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so i think i have my gift idea for my b/f figured out. but im not sure i dunno if its a good gift for valentine's day or not..i just need some opinions and if not what i should give him.
now he's kinda a 'hick' as most of you would call him, so he loves the stores like bass pro shop and cabelas and stuff. so i got him a hat from bass pro and then im burning him a cd with a bunch of songs on it. and im sticking in with it this thing saying why i put each song on there and how they connect to me and him or whatever. does this sound like something guys would like for this day of love???

THAT'S SO CUTE!!! he'll love it don't worry, guyz love anything from a girls heart. :)

Hope u have a Great Valentine's Day!

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when you no your in love with someone but you know behind you back he is flriting with other girls but when yyou ask he if he's doing it he say he loves me

ummm....yes i think you should move on because i had that same situation and he did cheat on me nd did it with another girl because my boy "A" lets call him was talking to him and A asked him because my x-bf thought i wasnt friends with him and told him and A told me i cut him so fast i was so frustrated

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I like this guy, he has a girlfriend, and I think she would hurt me if she knew. I am not friends with his girlfriend and we don't get along but I still feel guilty. He cheats on her all the time. I don't want to be the girl he cheats with, but he is so cute. My friends don't like him, but they support me. They tell me all the time, "he likes you", I want to believe them, but they tell me stuff like that a lot. He has this charm that just makes you feel so special. He can be really perverted, but I think he is just insecure on the inside. I really like him, and I know he is all wrong, but it feels right. Should I tell him?
From, Chelsea (Female, 14)

Ok what you should do is slip a note into his locker and say meet me some place where you know his girlfriend won't be and tell him how you feel

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i got my nose pierced and was told to clean it with an antumicrobial cleanser. i got Hebiclens, but it seems sort of strong...is there anything else i can use?? is antibacterial soap ok

use hidrogen peroxide and DO NOT use antibacterial soap.
when you got your nose peirced did it hurt!?????

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I want to do some changes on my myspace. What are some good pictures, poses, angles, or w/e tu use/do? Any advice is good advice, thanks.

1 good pose is to put 1 hand on the wall and one on your hip nd then rest your head over your shoulder and pose like your not conceited just confident

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My boyfriend wants to finger me. I don't really care if he does or not but I'm just nervous because I never got fingered before.
I shave down there but i don't shave the whole area I leave the middle. From a girl's point of view do you guys shave the whole thing and if yes, step by step direcions would be helpful.
Also where the thighs sorta begin (near the vagina area) should I shave that too? Please don't tell me "do whatever is comfortable for you".

hey hunny gyea basically u shave every spot that grows hair from your waist down and no your cherry can not pop like that but be careful because most guyz when they have you that far right then they might go a little further then you want them to sorry but i had to say it

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16/f
Well there's this guy, one of my best friends and well I really like him alot. He doesn't know and I'm not planning on telling him for fear of losing our friendship so I don't need help about that. The thing is, the other day he texted me the wierdest message and then logged off. I havn't been able to ralk to him since so I don't know what it meant and I couldn't ask. The text he sent me was: 'I less than heart you'
Like what the heck does that mean? I asked a friend but she didn't know.
To clarify what I'm asking, I want to know what the message means and why he would send it to me if it's not something stupid.
Any help is appreciated. Thanks.

hey i'm sorry sweety but "i less than heart you" means that he love you less meaning he found out how you liked him and doesn't like you the way you like him

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im not fat. but i want to lose some weight and get a flatter stomach. i do crunches and things like that dont worry. but i have a question. wen i lose some weight on my stomach and get some abs my ribs sort of stick out. i dont know why tho.its not like i look anorexic or anything just wen i finally get the blubber off my stomach u can see my ribs. why?

it's natural i have the same thing don't worry about it and it doesn't mean your anorexic but don't over work yourself because that could happen (don't take that the wrong way) but one work out that is good for your leg and stomach muscles is lay flat on your back on the ground and lift your legs together straight up and hold them there for 2 min. starting off and then tell me how it goes if you try it because that is was my coach for my team has a do and it keeps you in GREAT shape lol

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13/f

ok theres this guy that i like hes in my grade and i wanna tell him that i like him but .... hes not like the most attractive guy ya know and no body knows i like him.. and a lot of people think that he likes me and if they fine out i like him then i think ill get made fun of or something... idk and he always guessing who i like .... and i dont know what to do! please help! thanks!!

i think you should tell him because he cold be "the one" lol and you will never know if you don't give it a shot and about your friends and people making fun of you the reason they are laughing is because they are just insecure about telling the one that they like how they feel so i say go for it

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OK. Lets say you are the judge of this years social studies fair. what topic would you find more interesting....

The History of Cooking
or
The History of the World Trade Center

Thanks;

COOKING! only because i love it

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ok. ive been BEST friends with this girl since 2nd grade. then she moved 2 years ago. but we still talk and see eachother. but after she moved, she started caring about hoe she looked, and she started being mean to me on the computer. but when i talk to her she's like her old self. and the most important thing is now (on the computer) she's starting to tell me that i should dress better, and i should wear brand names. but that's not me. what should i do?

Tell her she has changed and you don't like the new her and don't want to be friends with the new you ,and that you liked the old her better, and if you feel comfortable with the way you dress you shouldn't care what other people think because if they are rude to you only because of the way you dress then they aren't a good friend

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14/f

Everyone tells me this kid likes me, but when it comes to seeing if people like me or not, I can never ever tell!

Here are some signs --
*He calls me twice a day.
*He talks about how he misses what we had.
*He always says we should hang out
*Hes called me pretty 3 times, in the past like.. maybe week tops?
*He asked if I'd ever makeout with him... lol?
*He always tries to help me with things.
*He drops like everything, just to talk to me on the phone type thing..

& alot of other stuff.. I just can't seem to think of it right now. =/ but, trust me theres alot more.. thats just super recent. & some of the other things, I don't know how to put it.

Anyways, what do you think? Does he just want to be my friend? or more...

By the way.. I won't rate you low, if you think he doesn't like me or something.. I want you to be completely honest.


OH..& sorry if we're not allowed to say we rate at all? I thought it was just as long as we don't say we rate high...

kthanks in advance.

duhhh he does oh my gosh how did you not know that

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