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my boyfriend and i have been going out almost a year. we lived in the same state then within the 7th month of us going out he moves then a few months i moved but we still live in different states. we are still going out but now he works and there are girls that like him there. i know i am supose to trust him but it is really hard he tells me he doesnt look at other girls but then he tells me (we are honest with eachother) that he has watched bad stuff on tv i hate to think that he checks out other girls but thats what i think. i am a very negative person. should i just blow off what i think and just trust him or just think that if he finds someone else thats fine i can find someone else too...
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Well this seem more along the lines of a trussting-you-heart-issue...because if you feel to the point where its killing you that you dont knonw wahts going on with him then maybe breaking up is the ebst, but if you dont think you'll be able to move in without him and you really really think that you can learn to truyst him then work on that, Trust is one of the most popular things learned in relationships, and by shwoing him that you can trust him, it will make him feel better about himself and you guys being together, and then he will trust you, cause you ever stopped to think he may feel the same, casue chances are he has, but he is a guy so he most liekly wont say much about it, but just let him know that he can trust you, if you both love each other, then i am sure this will all work out, I really hope i helped!!! let me know if you need anything else!
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i think that if you have a feeling that he's lieing or is cheating dump him.But if he hasn't done anything in the past then i wouldn't worry bout anything.
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You should trust him. Unless he has done something in the past that has made your trust for him a little shaky then you really shouldnt worry. And if for some reason you break up and he does find some one else then yes you should think if he can then so can you.
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