plots. I need as many opinions as possible please! thanks
1. about a girl, 15 or so, her mother died when she was very young, over the summer she is in a store and meets a woman in her 30's, 40's, the woman tells her about a place up the mountain where she is landscaping this whole big beautiful garden like thing. The woman offers to teach her to garden in return for the girl helping out. they start to do that and become friend. All the while the younger girl is kind of seeing this woman as a mother figure even though the woman isn't doing anything motherly, they're just friends. In the end, she puts too much trust in the woman, and is disapointed because the woman like goes away without telling her or something else bad that she knows a "mother" wouldn't do. And it's basically about that, just how when people want something so badly they see things that aren't really there. She wanted a motherly so desperately that she clung to anyone and was let down.

2. a girl in ny city, her mother dies and she finds an adress of a family member(she doesn't know any of her relatives) they live down south so she goes there to find them. She finds out that her "mother" is actually her aunt her took her away when her mother went crazy. So it's about her learning about the south and meeting family and getting to know her mom.

which should i do? i'm better at descriptions than big exciting course of events. which one is more original and crative, and what should i do? does the first one seem like boring, like it's been done before and is too disney, cliche, boring?

PLEASE HELP ME DECIDE

I really want it to be well written

I like both of the ideas, and both of them would catch my attention, but if I had to choose which one I'd wanna read more, it'd be the second one. It's got a weird twist and it'd make the story more exciting.

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when a guy is kinda always asking you who you like and then you ask him back and he says " i like three people" and only names two of them, and won't tell me the third. does that mean he likes you or does he just want to know who you like.

The third person is probably you, and if he asks you who you like, he's more than likely hoping you say it's him.

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i had sex the day before i got my period, but can i still be pregnunt if i sitll got it the day after i had sex?

Well, there's a chance. If you had that sex without a condom, there's a higher chance. But, yeah, you could be.

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Are piercings in or out right now? If so, what kinds? (Cartlidge, nose, lip, eyebrown, belly button, etc.)

These piercings are in:

- Tragus.
- Monroe.
- Lip.
- Snakebites.
- Spiderweb.

The other piercings are still "in" but not so much. If you don't know what some of the ones I listed are, google them. :]

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Ok, i REALLY REALLY like this guy, like i LOVE him, and he knows it but he just wants to b freinds, and he said he mite go out one day. Hez not that smart,(dislexic)i am all as. and also he likes to hunt, and i aboslutely love animals. We r 2 totally different poeple but, i still love him. No,matter how hard i try i can't forget about him, What do i do.

I've been there/done that. I'd just see him as a friend, or just hide your feelings until he's ready to go out. If you "love" him, you'll accept it & either wait for him, or move on.

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i feel so guilty. i always told myself that i would NEVER do something if i didnt have a boyfriend [kiss, mess around, etc.] but today i was with this kid and he just kinda kissed me and then we started making out. and he was sexy about it, he said he couldnt get enough nd kept kissing me and i wanted to stop him but i didnt. i feel so dirty!!!! is this normal? how can i over come this feeling.

It's just a kiss. If you did anything more than just kiss him, then it'd be a big deal. But for now, just don't freak out about it. You were having fun, and that's that. :]

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ok so there is this girl im pretty good friends with and i like her alot but i dont know how to tell her. i dont talk to her too much in person, but i used to talk to her alot on the phone and i talk to her all the tiem on the computer. she leaves me little comments like "loser1

Talk to her more in person. It'll help to build up your confidence to tell her how you feel. When you think you're ready, tell her. The worst she could say is that she doesn't feel the same, but I'm guessing she does. :]

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14/f
tomorrow, im getting a blood test. the thing is, i HATE needles, and i HATE looking at the thing and seeing my blood, which means basically, i hate blood. and afterwards, i am paranoid for the whole day looking at where the needle went in, and i feel like its hurting, but im actually causing myself to FEEL like its hurting. i have no idea what to do to make myself lmore comfortable. any suggestions?

Don't concentrate or think about the needle. If you just think about something happy, you end up not even feeling the needle. :]

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15/f. ok i like one of my guy friends, so normally i am with him. a lot of people think i like him (which i do), but i don't like to admit it because i don't want to risk ruining our friendship. but thats not the point of this question. the point is a lot of girls keep asking him who he likes. and he tends to avoid the answer by saying who he used to like but that he doesn't like them anymore. and then when they say so who do you like now he doesn't answer. but i always feel uncomfortable when they ask him this because i'm always sitting there next to him.

also he is the kind of guy that a lot of girls like because he is so nice, funny, and easy to talk to. and a lot of girls tell him that they like him and he just says that he doesn't feel the same way about them. So i'm so afraid to tell him how i feel because i don't want to be just another girl that likes him. plus i don't want to lose our friendship.

so my questions are:
1) do you think he might be avoiding telling them who he likes because it might be me and i'm always there?
2) should i tell him that i like him and risk our friendship even though A LOT of other girls like him too?

thanks =]

I would just tell him & take the risk. If you think he's worth it, do it. :] I bet he probably does like you but doesn't say anything when people ask him because she's either really shy, or it's because you're sitting right there. Who knows. You could be more than just the girl in this case. :]

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15/F
My dad is a coach for a basketball team. Well my dad and my ex's dad coach together. Well I think he likes me but I dont know. Today at lunch he came up to me and said something and i replied well you don't love me. He then said yes i do thats why i come to basketball practice and the games. Does that mean he likes me or is that just a response? Please help, anything and everything is appreciated!!!

The person below me is a complete idiot & can't read between the lines. Anyways, yeah. It shouldn't be hard to figure that out. He still has feelings for you.

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how do i know if a hair product has alcohol in it

Hmm, you turn the box to the ingredients section thing & read them.

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can pitbulls kill u?

It can, but that doesn't mean it will. It depends on who the dog's owner with, or how the dog was trained. It also depends on your age or size. Usually, if you leave it along & treat it with nothing but love, it probably won't do any harm to you. :]

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