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A 'player' I like, and his girlfriend scares me
I like this guy, he has a girlfriend, and I think she would hurt me if she knew. I am not friends with his girlfriend and we don't get along but I still feel guilty. He cheats on her all the time. I don't want to be the girl he cheats with, but he is so cute. My friends don't like him, but they support me. They tell me all the time, "he likes you", I want to believe them, but they tell me stuff like that a lot. He has this charm that just makes you feel so special. He can be really perverted, but I think he is just insecure on the inside. I really like him, and I know he is all wrong, but it feels right. Should I tell him?
From, Chelsea (Female, 14)
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If you know his girlfriend could potentionally end up hurting you, I'd leave him alone and let him play her. If he cheats on her with you, you're in trouble just as much as him. Just leave him alone & wait til they break up to make a move.
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Its really good of you to not just judge him by how he acts and to think that theres some other reason for his sleezy actions. The girlfriend though seems to be a bit of a problem. If she doesnt already know hes cheating on her i think you should tell her. it doesnt have to be direct like you could send an anonymous letter or something but i really think she should know. Or she could be acting mean and aggresive to people who like him because she knows hes cheating and cant accept it. If you really like this guy i think you should tell him, or just be a really good friend with him if its hard with his girlfriend and all. Just because he cheats on his current girlfriend doesnt mean he'll cheat on you. A person can change, Believe me. Maybe he just needs the love and affection of a good girlfriend which im sure you could give him. I really hope everything turns out alright =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Ok what you should do is slip a note into his locker and say meet me some place where you know his girlfriend won't be and tell him how you feel
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Hey,
Personally, I'd tell him. If he likes you like your friends say he does, he'll probably dump his girlfriend and do whatever with you. But, I wouldn't go out with him--save yourself a heartbreak! If he's cheating on this girl, he might just cheat on you, you know?
Hope everything goes well & Hope I helped!
-Jam
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