|
cheating ever okay?
I don't want an answer to make me feel better. I just want an opinion. Is it ever okay for a guy to cheat? Even if he said he was drunk when it happened and he had sex with someone else, though he rememberes what he did during the sex?
I think its a stupid excuse, and he remembered everything but his girl. I just want opinions. I say cheating is NEVER okay.
Thanks.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Would a court go "oh, you were drunk, its ok that you ran over a mother and her 5 year old son in your shitty car"
No.
Do you think its any more OK that he pretty much ran over you emotionally because he was drunk?
Do you feel ok? I doubt it.
You have every right to be pissed, and you have every right to never forgive him for it. If you forgive him for it you are a saint, though I don't encourage that course of action in the least.
Heres an idea. Ask him if he will have a drink with you. After the first shot, kick him in the balls, and say "oh sorry honey, I was drunk, my judgment was impaired..."
You know, maybe its just me, but I'd actually feel better about being cheated on by a significant other when they were sober.
I mean, sober means they made a choice, and had a reason for it. Whether they were fucked up in the head, they wanted it to be over, they fell out of love with me and with someone else, you have a clear reason why (though the reason might hurt too) and you can figure out how you feel about it and proceed from there.
Drunk? He just didn't give a shit. Its not that hes upset with the relationship, he didn't fall for someone else, its not because there are problems or because there is anything wrong in his eyes, with you.
Hes just a lazy stupid selfish bastard with no self control who found a convenient excuse to chase pussy.
If you kick him in the balls, do the world a favor and do it hard enough that he can't reproduce.
(Sorry, been cheated on by a girlfriend, the subject pushes a few buttons for me too)
]
No, its not okay to cheat. Guys are supposed to have 1 girlfriend and give their full attention to you!!! Don't let them treat you bad!!
Hope this helps!
]
In my opinion
No. it is NEVER okay.
]
No it is never okay for a Girl or a Guy to cheat, Drunk or not it was his actions that caused him to screw up. When you drink, You drink responsibly or you take the risk of screwing something he might of had that was great. No matter what the excuses are it's never okay to cheat on somebody nor hurt someone in such a manner. A guy that cheats is more than likely to just go ahead and do it again exspecially if he/she know they can get away with it. Don't ever let a guy make excuses and cheat on you. You deserve so much better than that.
Bahaima22
]
I don't really have a detailed explanation, but I agree that cheating is never okay in any case. That is, unless the person is raped, well then obviously, but unless the person isn't being forced into cheating, then it isn't okay.
Does that make sense?
--Jack
(16/m)
]
No cheating is never ok. Its never ok to
hurt another person who trusts you.
Drinking until you are stupid is not a
good excuse either. :)
]
More Questions: |