So I am going out with this guy and my family doesn't know about it because they dont like him. I've mentioned this in my other questions. Well it seems like we are in an ongoing competition to make the other one jealous and its getting on my nerves! im not trying to make him jealous but he really doesnt like one of my close guy friends! He says I talk about him all the time and i know for a fact that i don't! and even if i did hes just my friend! So he deals with this buy talking about these different girls he's been with! Well i guess i just don't know what to do about it! Can you help me out?
Michelley answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:18 am: Tell him if you talk about the other guys, its just because they're your friends. Doesn't he ever talk about his friends? And if I was you I'd be extremely mad about him telling me about all the girls hes been with. Tell him you don't think that has anything to do w.y'alls relationship and it's making you really mad. If he says its payback or whatever for you talking about your guy friends, I'd stay away from him. He sounds like an idiot and your family probably doesn't like him for a reason. But talk it over with him first, maybe hes going through smthn rough w.other friends or his family and hes just really angry and hes taking it out on you. Find out whats going on and hopefully you can work it out. And maybe try mentioning your GIRL friends a little more so he doesn't get jealous
butterfly99808 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:01 am: Ok well you should either break up with him or you could talk to him about it tell him that like your not tryin to make him jealous and stuff like that. =]
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mysticpixie05 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 9:56 am: You both need to realize that it is stupid and that it needs to stop. If you want to be with him then let him know and if not then let him go. There is nothing else to do about it, unless you do what other people say to do by "talking to him and letting him kow ow you feel. tell him you want it to stop because you just want to be together."
Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday October 10 2004, 8:26 am: tell him you want this to stop. Say its stupid and you wanna just be together not getting eachother jealous. Tell him you'll stop with talk about this guy if he stops talking about these other girls. Then give him like a kiss or a hug or something just so its an official makeup not a fight lol. gl [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
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