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ugh i put eyeliner on and it looks good for like, i dont know, an hour? after that you cant even see it it just like goes away lol. but when i wash my face at night its all smeared, so i know it's there. for spring pics i want to actually be able to tell its there. how can you make it stay/be more noticable.
thanks

ps: i put it riigghight above my bottom lashes

Lemme' know if you already do this or if you dont and now you see that it works. It does for me... Put on powder before you do your eyeliner like Covergirl, Maybelline it doesnt matter what brand but the powder makes your eyeliner stay in place for longer periods. The natural oils in your face is whats making the eyeliner "fade" alot quicker. Another tip, take your makeup sponge that you use liquid makeup with and go over your lips as well, it makes your lipstick stay on longer to.

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(sorry for the wrong category)
But i've been wondering if theres like a program were you can put like pictures and make them look better. and like put differant frames around them and such. if you know any that i can download that'd be great, but i need something that wont screw up my computer.

thanks =)

www.photoexplosion.com Its awesome for editing pics, making them bigger, smaller, putting frames around em', makin certificates,... it keeps me busy for hours at all the cool stuff you can do.

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Aside from flowers poems letters notes what are good ways to win a girls heart. I mean really melt her heart. We broke up but I still love her. I dont want to lose her. Any ideas. I ran out of ideas. Something(s) a girl cant resist. Im not good with what women desire or what melts there heart. Your advice tips etc will be highly appreciated and I will rate you high.

I read what everyone else wrote and being a girl myself, Ima' tell you choclate wouldnt make me take you back if you really screwed up. One thing my boyfriend did for me ( we werent broken up thou but it was just a out of the blue type deal) was he wrote 30 things he loved about me and on a seperate sheet he entitled it "all the things I hate about Kristen" and the page was empty lol but It seriously made me cry at all the things he wrote there were soooooo sweet! Give that a try and at the bottom of the page write this, it works everytime: "If you give me another chance I'll spend the rest of my life making you glad that you did."

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At the end of ht year we have 8th grade graduation. anyyways,sowe ahve to where what ever were wearing to graducation all day to school, so . i am doing my hair. and i ham waring a rpetty deress and stuff but how should i do my hair? my hair spast my shoulders nad i can make it relay straight or super curly. so anyways giv eme some nice ideas that i can do at home.

thanks..
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ps. donttell me to go get it done thxx

Go to www.1001hairstyles.com

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okay! so i have a bunch of problems!
i've been sorta melested! and abused in some ways!
its sooo easy for me to give people advice! but when i see people with like the same problems as me and i give them adivce i just cant understand it enough for it to help me! like i used to cut myself..i stop i started again last week! then today i read that its a sin! i had no idea! and now i feel so bad! and nothing i do gets better...ever! so could someone please give me any advice to help me!

I see where you coming from by saying you can give out good advice but cant give your self none. I too am that way. For starters you need to know what compells you to make you want to cut. I suspect from a traumatic childhood (you mentioned you were molested) So you have to deal with that first. Go talk to a guidance counselor or some other adult that you trust and let them know what happened, perhaps getting it off your chest and making peace with the past will help you a great deal with not cutting anymore.

Cutting is what experts call an unhealthy coping mechanism. This means that the people who do it have not developed healthy ways of dealing with strong emotions, intense pressure, or upsetting relationship problems.

These substitute behaviors won't work for everyone. They also don't help people get in touch with why they are cutting. What they do is provide immediate relief in a way that doesn't involve cutting, and therefore holds less risk of harm.

*Rub an ice cube on your skin instead of cutting
*Wear a rubber band around your wrist and snap it gently against your skin
*Draw on the skin with a soft-tipped red pen in the place you might usually cut

Take a sec and visit this website, I think it might help ya' even if it's just a little bit.

http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/cutting.html

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okay stright to the point! im 14/f
my brother has done some pretty bad things to me! he hasnt all the way raped me! but done enough to bother me and it depress me! i also have a bad home life with like my dad.. i've talk to a close teacher about it. he got me to talk to the conslor..which made me talk to the school social worker! i hated tlaking to her! i told my teacher who i was close with that i didnt want to ever talk to her again! he promised me he wouldnt make me do anything i didnt want to! well the other day i was updating him because he told me to when ever i needed to! i told him i rather not have him tell the conslor so i wouldnt have to talk to the socail woker! he sad he wouldnt! but he ended up tellin anyways!.. so then i had to sit in a room with the social worker again!! after he told i made me feel so bad.. ike i dont want to hate him! he was the only one i could trust! so after school i went up to him and said why did you tell! he said he had to! so i looked at him and walked away1 he didnt bother to say anything else!
and now im confused. now i dont know if i can trust him or if he even cares about this! please someone what do i do now???

I know what your going through...to some point. From my eyes, he told to protect you and help you. The same way you would if your best friend swore you to secrecy then told you that her dad beats and rapes her all the time. You wouldnt be a good friend if you didn't tell!! I hope thats a good enough example to help you better see why he chose to tell. Have a talk with him, he was only doing what he thought was right.

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Well recently my best freind told me that she no longer wanted to be my friend just because i wasnt pretty enough and all most everyone has to disagree with that she also told me i didnt have enough money because i could never go out to the mall movies ect.. very often cuz i never had the money. Then she wrote me a note in class today and said you dont have a good enough body to be my friend im only friends with people that weigh less than 103pounds! SO what should i do to prove to her i am a good person even though i dont have as much money to spend as she does? Should i start skipping meals to loose weight? Should i duble my gumnastics classes i mean i go once a week for 3.5 hours and its really expencive so how do i prove it to her? Please help!!!!!

Alyssa/13/f

Let me give it to you str8 This girl has no right to say these things to you. You dont need anyone like that in your life. period. You deserve better than that sweetie. You do not ever in your life have to PROVE to someone your self-worth. I really hope you realize this and soon. Would you do that to a person? Nope didnt think so, so dont except her behavior. Write her a note back and tell her that sorry but I cant be friends with a effen retard! and no I dont think I should have to do anything to make you want to be my friend im str8 without you. It'll be hard but maybe it will make her "wake up" to what a bit#h she's bein'

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About 2 years ago I met a man..We started out as friends, very close friends..After awhile feelings started developing on both sides. He told me from the beginning he wanted to enlist in the Army. I tried to talk him out of it..But you really can't mess with someone's dream. Things didn't work out between us for various reasons, one being that I didnt want to move with him when he moved to TX later this year. I spoke to him tonight for the first time in quite awhile. He is off for training tomorrow all the way on the other side of the nation. He'll be back in 2 months..I feel like crap. He's so happy..Almost a different person. That's not why I feel so bad, I'm happy for him. But I really miss him. He was in basic for the last 2 months and we didn't speak at all. I always thought of him but was too scared to contact him. I just worked up the guts tonight and tried it, just for the hell of it. So it was a shocker when he told me he was leaving tomorrow. We discussed what happened with us a little bit..Then he said he had to get up early and said he hoped to talk to me again soon. If I didn't contact him I would have never known. I probably wouldn't have talked to him again, since hes moving to TX after he gets back..I feel like its too late. Like theres nothing I can do now but part of me would just leave everything behind here and follow him. Is that crazy? Would I be crazy to do that? For all I know we might still have the same problems. I miss him like hell...and deep down I feel like i'd be making a HUGE mistake if didn't just..Up and leave here. And go with him when he returns. But at the same time I think of my education, my career, my family...I don't know what kind of advice I want. I don't know..opinions, thoughts, input, anything you've got..23/female. Thanks.

I to am 23 and am engaged to a man in the military. It sucks when he has to leave, And he's off seeing new things and im stuck here same shit different day but if I have to do it all over again? I'd do it in a heartbeat. Take this time while he is doing his basic training and write him a heart felt letter and send it to him. It is a big sacrifice to marry or be with someone in the military, army and so forth, but if you love em' then that's what will get you through it. Good Luck.

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Hi. I'm female (obviously) and I'm 16 years old.

I think I might have a yeast infection, but what are the symptonms, and could it possibly be something else?

Thanks.

The biggest cause of infections is lowered immunity. This can happen when you get run down from doing too much and not getting enough rest.

Symptoms of yeast infection include:
-Vaginal itching and irritation
-Unusual vaginal discharge, often white and thick
-Vaginal pain during intercourse
-Burning sensation during intercourse

Is there a treatment or cure for yeast infection?

A variety of effective treatments are available from single-dose treatment to treatment courses of 3-7 days. Yeast infections can be treated and cured with antifungal medication, which can come in the form of tablets, vaginal suppositories, or cream. When using antifungal vaginal creams or suppositories, remember that those preparations are oil-based and will weaken latex condoms and diaphragms.

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Okay im 15 and there this guy that i have a big crush on hes 19 and he is really hot and sweet and he treats me really good me and him have been goin out on and off for a year and we cant b with out each other we had a date last night he came to my place last night when my parents werent home and we almost had sex but i didnt no if i was ready so i told him that i didnt want to do it now and he said that i was a waste of his time and told me not to call him and he wont call me and today i was walking my dog this guy asked me if he could come over (ive known him for a year and a half)and i said sure and we walked my dog and went back to my place and he asked me if i would ever do it with him and i said i didnt know and then his brother called and asked for the guy (we'll call him bob)to come get him up from school and he said he wil so he left and he left me feeling so bad and speech less kissed me and walked out.
DO YOU THINK IM READY TO HAVE SEX OR WAIT TILL I FIND MR RIGHT.
help me i really need to know

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE wait! These guys are jerks. Any guy that would say that you are waste of his time because you said you werent ready to have sex is a waste of YOUR time. You deserve so much more than that. You deserve for you first time to be with someone that you love and LOVES YOU BACK. It will be so much more special to you. I can not believe he said that, some guys are a total waste of oxygen. Leave him alone, its the best thing you can do. Wait for Mr. Right you'll know it's him because when your around him your heart will beat faster and slower at the same time :)

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I have a problem that doesn't sound like a problem to anyone, which makes it hard to seek advice from anyone I know.

I have really big penis, thickness more than length, and this causes me a lot of problems in my love life. I have hurt some of my partners without meaning to, buying condoms is nigh impossible as they are far too constricting being designed for a slimmer girth, with more 'dainty' partners oral is difficult and other things are simply out of the question.

Some women find it intimidating enough that they won't even sleep with me or we get to that stage and then they back away or don't want to see me any more.

Talking to friends is impossible, most guys think there can't be a problem and talking to female friends about it hasn't gone well with fits of giggles or accusations that I'm boasting somehow.

I've tried lubricant, I've ordered larger size condoms online but they tend to be longer as well as thicker and don't fit right. Is surgery an option?

I'm entering into a much longer term relationship and I want to make sure I'm not imposing on or hurting my partner as much as possible.

Please help, I'm at my wit's end.

Hi, I am the girl thats fixing to marry the guy with the same "problem" as you. There's nothing you can do to make it smaller that is except for maybe surgery, not to sure about that. We have been together for going on 16 months and still when were fixing to "do the deed" lol he has to be very slow like it's my first time. After a bit, everythings fine and runnin like it's supposed to. Make sure that she is very "lubed" up b4 you enter, this will make it easier on her so because of your size let's hope you love foreplay because your going to have to do it alot to get your girl wet enough to where it wouldnt hurt as much. Have you tried Magnum Extra Large or is it to long? If they dont fit which I suspect they wont, tell her to go on the pill and just pull out.

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My husband's parents recently brought up the idea of buying a large piece of property in my town so they, my husband and I, and my brother-in-law and his family can all live together. We will each have our own house on the property so it will be something like a family commune.

I'm against the idea. They tend to be nosy and don't see a problem with dropping in unannounced and expecting to be entertained. There is also the fact that they do not like me and go out of their way to make sure I know that. They have went so far as to tell me that I'm a bad wife and tell my husband he made a mistake marrying me. I have told my husband that if they do move here, I want to move somewhere else. He is also against the idea. He sees their obvious dislike of me and also doesn't like the idea of the loss of privacy. I spoke to my sister-in-law and she said that she and her husband are against the idea as well. She also mentioned that she would want to move if they move here.

My problem is this: no one will tell my in-laws that they don't like the idea. I'm afraid that if no one says something, my in-laws are going to take that as acceptance of their idea and go forward with it. They already have started the search for property. Once they buy the property, we'll all feel obligated to move onto it, even though it's going to make us miserable. My husband and his brother say that they can't stop them if they want to move here. If I or my sister-in-law say something, we run the risk of being accused of keeping them from their sons and grandchildren.

How would you handle a situation like this?

This is a very tricky situation your in and you know what you have to do and the outcome probably isnt going to come out the way you want it to. Your just going to have to tell them how ALL of yall feel, not just you. Living with or near family when your married and have your own life is a big NO-NO it never ever ever works out for the best.It will probably end up causeing a wedge between you and your husband and you dont want that. So make a sacrifice and tell her in the nicest way how you and your husband, his brother & wife all feel. The brothers really should be the ones to tell there parents that but I can see why they dont. So your choices are: Cause some hurt feelins with the in laws and keep your marriage or live near them and have there nosey butts over there all the time and you and your husband miserable. Good luck girl

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I have been with this girl for 4 months now. We have everything in common. We loved eachother very much. We did everything together. We were soulmates. However, She has seen a pornsite on my computer and has broken down and left me saying we are only seperated. I am not addicted. I normal male like all others whose curiosity got the better of him. I have told her That I got rid of the net. That I promise never to do it again that i want to spend the rest of my life with her. i cried when she left. It has been almost two weeks now. How can I win her back. How can i get her to give us a second chance. I lover her and she was all I had. Please help me. I can't go on without her.

Wow this sure does happen alot, guy screws up girl leaves guy realizes what he had. Not trying to be hard on you what you did was kind of minor but still it hurt her feelings. Alot of women see that as cheating to some point because thou your not with these girls, your watching them, your enjoying it and your prolley getting hard or jacking off to it. Put yourself in her shoes. Go ahead and give her a call and let her know you got rid of your computer because you love her that much and thou you made a mistake, its one that will never happen again. Best of Luck

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I share a bathroom with my 10 yearold sister and we keep our waste basket in the closet so my dog doesn't get to it. Everytime I get my period, i make sure i push my trash all the way to the bottom and close the closet door. BUT m sister always leaves the door open. My dog gets bloody tampons and the drags them around the house. My dad is getting disgusted and so am I! He blames it on me because of course its mine, not my moms. He says things like "You know the only thing that disgusts me is your bloody tampons" Its so embarassing!! How can I deal with this? My sister is an effin lazy ass.

Tampons are FLUSHABLE!! just not the applicator or the plastic wrap but yea girl the tampon itself...flush that joker lol

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I am 14 yrs. old, 5ft 3in, and 140lbs. I am soooo fat. I used to weigh more and lost a little weight which got me to where I am today but I am still extremly fat!!!! For some reason I can't lose any more weight, why can't I lose any more weight? This is so aggrivating! Please help. Thanks

Your EXTREMLY FAT? wow I've never looked at a 140lb person and just looked at my friends and said hey look at that fat whale over there!! Girl, your stressin' to much and your bein way to hard on yourself. The reason your having trouble losin any more weight is your metabolism is to low, to bring it back up high eat 6 small meals a day, trust me it works. good luck and plz dont be so hard on yourself.

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i love my gf so much but im afraid that i will blow up if i dont tell her how much i love her
can this happen? how often does it happen will it have any side effects god i love her so much and i cant wait to marry her am i whipped is bein whipped a good thing

lol aw. I love you baby...cant wait to get married to you!! And no I don't think you'll blow up lol

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I accidently left my favorite water bottle filled with juice at work over the weekend, and now I can't get rid of the 'rotten smell'. But I don't want to just throw it away - I am quite attached to it.

Is there a way to get a 'bad smell' out of plastic containers?

Put hot water and 2 tablespoons of baking soda in it. shake it up a bit and let it sit for 30 minutes then shake it up and empty it then wash with dish detergent that should get rid of the smell..

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How can you tell if a girl has a potential interest in you and does resting her head on your shoulder signify anything? Also, what if she lays with you on the grass with her head resting on your stomach without a care in the world of what a group of friends think?

Rick- Age: 18 / Gender: Male

Oh yea congratulations!! She totally like you!! You make the next step now and ask her out good luck! P.S. you writing Rick-Age: 18/Gender: Male
was a awesome thing to do. wish that everyone that asked for advice would do that to, sometimes it really helps in giving advice to a person

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well my gf is 18 aswell but not only that she thinks she cant cum is that she hates oral on her she likes doing it to me but i cant do it to her and i never tryed it with her, what else .... shes REALLY shy and i dont no why she is ???? like when we have sex it has to be pitch black and i meant until the point wher u dont know wher your hands are. like i have to cover the vcr light the sterio light literaly everything in the room

Whoa! I was the same way when I was younger, I wasnt like a whale or nothing but I didn't have the body of a barbie so I couldnt let noone see it, I mean they might have gone blind ya know? lol j/k Tell her how beatiful she is and that while yall are having sex you need atleast a lil light to see what your doin! and doin' it in COMPLETE darkness cant be as much fun! Go get a night light & tell her "Just this lil' bit of light at least so I can see what I'm doin'" then gradually go from there increasing the light. Reassure her how beatiful you think she is and that you L O V E her body. I bet she would love oral, some girls just get scared at first with a guy down there, they worry if it will smell and taste to his liking ya know? Um if ya got a few bucks to spare, go to your Walmart and on the isle with the perfume is lotion by Jessica Simpson its like $10 bucks a bottle. It's edible lotion and smells really good my boyfriend loves it on me. I think with this, she might be more comfortable with you going down on her. She can put the lotion ANYWHERE if you get my drift. Let her know that just as much as you enjoy recieving oral that you LOVE to give it to..

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Ok I have a great bf and love him but my ex bf who is also my best friend got a new gf and idk why but it hurts..i mean it shouldnt but it does cause i keep imaging she's so much prettier and better IDK WHY!! is this normal? thanks

Yea girl what your feeling is totally normal!! You have a disease lol it's called: "I don't want him but don't want no one else to have him" disorder Don't worry honey every girl has gone throu this at least once in her life. You had precious moments with this guy and even thou you both know it's over it's still going to hurt just because of the memories yall have shared together.

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