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so is it normal to have like discharge on your panties on a normal basis?
mine used to be like whiteish.
but now its like brownish? what is that?!?! (link)
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Could be a number of things but don't panic.
If it's a whiteish it could be a discharge.
If It's brownish it could be a yeast infection.
Both Treatable, I would suggest seeing a doctor.
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Random question, I know, I know :)
I was wondering, would it be really strange/weird if I went to a drugstore just to buy tampons?
I'm not sure...I was just wondering...
Or should I buy some shampoo or something aswell?
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It's not weird at all, It's nothing to be embarrassed about either. Nature happens to us all. If you feel uncomfortable going in the store to buy the tampons yourself then bring a friend along :)
Bahaima22
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does anybody have any ideas of what i could be for halloween iam a 19 year old female if that helps. (link)
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Go with what you like, On Halloween there are no limitations to what you can and can't be no matter what age you are!
I'm 23 years old and I love Halloween too, So I'll give out a few ideas of mine. :)
Female Cop?
Sexy Devil..?
Dead Bride? Or you could just google (Halloween Costumes) in Images I'm sure you will find some awesome ideas there too. :)
Have a great (Early) Halloween!!
Bahaima22
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im 28 years old and i like to gamble but when i spend my moneymy mom gets mad at me for spending it. i realize i need to quit spending all of it but i dont know when to stop. can someone give me some advice on this it would be appreciated. thank you (link)
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I have a money problem too.
The first step is realizing you have a problem. Set yourself a goal. Do not go anywhere you can gamble no more casinos etc. Try giving yourself an amount of money you will spend a day put the rest in the bank and don't touch it. Only buy what you need, Treat yourself once in a blue moon but don't go crazy over something that is not worth having.
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i heard that when you go on birth control, there is a certain amount of weight gain. is this true? if so, how much? are there any other side effects? (link)
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Different birth control works differently on different people. However, The only thing I can tell you is I was on Depo-Provera for 4 years which is the shot you get every three months. I gained a total of 60 lbs in 4 years just to answer that little quick question for you. I don't know about the other birth controls that one is basically the only one I have used besides the one I'm currently on which is the Marena "IUD" I have not gained any weight from it and it's almost been a year now.
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hi im trying to find some good books to read.
ive read a lot of books and i read everything that my friends suggest and thats a lot of books. l0l
anyways i need some books to read that are 7th grade level and higher (im a really good reader, so preferrably higher levels). i like books that have drama, or ficional history like forever amber, stuff about school, boyfriends, backstabbers, sex, drugs, money, sports, basically anything.
please tell me what its about and/or the author.
any advice is greatly appreciated =] (link)
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Hi there,
Try this website, It's a free website that has great books you can read online for free.
http://dailylit.com/
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so let me just say that im 16 years old and so is my boyfriend and im about 99.9% sure im pregnant im taking a test when i get paid in couple days but my boyfriend and i had sex when i was ovulating we were using a condom but he must have not put it on right because it broke and we didnt notice it until after he came .. anyways
i need to tell him and my parents, my mom will be upset a bit but she would get over it quickly and i know she would help me she already said if i every got in this situation she would and im not worried about telling my parents its my boyfriend im worried about he has this whole plan to go to college and graduate and start a business and if we had a baby together at 16 then thats going to change, his parents are the opposite of mine, they don't like me to much because i dont go to church.. and they told him if he got me pregnant he would have to drop out of school and it would ruin his life and i just feel bad my friends said its not all my fault but i just feel like it is and i dont want him to have to ruin his plan he has and ah im just so stuck what should i do or say?? (link)
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Tell your boyfriend once you know for sure like the last person said. However, If you are pregnant whether your boyfriend has plans for the future or not he should be beside you 100% supporting you and the child. After all, it takes two to get in that situation he is just as responsible. Everyone's future changes when they have a baby, It's a part of life. Things don't always happen the way we hope. Life takes it's crazy turns sometimes.
Best of Luck
BahaiMa22
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okay in school i have to carry my backpack everywhere and its super heavy! its like 30 pounds. i have a very expensive back pack and i put the heaviest things closest to my back but my back still hurts. ive tried reducing my things but everything in my backpack i need. i wear bot large straps. we do not have lockers. and were not allowed to have roley backpacks. i have to carry from main campus to the other campus, up and downstairs, and from the bus stop. ive done everything i can, and it hurts super bad in the middle of my back all the way to the end of my spine. even when im not wearing it, it hurts. should i go the doctors? cuz i asked my mom if i shud go to the doctor and she was like whats a doctor gonna do give you a magical pill to make ur backpack not heavy? (ya shes not nice) or should i go to the chiropractors?
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If you are exsperiencing a lot of back pain, A doctor should be able to write a note that you are to carry a back pack around that has wheels. Whether they allow it or not it's better than ending up with something that may be a forever injury. A chiropractor is only nessacery if the doctor recommeds it. Every school should have lockers..but then again like I said see if you can get the doctor to hand write you need a wheely.
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I don't want an answer to make me feel better. I just want an opinion. Is it ever okay for a guy to cheat? Even if he said he was drunk when it happened and he had sex with someone else, though he rememberes what he did during the sex?
I think its a stupid excuse, and he remembered everything but his girl. I just want opinions. I say cheating is NEVER okay.
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No it is never okay for a Girl or a Guy to cheat, Drunk or not it was his actions that caused him to screw up. When you drink, You drink responsibly or you take the risk of screwing something he might of had that was great. No matter what the excuses are it's never okay to cheat on somebody nor hurt someone in such a manner. A guy that cheats is more than likely to just go ahead and do it again exspecially if he/she know they can get away with it. Don't ever let a guy make excuses and cheat on you. You deserve so much better than that.
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i have gotten the depo provera shot twice. VERY seldom do i ever get spotting. but i have had spotting for about 2 or 3 weeks now. Does anyone have ideas or websites where i can try to figure this out? thanks. (link)
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I was on the depo-provera shot for 3 years. If you had just started the depo provera the constant spotting may just be your body adjusting to the new birth control. It's normal, I've exsperienced the same thing when I started out. You may look up more information here if you'd like http://www.depoprovera.com/vc-prospect-user.asp
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i know this might sound ridiculous but i was wondering if there is an online library? you know like that you can rent books and have them mailed to you, and then you like mail them back when your done. i want to read the next book in the twilight series and theres no library nearby, the closest one is an hour away, and my mom wont drive me there.
so yeah if you know of anything, let me know (: (link)
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Hey!!
Guess what I might have the perfect answer for ya. I do not know of an online library but I do know a nice site where you can read books online for free! Try this and let me know how it works out for ya. ;)
http://www.dailylit.com/
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ok, so i have had a crush on a boy for a year now, i talk to him a ton, and wow, i am totally under his spell! and i think he likes me too. hes perfect, and this is the biggest crush Ive ever had. i have some problems
1. he cant date until hes 16
2. hes moving about an hour away, and i cant drive!
3. if this doesn't work out, how will i ever get over him =[ (link)
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Well,
My first relationship my boyfriend lived about an hour and a half away from me and he didn't drive because he lived in the city. However, What I did was I looked up public transportation to see if there was a train/bus route that could maybe drop me off somewhere close to where he lives. That worked out well for awhile. The thing is long distance relationships are really hard to keep. Only because you don't see each other everyday, You never know whether he/she is being fully upfront with you about not seeing other people because you aren't always there to witness it 24.7 and the hardest part is life takes you places in life that you don't or never thought it'd take you. Two people who live apart in long distance whom have or try to have a relationship seem to grow apart within time because of the distance. You are young, and so is he. You may be crushing really hard and he may like you back but ask yourself the truth. If he moves an hour away how do you plan to make this work with him? How do you plan on getting the money to see him? How do you plan on having a future?
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i usually listen to alternative/rock/etc. i listen to rap like if the song is popular. okay my question is: what are some of your favorite/popular rap songs?
i think i might start listening to more rapp, i don't know; i have to hear songs that i like so.
also: i heard this one rap song, my friend was playing. i don't remember what it's called but there was a hook in the song that goes 'run forrest run'. haha.
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Ahh Great question, I'm big on Rap so here is a nice fine list for ya. Right now here is whats in..
(U and Dat) E-40 Ft. T-Pain
(Buy you a drink) T-Pain Ft. Young Joc
(We takin over) DJ Khaled
(When I'm gone) Eminiem
(Snap Yo Fingers) Lil John
(Fireman) Lil Wayne
(I'm so Hood) DJ Khaled
(No Problem) Lil Scrappy
(Get to Poppin) Rich Boy
(Back Then) Mike Jones
Anymore, Feel free to ask!
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I need help! Okay, everytime I turn on my computer it tells me that it has been infected. And it tells me use special antispyware tools to prevent data laws. And it gives me a website where I can get it. But it's 80 dls! What can I do other than download what they're asking me to download? How can I fix this? I am really broke right now..so can I do it for free?
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Okay,
I had a worm awhile back, And I did not have the money to spend on a bunch of anti-spyware either. So this is what I did and it worked out perfect for me. Try using adaware free scanning program. However before you scan your computer with Adaware trying restoring it back to the earliest you can get it till. (Start-Programs-System tools-System Restore) However, Keep in mind that if you restore the computer you may loose some data. Once you've restored the PC try scanning it with Adaware. Restoring sometimes helps clean out any viruses or worm holes that may be in your computer.
Hope I helped a little bit.
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this is kind of a weird question to ask.. but here goes. I am a female and am kind of larger on top if you know what i mean. Anyway, i've heard that if you lose weight sometimes your bra size will go down, but recently i've lost about 20 pounds and it hasn't happened, i was wondering if there is a way i could kind of target that area in a workout or something? anyway, if anyone knows of anything let me know, thanks :) (link)
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Everyone looses weight in different areas, Yes, Sometimes when you loose a good amount of weight you will drop a bra size or two. If you breast are a little flabby you could try doing some chest excersize to tighten the breast muscle which will sometimes reduce the size of your bra. Try laying on your back and lifting weights a good (8 pounds) in each arm and bring the weights down to your chest and then up again till your arms are out straight try doing that a good 10-15 times a day and you might see a difference.
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um wellwhen i went for sex right before i was putting it in i couldnt get a boner any anwser (link)
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Well, I can try my best to answer the question if I don't answer or misunderstand please feel free to message me again being a little more specific.
If you didn't have an erection before you tried to enter the penis into the vaginia then you may have a problem. You could try to do more foreplay, Spice it up before actually having sex. Try Candles, Lubricant even the flavored ones, Flavored Condoms, Kissing, touching etc. They sell a bunch of fun things at Sex stores. Also, Sometimes if you are taking medication it can effect the sex drive exspecially anti-depressants. Stress and depression could be another thing that might be in effect. Try to arouse yourself, Think of things that are sexy, things that turn you on and set the mood. Make sure you eat healthy and excersize regulary stamina also plays a big role in sex and foreplay.
Hope I helped. :)
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hi there. okay so the deal is im a female, and one of my nipples is really itchy and the tip is pink. the other ones fine. what does this mean? im sexually active which means there is alot of sucking and kissing and all that going on. does any one have any ideas/suggestions on what it is and what i should do? thank you very much in advance. (link)
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Okay,
Sucking and kissing doesn't have anything to do with the nipple being itchy, Infact as weird as it sounds it sounds like you maybe exspierencing something called "Nipple Itch" It's common. It could be caused by a number of things. Soap allergy, Bra or clothes irritation. Certain perfume allergy etc. Try putting some lotion on your breast to get rid of any possible dry skin that could also be causing the itching.
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I was in a discussion with my best friend about depression. We were listing things that cause people to become depressed and then we got to depressed celebrities. One of the major depressed celebrities today is Britney Spears. Britney Spears has filled so many tabloids up with her depression fits lately.
My best friend suggested that Britney Spears is not really depressed. She said that Britney Spears gained some weight because her career died down and she stopped keeping track of herself, and that Britney Spears has only claimed to be depressed for better publicity. Her reasons for not believing that Britney Spears is really depressed were basically that she has money, fame/popularity, relatively good looks, and a family.
My question is do you really think that Britney Spears, or anyone in her situation, could really be depressed? Maybe I am just missing out on what depression actually is but I think my friend has a point. Britney Spears couldn't ask for a better life--how can she REALLY be depressed? Keep in mind that I am not only referring to Britney Spears--she is just the one who comes to mind in this given situation. (link)
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Anyone can become depressed, After all celebrities are human just like us and they have feelings too. Whether they live the "good" life we all have our own personal problems we deal with everyday. Not everyone is perfect ;)
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i really like my new boyfriend but when i asked my friend to hang out with us he was really mean to them. he's nice to my pther friends so i don't know why he wasn't nice to these friends. they've been my friends for a long time, but my boyfriend makes me very happy. they both told me they hate each other. i think sooner or later they're gonna make me pick sides. so who's more important? my friends or my boyfriend? (link)
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Only you can decide that, Nobody can really decide for you. However, Keep in mind that if you're boyfriend makes you choose between him and your friends he doesn't seem like a good boyfriend. A good boyfriend would respect you're wishes to whom you choose to be friends with. If you have been friends with them for along time why let them go? Is it really worth loosing the long term friendship?
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So I am 17, a college student (majoring in engineering), people tell me I should be a model...Anyways the point is that I have never even went out with a guy before.. my parents always oriented me towards school and self-improvement.. I guess I am starting to get curious about dating a boy (guys only - I am not gay)..but the problem is that nobody ever asks me out.. I am not shy around guys at all..and they always treat me as their friend..why can't I attract a guy? could they just be intimidated by me somehow? what should i do? (asking a guy out myself is completely out of the question!!) (link)
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There is nothing wrong with you at all. Yes, Infact you are very normal :) Sometimes things in life just take longer than wanted. Maybe some guys think you may not be interested? Try flirting such as smiling, complimenting, and maybe if you get to know the guy well enough ask him if he'd like to join you to a movie, or just hang out. Don't ask him out ugh I'm completely against that too lol, but just try to do fun things together and then let him do all the work. ;) Trust me, There is nothing wrong. Just make sure you fix yourself up. Maybe wear some makeup (I don't know if you do or not but some tips just incase) Perfume, Nice hairstyle etc. I didn't find my first boyfriend until I was 22 years old. Sometimes the best things in life are worth waiting for. :) Just send a message if you have anymore questions.
Best of Luck!
BahaiMa22
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