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15/f. ok i like one of my guy friends, so normally i am with him. a lot of people think i like him (which i do), but i don't like to admit it because i don't want to risk ruining our friendship. but thats not the point of this question. the point is a lot of girls keep asking him who he likes. and he tends to avoid the answer by saying who he used to like but that he doesn't like them anymore. and then when they say so who do you like now he doesn't answer. but i always feel uncomfortable when they ask him this because i'm always sitting there next to him.
also he is the kind of guy that a lot of girls like because he is so nice, funny, and easy to talk to. and a lot of girls tell him that they like him and he just says that he doesn't feel the same way about them. So i'm so afraid to tell him how i feel because i don't want to be just another girl that likes him. plus i don't want to lose our friendship.
so my questions are:
1) do you think he might be avoiding telling them who he likes because it might be me and i'm always there?
2) should i tell him that i like him and risk our friendship even though A LOT of other girls like him too?
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ask him when your not around much people who he likes, so if he doesn't tell you , probably it's you! cause he might be avoiding telling them with you by his side. this way he'll know that at least your interested :P in an indirect way by asking him this. hope you understood my point
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hm. this is a sticky situation.
i would think it would be easier to ask him who he likes when other people aren't around. be like "how come you never answer those people when they ask you who you like?" and see what happens. if your not comfortable(sp) with telling him, wait until you think your willing and gain up the courage to risk that
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I would just tell him & take the risk. If you think he's worth it, do it. :] I bet he probably does like you but doesn't say anything when people ask him because she's either really shy, or it's because you're sitting right there. Who knows. You could be more than just the girl in this case. :]
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I think you should take a chance and tell him you like him. It will make your friendship awkward, but i doubt he will just stop talking to you because of something simple like that. Just say i kinda have a crush on you just dont be like omg I LIKE YOU SO MUCH!! Dont lay it on too thick.
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