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me and my bf were talking last night and he kept saying i hate my brother i wish aron was my bro (thats his cousin) and he kept saying it and saying it and like i hate him i wish he wasnt my brother and i said im glad your bro is your bro and he said why do you always stick up for him? and i said cuz.. i have my reasons and he said he hated his bro more and more and kept going on and i got really mad b-cuz i love my brother and my brother is dead so out of that i said at least your bro didnt fricken die... was saying that totally wrong? i mean he kept going on and on and i wanted my point across and i've never told him it b4 but now he knows and after i said that it was a loooooong silence but then we hung up and he called back and said... i love you... and then we got off the phone with that
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Well, I believe that it was perfectly alright to say that in this situation. However, in other situations, I'm not quite sure that it would be appropriate.
You're boyfriend needed to know that he was lucky to have a brother. What you said "grounded" his ego and his circle logic (I only use this term because I do not know if he had a strong backing to the statement "I hate my brother"). And when I say grounding, I mean it in the sense that he now realized that it could be worse.
Still, I find it odd that he didn't know that your brother had died. I mean, I would think that your boyfriend might have known for that your brother died, but that's off subject.
I think that it was perfectly justified to say what you said. It seemed like he was getting angry at nothing, which is never good. However, I wouldn't use that as an answer to many conversations, but in this conversation, it's fine.
(By the way, I think it's really sweet that he called back. That was probably the best thing he could've said, since it's rather hard to apologize in that situation.)
I hope this helps!
-Guitar Dude-
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honestly, you need to just tell him that he could be gone 2morrow! Being a sister or a brother is like the most important bond/friendship you can have! They are always going to be there for ya when other flake out....tell him that you didnt mean to rub it in his face but that he needs to aprreciate his brother because you never know what can happen. Tell him he is just really lucky, and it would be horrible to grow up and never have a bro to be friends with! i hope i helped and im relly sorry about your loss...xoxo
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This guy sounds like he has some serious issues. Why does he despise his brother? To answer your question,no way you weren't wrong in saying that. A man's brother should be one of his closest friends. I bet his brother doesn't hate him. If he wants his own brother to die,what kind of thoughts do you think he has about you?
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HELL NO THATS NOT WRONG! Seriously i knew this person that she told her sister or someone like that, that she hated them and she left.. and when she came home late that night, someone had burnt their house down and they were dead! Seriously it wasnt wrong at all you got your point acrossed! I hope he just understands it!
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Aww well i think that he might be saying that because his brother might have done something to him .. but i dont think he fully knows what the definiton of hate is.. and its good you told him that because now he knows that some people dont have a brother or sister and hes lucky because he does.
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Hey. No I dont think that was the wrong thing to say because it'll make him think twice about saying that he hates his brother. Because what would he do without his brother.. although they may not get along, he loves him. Because what happens if that happened to his brother. So it makes him think about it. Don't worry about it though!!!
*And sorry about your brother =(
xoxo Kourtney
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i'm sorry bout ur borther...n no u werent wrong at all...u did good that u letted him know that sometimes ppl dont value someone till they lose it...so u did good :)n did nothing wrong xoxo effy
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no i think that was the right thing to say ! he`s tkaing having a brother for granted and he doesn`t realize how truly lucky he is !
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i dont think it was something wrong to say bcuz it probally really made him think of wat would happen if his brother died...thats probally wat all the silence is about. but it is sooooooo sweet how he called you back and told you he luved ya!! awwwwwww!! well hope i helped!!
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Hey !* , well first of all ..your right about that : ) your bf shouldnt hate his bro . i think he is just sick of him right now and thats normal for sibs (siblings) to fight and get on each other's nerves. Its good that your trying to help too . But just make sure you dont get in the middle of or else you could get int rouble or something . I hope this helps ! Good luck -Melissa- :)
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hi, well,hmm 1st of i'm soooooo sorry bout ur brothers death...i understand its really hard to loose someone u love...n it must of been hard for u n i understand where u coming from...u did good that u pointed out to him...but sometimes ppl cant appriciate another person till its gone...ur b/f prolly was mad at him or something thats y he kept sayin it but i bet dip inside he loves him...even though he dont admit it or w/e...i understand that it was a long silence 2 he prolly didnt know wut to say to u...n plus u made him think bout wut would happend if he lost his brother *hopefully that never happens EVER* so now he's prolly gonna appriciate his brother more ;) i think its real cute n sweet that he called u back n said i love u...;) i dont think theres anything to worry bout ;) *BEST WISHES* xoxo effy
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