my boyfriend and i have been going out almost a year. we lived in the same state then within the 7th month of us going out he moves then a few months i moved but we still live in different states. we are still going out but now he works and there are girls that like him there. i know i am supose to trust him but it is really hard he tells me he doesnt look at other girls but then he tells me (we are honest with eachother) that he has watched bad stuff on tv i hate to think that he checks out other girls but thats what i think. i am a very negative person. should i just blow off what i think and just trust him or just think that if he finds someone else thats fine i can find someone else too...
You should trust him. Unless he has done something in the past that has made your trust for him a little shaky then you really shouldnt worry. And if for some reason you break up and he does find some one else then yes you should think if he can then so can you.
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when me and my bf both lived in tx we would go to eachothers houses well his parents were really protective of him like we couldnt be under the covers even if we were just hanging out with friends or just out talking to his parents and when he would come to my house my parents could really care less we could be laying on the couch with the covers over us that just didnt care but now that we have both moved when i go visit him his parents and they dont care what we do but my parents are always coming in and telling us to leave the door open so they can walk by and check up on us what the deal? should i tell my parents to back off or just listen to them and do as they say.
I dont really know what is going on but my opinion would be is that your parent may have started to realize that your relationship with your boyfriend is becoming more serious. And maybe is parents are realizing that you two are old enough and mature enough to be trusted to be alone and hang out or whatever it is you may be doing when your together. I dont think that telling them to back off will solve to much but yet only start a fight and maybe suspect them of things going on that you are trying to hide from them, if any. So maybe just maturly ask them if maybe they wouldnt mind checking up on you so often. Try making them know that they can trust you. Prove to them that you are mature enough to have your boyfriend over and be alone with him without them thinking anything is going on between you two. I hope this helps. Good Luck.
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ok im not fat or anything i weight 103 but i think i have some extra tummy fat that i dont want what should i eat and do to lose it?
Just cut back on the amount of food you and exercise. Exercise is the main part of a diet and life.
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the first time i got fingered i started bleeding i mean i wasent poreing out blood but still what happened? did he pop my cherry?
Most likely he just broke your hymen or as you put it popped your cherry. Also he possibly could of just scratched you, but there isnt really anything for you to worry about unless it continues to bleed and will not stop or if it starts to hurt. If this would happen to occur consult a medical personel.
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Hey, I have this friend and well shes obsessed with Ireland. And she also looks Irish, which adds to the obsession. Well she met this guy on an irish-penpal thing and they email and write to eachother. I read one of his letters and he calls her like "Princes Jenny" and all that good stuff. Well, shes going to Ireland and its not just because of the guy. Shes always wanted to go but shes gonna meet him there. Shes 16, hes 21..and I'm kinda worried..I joke around saying "If you get raped, I'll kill you" But I really dont think meeting this guy is a good idea. Should I tell her something or is it not my buisness? Thanks~
well you could tell her how you feel, she may not listen but you can say you tried. if she doesnt listen to you then let her go. After that, what happens is really none of your business. unless she volunteers her information to you then its nothing for you to know about or worry about.
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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?
Heres the scoop:
You cant really get in trouble for dating. But you most definatley can get in trouble for having sex. Since you are not the age of consent, which is 16, then your parents must have given legal consent for you to have sex. I doubt they will give consent for their 13 year old child to have sex at your age, let alone with an 18 year old. But if by chance they would consent and give permission, then you would not be able to charge the 18 year old with statutory rape but with corruption of a minor. However if your parent will not consent they can take the 18 year old for both statutory rape and corruption of a minor. I hope this helps. And this is all the information that you should need for the answer to your question. But if you have any more questions just leave one in my inbox.
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I've just started breeding my male and female zebra finches -she layed 4 eggs a few days ago, one hatched but it's now been 3 days why haven't the other 3 eggs hatched? are they okay?
i couldnt honestly tell you the answer but my guess is they are fine, they just arent ready to hatch. but i dunno!
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okay...well on wednesday i went to church with my boyfriend..well not really we went to his friends house that is right across the street ...and he told his dad he was goin to church...his dad happened to drive by and saw him out of church..he made him leave so i just hung out with my bf's friends..and he called my cell when he got home n he didnt talk 2 me..i was like wats the point of callin you kno? well finally he was like WELL ILL JUST LET U GO HAVE FUN WITH THEM...and he hung up..the next day he called n apologized....he was like "im sry its just that i dont c u alot and i was mad at my dad for making me leave u" i was like its arite...well on friday we planned to do somethin today..saturday...and he called me n changed the plans to goin to c a movie @ 6....he sed hed call me back with the information lyke wat theater n movie we wer gonna c...he sed this @ 12 30 today....AND HE NEVER CALLED ME BACK!...i cleaned to get money n erything....and i cancelled everthing i had goin ontoday to c him...and he never called...and then friday (yesterday) he sed he was in trouble from wat happened on wednesday so he couldnt do nothin or go nowhere....but i called him later that nite...AND HE WAS GONE! i called like 2 times n his parents wer like o no hes not here hes gone for the nite...idk wats up with him....wat do u think i shuld do...im really mad about the movie thing....=\
Well call him or when he calls you or something, just when ever yins talk try to do the same thing he did to you. and then call himmlater that day and tell him you were just mad about the way he treated you. If he truely cares about you then he will try and find out whats wrong and whats bothering you on his own. good luck
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alrite..well my problem started a while ago. so let me start at the beginning.. i used to be able to do anything in front of anyone and be okay with it..i love being stupid! it's fun.. i never used to get embarrassed.. but lately i have been getting embarrassed about EVERYTHING!! if someone asks me for a hug, i get embarrassed..if i feel like i'm being judged (which is all the time) i get embarrassed.. and sometimes even when i don't feel embarrassed my face turns red.. and i can tell b/c i feel my face getting hot.. which makes me think about it, and then i end up getting embarrassed b/c my face turned red (for no reason)and then it gets even more red, and i hate it..i'm so afraid to even talk to people sometimes b/c i'm afraid they will say something or i'll mess up and get embarrassed and then they'll laugh at me..i'm never comfortable around people anymore, espcially meeting new people! and idk what to do!!!!!!! help me pleeeeeeease! (i also never feel good enough, and i think i'm fat and ugly..but i only weigh 107 lbs and people tell me i'm gorgeous/hott/pretty/beautiful all the time) but yeah i just need help on how not to care what people think about me..sorry this is sooo long!!
it is prolly just a phase you going through. It is most likely hormones. Just quit telling yourself that your fat and ugly and when you are talking to someone keep a positive thought about something in your head. Try not to think about anything that will make you feel embarrassed. If someone laughs at you or says something to you just let it go. ignore them. or make up a comeback that will embarass them. It might sound childish but it might work. But just try and ingore them. they arent worth it.
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how do u make out?? i know w. ur lips but like do always use tounge r like kiss each others lips??idk! i have a b/f who tryed to make a move on me but i like turned my head its like cum on kiss me but when he goes to do it im like really scared..i guess its b/c idk how
Yes, you use tongue. Just follow him and youll have nothing to worry about. Its not a hard to do. It will come as a natural
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ok so love this guy soo much! and he's one of my really good friends. i wanna tell him i like him more then a friend//but i dont know if i should cuz i dont know if he likes me back as more than a friend and i dont want to create something akward between us! please help me. should i tell him i like him or not???
Just tell him. Youll never really know how he feels or what will happen between yins unless you try. If you dont want to be blunt about it and just spill your guts then try a casual conversation with him.
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I have a major crush on this guy at my school. I've known him for awhile because i cheered for his football team for 3 years. I like him a lot but.. he likes my other friend. She's my, well one of, my best friends, and she's falling for him to. Should I still like him or like what should I do?
yea you can still like him. You cant make your self not like someone. Just use this as a way to get closer with him and to see if he is really all that great as a boyfriend. Just try to become really good friends with him. Use this situation as an advantage to you.
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So I am going out with this guy and my family doesn't know about it because they dont like him. I've mentioned this in my other questions. Well it seems like we are in an ongoing competition to make the other one jealous and its getting on my nerves! im not trying to make him jealous but he really doesnt like one of my close guy friends! He says I talk about him all the time and i know for a fact that i don't! and even if i did hes just my friend! So he deals with this buy talking about these different girls he's been with! Well i guess i just don't know what to do about it! Can you help me out?
You both need to realize that it is stupid and that it needs to stop. If you want to be with him then let him know and if not then let him go. There is nothing else to do about it, unless you do what other people say to do by "talking to him and letting him kow ow you feel. tell him you want it to stop because you just want to be together."
But whatever, the choose is yours. Either way you two are going to realize it is a stupid thing to fight over and to be jealous over.
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When I was 13 I found out that I have a sister that had been put up for adoption. I had grown up thinking that I had two sisters and it was devistating to think that I had another one that I may never know and be able to love. So, I swore that one day I would find her. Back in March I did find her. I had searched for so long that I really felt that I would never find her and when I did I was afraid that since I grea up in a dysfunctional family and we weren't wealthy or anything that we wouldn't be good enough for her. Well, she is wonderful. We went through the DNA testing and when we found out it was just amazing. She came out for a visit in April and since then I have gone to see her twice. We live in seperate states. The two sisters and I that grew up together have the same father but she (2nd to the oldest) has a different father. My father is dead now (long story) but our mother is still living. Mom has a long history of drug abuse and she does not want my Sister to know about it.
This is my question. I think that she is noticing that Mom isn't as close to her as she is our oldest and youngest sisters. They e-mail and Mom calls about once a month or so but she and I talk weekly and on the internet every night. The other two sisters rarely e-mail her and they don't call her. I know that she doesn't feel as connected to the family as she would like to and I feel responsible because I was the one that went looking for her. There are times that she tells me that it really hurts her feelings and I am not sure what to say.
I love her so much, she is just fantastic and had a terrible life growing up. Her adopted Dad wound up in prison and her adopted Mom comitted suicide when she was a teenager. I know that she has abandonment issues because of all of that and now I am scared that meeting her bio family is just adding to those issues because of their distance. I wouldn't take for knowing and having the chance to be in my sister's life and her in mine but sometimes I feel so guilty for causing her even more grief.
Did I do the right thing by finding her or was I just being selfish because I missed her so much being in my life? I am just afraid that my love for her just isn't enough to make up for all of the time that she has done without and now that she has found her bio family that maybe the dream of what they were was better than what we are.
Confusing and long I know but anyone with input would be appreciated.
I dont think you did any wrong by wanting to know your own sister. Just think that if you wouldnt have went and look and wouldnt have given a rats ass about it, you wouldnt have a relationship so close to her and maybe later in life you would have regretted not even caring to look for her. When she tells you how bad it hurts, tell her about the childhood you had. Let her know that your family wanst the best either. I dont think that it is so much grief your causing her as much as happiness for having you. I think she is glad to have you , have someone to talk to about things and someone who really cares. So good luck ! i wish the two of you the best of luck with everything.
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my brother smokes pot and well he is 21 and he has done drugs since about 5th grade and i know he does it but he wont just come out and say it his friend is so stupid he got high of a air can while me and my little sister were ther in the room right next to them and my brother made up that he might have just had a cesure should i tell him that i know he does drugs and i think it is stupid or just keep quiet and not get involved please help i am worried about him
just be like i know what your doing , dont lie to me about it and just let it go. other then saying that you shouldnt get into it. And depending on what all drungs he is on, if it is just pot, then he wont die like someone else said. It is a known fact that you dont die from pot. No one ever has. But my personal opinion would be to jsut let it go and not get yourself involved.
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(I'm a 16 yr old girl) Me and my 2 bffs are throwing a halloween party for 15-20 of our friends. We are having it at one of my 2 bff's house- a million dollar mansion! How should we decorate it? I was thinking it'd be so much fun to do a murder mystery- but is that too juvenile? What activities should we do? Anything else you want to add would be great too. I'll rate if it helps!
Luv Y'all!
Becks
Its not too juvenile. If its what you want and what your friends want then go for it. If its not try and sit down together and hear their ideas and plan the best one. You could tell horror stories, and watch some horror movies, play some games, do the usual things you would at a party. Get the people going to dress up in costume. and if your friends parents are going to be there or even you three people (you and 2 bffs) could judge the best costume and give out some silly or stupid little prize. As a joke or something like that. hope this helps. Good Luck and Have Fun!
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since halloween is coming up me n all my friends are going to my friends house and my friends coming thats a year younger than us buts hes rlly our age....since we like eachother how could i get him to make out with me
Play a game of seven minutes in heaven and set it up. Or just plain out go for it. Dont try and plan anything to much because then it will be wierd. Just kiss him and start making out.
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How long can sperm live outside of the body?
i dont know.
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ok... well theres this boy named dave. and he likes me. everyday in school he flirts with me and i flirt back nothing harmful. but today when he asked me about homecoming i told him i was going with some friends. he wanted me to be his date but didnt state that. well he asked me if i liked him b4 and i said jus as a friend and ijust got out of a relationship that im still upset about and im not over my ex nor do i want to be. so with telling him i jus want to be friends and that im not ready for anything and that maybe ill see him at homecoming... was it the right way to handle it? i felt bad bc i dont like to hurt ppls feelings and he is nice and everything.. but im not into him.. did i handle it ok?
You handled it fine. If your not ready for a relationship the he should understand that. Or if you both wanted just go to homecoming together as friends.
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I have this friendin 6 th grade and a sister in 8th, my friend likes my sis. He said that she was hot( no lie). He said it right in my face...i told him i felt like barfing and i dont want him to get 2 close to my sis. Am i being 2 defensive about my sis?
yeah
As for my rating of a two, i dont mind.. but your comment... i just wanted to answer you question:
"think it in yourcase how would you feel if someone said your sister was sexy and hot"
Well my answer to that would be
Hey, You wanna try to get the hookup with her?
i wouldnt care. and neither should you. So grow up and get over it. because i am sure this person will not be the only one and IS not the only one saying your sister is hot. Maybe a little jealous cause they arent saying it about you? Aww... poor baby, thats too bad.
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