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crushing hard
ok, so i have had a crush on a boy for a year now, i talk to him a ton, and wow, i am totally under his spell! and i think he likes me too. hes perfect, and this is the biggest crush Ive ever had. i have some problems
1. he cant date until hes 16
2. hes moving about an hour away, and i cant drive!
3. if this doesn't work out, how will i ever get over him =[
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My first relationship my boyfriend lived about an hour and a half away from me and he didn't drive because he lived in the city. However, What I did was I looked up public transportation to see if there was a train/bus route that could maybe drop me off somewhere close to where he lives. That worked out well for awhile. The thing is long distance relationships are really hard to keep. Only because you don't see each other everyday, You never know whether he/she is being fully upfront with you about not seeing other people because you aren't always there to witness it 24.7 and the hardest part is life takes you places in life that you don't or never thought it'd take you. Two people who live apart in long distance whom have or try to have a relationship seem to grow apart within time because of the distance. You are young, and so is he. You may be crushing really hard and he may like you back but ask yourself the truth. If he moves an hour away how do you plan to make this work with him? How do you plan on getting the money to see him? How do you plan on having a future?
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1.) That means crushes are perfectly allowed.
2.) Can you use the phone? The computer? Sure, moving sucks and it will be a pain to see him less, but an hour away might just be a bus trip or meeting up some place halfway.
3.) The same way we all do. Cry, feel like shit, and then get attracted to somebody else! If we all were totally crushed by our first serious teenage attractions no one would ever get married and life would be unbearable. We move on. We love agian. It's better then it was before.
Stop thinking so much with your heart! When reality sets in and there are REAL problems to deal with it, it's much better to use your brain. Pull up a map and and bus schedule. Figure out fun ways to stay in touch online and decent places to meet. Think of things you will still have in common and can share despite the distance. Feelings wont actually get you very far. Using your brain will.
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