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Embarrassed
alrite..well my problem started a while ago. so let me start at the beginning.. i used to be able to do anything in front of anyone and be okay with it..i love being stupid! it's fun.. i never used to get embarrassed.. but lately i have been getting embarrassed about EVERYTHING!! if someone asks me for a hug, i get embarrassed..if i feel like i'm being judged (which is all the time) i get embarrassed.. and sometimes even when i don't feel embarrassed my face turns red.. and i can tell b/c i feel my face getting hot.. which makes me think about it, and then i end up getting embarrassed b/c my face turned red (for no reason)and then it gets even more red, and i hate it..i'm so afraid to even talk to people sometimes b/c i'm afraid they will say something or i'll mess up and get embarrassed and then they'll laugh at me..i'm never comfortable around people anymore, espcially meeting new people! and idk what to do!!!!!!! help me pleeeeeeease! (i also never feel good enough, and i think i'm fat and ugly..but i only weigh 107 lbs and people tell me i'm gorgeous/hott/pretty/beautiful all the time) but yeah i just need help on how not to care what people think about me..sorry this is sooo long!!
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well it seems like you're still ok with being stupid to me.
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ok well personally i think that you are yourself and you cant change who you are. so just try not to get embarrassed bc if they were your friends they wouldnt be mean or make fun of you adn even if they do im sure they are just playing around. but i think its just something your going through right now and it will pass over. just try to have lots of self confidence and be yourself again. i hope i helped! -kayla
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it is prolly just a phase you going through. It is most likely hormones. Just quit telling yourself that your fat and ugly and when you are talking to someone keep a positive thought about something in your head. Try not to think about anything that will make you feel embarrassed. If someone laughs at you or says something to you just let it go. ignore them. or make up a comeback that will embarass them. It might sound childish but it might work. But just try and ingore them. they arent worth it.
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hey im 13 and u no wut i do that and i thought it was just me but ya it is just ur hormones goin haywire and all dont think ur fat that is a bad thing to do cause then u get really depresses and i dont want that to happen so dont think about that jsut say that i am god dame sexy! and keep sayin that! well if u think that u r bein judge then just try and not think aout that maybe go out and buy some new clothes and wear them maybe that will help
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