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Oh ok, I expressed my feelings to this guy i liked and i think i kinda scared him. Seriously there was that kinda ocward scilence, you know it was quiet. And yeah ever time i try talking to him hr just wont talk to me, and like im madly in love with him! What should i do i really reall need you help. ASAP
thanxs. (link)
wow...well i got to admit guys do get scared of this kind of stuff n prolly b/c he doesnt wanna hurt u he is tryin to ignore u...but talk to him talk things out ;) n see wut happens :) xoxo *best wishes* effy


Hiya.. first of all.. you're adorable.. and it's awesome how you're helpin people out.. anywhos.. alright.. here's how it goes.. My mom and my real good guy friend dylan's mom work together.. we've always kinda had a thing for eachother.. but never did anything about it.. a few months ago.. he started to like my friend katie.. but she decided she didn't like him or whatever.. and so me and him started talkin again.. and we flirt like crazy.. seriously.. it's out of control.. but we're such good friends.. and I'm not 100% positive I want something to happen.. it's just kinda like he's always been there.. and I do like him.. infact.. I like him a lot.. but we're such good friends.. I just don't know.. what do you think about this? (link)
i think its kool dat u guys are such good friends...but since ur so close n u feel like dat may b u should tell him that u wanna try to b more then just friends wit him...give it a try if it works ok...if it doesnt then its ok...although things might change between u 2...so think real well bout wut u want;) n make ur move ;) xoxo effy


i was with this guy and he broke up with me and i still have feelings for him and im in summer school so is he in class he is always starring at me and talk to me a whole lot more than he did when we were together how do i find out if he still has fellings for me if im to shy to ask. i am 15and a half (link)
well, carful he might do that just b/c he might kno u still like him n he just try to lead u on b/c guys LOVE attention...but other then that...if he has feelings for u just wait n see i bet he'll come n tell u ;) just give it some time if he doesnt tell u something soon then forget him n move on..i know its easy to say n hard to do but in life u got to make decisions that hurts,life can be a biatch sometimes so...*best wishes* xoxo effy


I want to tell this guy I like him but he has a girlfriend!The first time I met him he told me he liked me!I have a feeling I have waited too long and that he doesnt want me anymore!But I think about him all the time and I am in love w/ him!Signed,bummed love
I am 13 and a female! (link)
listen sweety ur 13 yrs old...u prolly think ur in lov but u aint...i'm sorry that u like him alot n u think bout it..but sometimes u just have to let go of things...so forget him n move on...u have no idea how many more guys are gonna come in ur life ;) so shut that door n open another one ;) xoxo effy good luck ;)


am in love with a class mate of mine & we have been going out for about one year and her name is evelyn (am 21 years)when we are at an arguing she always says that am tring to end the relationship & that am always looking for mistakes and am now worried to even tell her when something is wrong. (link)
aww..well u should tell her how u feel...n tell her b/c she tells u "ur tryin to end the relationship and that ur always lookin for mistakes" makes u worried n makes u not tell her when somethin is wrong...so tell her that just b/c u guys have fights n tell eachother wut u think is wrong dont mean ur tryin to end up the relationship...just make it clear to her ;) n everything will b fine ;) *best wishis* xoxo effy


Has anyone here gotten there tonsils out? If so, what's the best food to eat other than ice cream? I just got mine out 2 days ago and nothing tastes good and I'm in pain -__-|| (link)
dont eat anything salty or hard or w/e...eat stuff like popsticles...milkshakes....iceream..;) etc..xoxo effy


me and my bf were talking last night and he kept saying i hate my brother i wish aron was my bro (thats his cousin) and he kept saying it and saying it and like i hate him i wish he wasnt my brother and i said im glad your bro is your bro and he said why do you always stick up for him? and i said cuz.. i have my reasons and he said he hated his bro more and more and kept going on and i got really mad b-cuz i love my brother and my brother is dead so out of that i said at least your bro didnt fricken die... was saying that totally wrong? i mean he kept going on and on and i wanted my point across and i've never told him it b4 but now he knows and after i said that it was a loooooong silence but then we hung up and he called back and said... i love you... and then we got off the phone with that (link)
hi, well,hmm 1st of i'm soooooo sorry bout ur brothers death...i understand its really hard to loose someone u love...n it must of been hard for u n i understand where u coming from...u did good that u pointed out to him...but sometimes ppl cant appriciate another person till its gone...ur b/f prolly was mad at him or something thats y he kept sayin it but i bet dip inside he loves him...even though he dont admit it or w/e...i understand that it was a long silence 2 he prolly didnt know wut to say to u...n plus u made him think bout wut would happend if he lost his brother *hopefully that never happens EVER* so now he's prolly gonna appriciate his brother more ;) i think its real cute n sweet that he called u back n said i love u...;) i dont think theres anything to worry bout ;) *BEST WISHES* xoxo effy


i have a best friend that told me she moving in 3-4weeks. i wish she wasnt moving, but i dont know what to do. if she moves i'll never get to see her agian or hang out with her. we hang out every day and when she leaves i want get to any more. im really sad. i want to tell her how i feel and i have been but it wont make a diffrence if she moves or not. i cant not make her move, she has all ready bought a house, and selling the one she leaves in now. she my best friend in the whole world. when she leaves i dont know what to do, i'm going to be sad. help me!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
awwwwww i'm sorry i understand how u feel but sometimes in life u just have to accept the fact that lots of ppl are gonna come in ur life n live happy memmories n sad ones 2...sometiems u have to let go of ppl u lov the most cuz u cant do anything bout it...thats just the way life goes..dont worry just call her everyday when she's aways or keep in touch as much as possible so u wont miss her as much...n try to hang out wit other ppl...make new friends...trust me give it sometime n u'll b fine ;) *best wishes* xoxo effy


im hungry n i dont have much...what am i supposed to eat...give me some ideas, oh yeah i want something fast not something thatll take long to cook (link)
eggs,sandwich,u know wut u should do...get pice of bread...(italian bread if posible) n put some olive oil on top (just a lil) put some salt...n some vineger...(or insted of that take a tomatto n squeez it on top of the bread) i bet u 100% u'll love it so give it a try ;) xoxo effy


Perhaps I'm just the stupidest person in the world, but I have this difficulty in making cookies.Normally it's that I add too much of one ingridient, or too little of another, or that I set the oven to the wrong time. My whole family is mad, because we were having a party, and Mom told me to make cookies, except they were quite horrible, and one guest threw-up. Is there anything I can do to fix this problematic situation! (link)
well next time u make cookies...b more carful on wut u add in and b carful n check out the oven n everything :) dats i...BEING CAREFUL IS THE KEY ;) *best wishes* xoxo effy


What is the point of fingering a girl? I heard it was to 'stretch them out' for sex. What is fingering supposed to do? Bring them to orgasm?

Also are handjobs supposed to be done to bring your partner to orgasm?

I am 13, female, and I just wanted to know why you do these things (orgasm, pleasure, stretching, etc.). Thanks! (link)
yah u kinda got it rite...i dunno y they do things like that i guess its just a natural thing that ppl feel the need to do them! usually guys finger the gurl to make it easier for them n make them feel a lil hornier...n handjobs brings ur partener to orgasm..n w/e...its just how it is...u'll understand it better when u gro older ;) xoxo effy


i've gotten really depressed lately. my parents relationship is (excuse my french) going to hell, and my sibs are mixed with alchohol.
my little sis is spoiled like god only knows, and i'm kinda left to life in the middle. i guess my mirror has a little play too... i'm 14, weigh 200lbs, and am 5'7. i'm starting to not eat that much anymore, and i really need some help with this. (link)
dont worry gurl...everything will b fine...everyone got problems...dont stop eating ...u crazy?!?! u gonna get sick...so start eating n if u having trouble eating again then u should see a doctor...xoxo effy *best wishes*


Is there anyway that you can make...down there...taste better? (link)
i dont think there is anyway to make it taste better...i guess u just have to deal wit dat...xoxo effy


this aint a love life question...but here it goes ~~~>everytime i try to burn a cd....it melts...i tryed couple of times but it dont work...keeps on melting...wtf am i doing wrong??!?! also...in another ocasion my computer told me to press "any key" to continue...but i cant find the "any key" to press so acidently i pressed something n KABOOM...i dunno wut happend but i'm scared my computer is gonna blow...oh n one more question b4 my computer blows on my face...i watched southpark and theres this episode where they said its healthy to stick food in yr ass and shit it outta yr mouth.. so u tried it and it didnt work so then...i tried hangin upside down and it still didnt work...wut can i do?
HELP PLZ PLZ ASAP!!! (link)
hahahah ;) nice joke!!! keep it up..xoxo effy


Hi, I'm a 14 year old with some hair touble. Before I was in sixth grade, in had gorgeous, naturally straight, smooth hair. When I got to sixth grade, I found that I had to get up a lot earlier for school, so stupidly I took showers and washed my hair at night, and went to sleep with it still wet. Doing this for an entire year really did a number on my hair, and now it isn't smooth or straight at all, and when I let it dry now without sleeping on it or anything (like I did before sixth grade), it still comes out wiry and frizzy! I've been using a straightener for the past year, but I have to do it every day, and I know that the heat damages my hair (same with blow-drying). I need a solution so that my hair will dry smoothly (without heating) when drying naturally. Please help. (link)
use lots of conditioner..keep on brushin them while ur dryin them up...xoxo effy


im gettin braces in like 2 days, and i was wondering
does it hurt when they put them on?
or does it hurt more a fefw days later?
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it will hurt after 2 dayz or so more..but drink some advil or tylonol n u'll b ok...:) *best wishes* xoxo


k so there is this guy that i work with, he is the cutest nicest most funniest guy ever! the thing is im starting to have feelings for him, we flirt all the time like i always tell him that we're going to get married and everytime hes talking about another girl hes like i cant go out with them cause im saving myself for you. i think hes just being funny, but im really starting to like this guy. Ive been thinking about him all the time ive even started dreaming about him, when we're at work together i alwasy get this urge to just jump him and start kissing him, but the thing is i dont know if he would ever go for it cause there are other girls at work that are soo much prettier then me, and all of is friends that are girls are soo pretty i dont know if i have a chance but im really starting to like him.....PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
hi, well listen n good ~~~~>>GO FOR IT


this isnt really an injury but when i walk my feet crack. you cant hear it with sneakers or slippers on but when i wear flip flops or just socks u can hear it. is there something wrong and how do i make it stop cracking? (link)
go see a doctor!! xoxo effy


I don't wanna clean my room! should I? (link)
if u dont wanna clean it i understand but u need to...if u dont want to clean it ur self then get someone to clean it for u :) xoxo effy


I like this guy but I don't know how to tell him. The only way I can act around him is like mean? What should I doand is this normal? (link)
just flirt wit him...b ur self!! show ur feelings..show ur interesting!!! (guys usually like dat) n if he likes u back...then walaaaaaa just give him some time to ask u out...if he doesnt n ur sure he likes u like crazy...then u pop up the question...:-D good luck!! xoxo effy...




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