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I dont know what to do
am in love with a class mate of mine & we have been going out for about one year and her name is evelyn (am 21 years)when we are at an arguing she always says that am tring to end the relationship & that am always looking for mistakes and am now worried to even tell her when something is wrong.
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aww..well u should tell her how u feel...n tell her b/c she tells u "ur tryin to end the relationship and that ur always lookin for mistakes" makes u worried n makes u not tell her when somethin is wrong...so tell her that just b/c u guys have fights n tell eachother wut u think is wrong dont mean ur tryin to end up the relationship...just make it clear to her ;) n everything will b fine ;) *best wishis* xoxo effy
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ok well you should tell her not to be worried about the arguements, and that you wouldnt end it over a silly arguement. but you should always be honest with the other person in ya relationship even if she is going to say stuff like that, just tell her to drop it and that ur not goin to end it b/c u love her too much, all couples fight..so just ease up and be honest with her.. i hope i helped
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Wow, I have been in the SAME boat as you are right now. Look, you really shouldn't be afraid to tell her when something is wrong. If she gets mad that your telling her your problems, then she isn't really there for you anf she isn't really worth it. You should really talk to her about this, and if you really love her, and she really loves you, I think she will understand. But rememeber something, talking solves everything... Good luck.
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I think you should sit Evelyn down, and discuss your problems in this relationship . I think what u 2 basically need to focus on during this relationship is trust issues . They rip through people's relationships like when freddy kills . Tell her what she means to you , and don't try to add stuff in because, when you tell her, she'll know that you care anyway . Take her on a date and discuss all the argueing,and u supposedly looking for mistakes,and tell her how you feel . If all goes well, then reflect upon old memories from your relationship with her . Follow your heart . I hope you rate my advice. Have a nice day !!!
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I'm sure she doesn't mean what she says,she needs time to get her self calm just give her some space and try and work it out but don't say anything you might regret later
bye for now
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