im so confused! i am going out with ( lets call him bob ) bob but i feel like im using him just to get to ( lets call him fred ) fred. i know its not right but i actually love fred! what should i do. i dont want to hurt bob but even if i break up with bob doesnt mean that i will get fred. HELP!
You shouldn't lead 'Bob' on like that. If you really like the other guy, definitely break up with Bob. Don't give Bob false hope and make him think you really like him, because in the future when you break up with him, it won't be good.
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Every time Im on the phone with my boyfriend we always start argueing because he always brings up my old boyfriends that are long gon. I do not want to brake up with him but he's forceing me to. What should I do
I hate when guys do that! That shows insecurity and jealousy. Tell him you don't like when he does that. Ask him how he would feel if you brought up his old girlfriends all the time. Get it through his head you have no feelings for those guys and it pisses you off when he does that. He is just asking for a fight.
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Most of the boyz I have been with want to have sex with me but I say no because I THOUGHT I belived in abstanence. But now I have had a relationship with this boy for two months and I think he is the one. I am so in love with this boy. Everyday we talk he tells me he loves me, he wants to get married, he wants me to have his kids, and he wants to be with me for ever. I want to have sex with him but I am scared that he will say I am not doing it right. please help me. I am in desperate need of an answer. What should I do?
First of all, don't believe a boy that tells you he wants to get married and have kids. That could happen, but its VERY unrealistic. If he is a virgin, he won't tell you that you are doing it wrong. If he isn't a virgin and is trying to get you to do it, then yeah, I wouldn't have sex with him. If a boy truly loves you, he'd wait for you to want to have sex. If you are questioning whether or not to have sex with someone you "love", then I personally don't think you should. You definitely aren't ready.
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i've liked this guy for 4 years, and i've always thought he kinda likes me. i'm not so sure though, because he's had girlfriends in between, some of his friends say he likes me, some say he doesn't. he asked me out over the summer, but i wasn't sure if it was real or not, so i played hard to get. then i found out that it was real. i'm not sure if he likes me now, but every day i like him more and more, and i don't even know why. i feel like everyone is liked, except for me. how do i get over him, or feel better?? please help, i rate high! 13/f
You can't expect him not to have girlfriends because you like him. He gave you your chance and you turned him down. Maybe he still does like you, he's just afraid of what you will do or say. Tell him you like him.
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There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him.
If you really love him, then why would you break up with him because he is a moving to a different house? There will be obstacles in a relationship, and if it's 'true' love, then it will definitely find a way. If you are questioning if you should split up because he isn't going to be living as close away, then yeah, it's not true love.
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Sorry if it`s long I`ll rate 5`s!
I love my mom and all but she really bothers me. I am 13 and I`m kind of mature for my age. My mom said I could get my belly button peirced a yeah ago and she said yeah after I turned 13 and now shes saying no. I turned 13 April 25th and its so unfair I`m getting to really hate her so now she asked " What do you want for Christmas?" and I said. " A new cell phone and a my belly button peirced" and she goes "Your not getting neither your phone is fine."
My phone is a peice of sh1t and falls apart like 5 times a day. And I really want my belly button peirced and she said yeah last year so it`s completely unfair. My little brother gets everything he wants its unfair to me.
How can I convince her to let me get my belly button peirced? And how can I explain that she is unfair to me?
Thanks in advance. I`ll rate 5`s!!
You really should wait until you are atleast 16 to get your belly button pierced. I live in PA and they made it a law that you can't get it done until you are 16. I tried getting it done last year (when I was 14). They said they made the law because your body isn't done growing yet, so as you grow taller or fatter, it will tear the belly ring right out. Then not only will you have a scar forever, but it will be hard to get it pierced again in the future.
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i really need advice on this!!
my names laurie im 16 yrs old.
I really like this guy and he asked me to go on a date with him which i said yes. but then i found out that same day my friend liked him to so i canceled the date. however a week or so later my freind and him went on a date (but he said it wasnt like that)..?..anyways. My friend sorda skrewed me over by doing that. but this guy still likes me and i still like him. but i feel like i would be back stabbing my friend if i got involved with this guy. however..she did the same thing to me..so i dont understand if she got her chance why cant i? i feel like i am too far in liking this guy to ignore anything..i really care about him and want to be with him, and he tells me the same thing..i cant hide my feelings towards him. ive tried talking to my friend and she gets mad really easily that i cant even talk to this guy around her..she saiys she would never talk to me again..i dno if thats just a threat or what..what should i do?..
i want everything to be happy with everyone.
thank you so much!
Well, if the guy really liked you, why would he go on a date with your friend? If your friend won't listen to what you have to say, then obviously she isn't a very good friend. You can't help who you like. I wouldn't hide it from her, it will only make things worse. If she is allowed to like that guy, you should be too. Explain to her how much you really do like him. If she gets mad over it, she's not worth it.
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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate.
Yea know, my boyfriend is 19 and I am 15. A lot of people look down on that. I think if you really like the person, why should age matter? I don't think age should be a factor in love.
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last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!!
Sounds like it to me!
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does anyone know any stores to buy beanies? (hats)
Pacific Sunwear
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I have wavy/curly hair.
When i straighten my hair the strightener damages it.
My hair is still a little bit frizzy after I straighten it and a few strands wave up after about half an hour.
Is there anything I could put into my hair before I straighten it to make it straight and not frizzy?
John Freida's Frizz Ease
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ok, i have fat cheeks for some reason and i need to know is there anything i could do to make them appear less chubby? I have greyish-blue eyes, average sized lips, and my skin tone is a little darker than fair. thanks!
Use blush.
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Okay I was just wondering what is the law now for getting your permit and license? Because I heard they changed it. Well I'm 15 now and I'm turning 16 in March.
Depends on which state you live in.
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yesterday a boy came over that i really like. Ok so things got heated and we started kissing, makin out a lot.yeah. Then we got into my room and he fingered me. Now im afraid that maybe he doesn't like me or somethin or just doesn't have any feelings for me. He's not the kind of guy that would use a girl like me like that because I know him really well and he treats me differently than other girls (in a good way)but for some reason I'm still worried that he's just gonna forget about me and go with another girl or something. What can I do to maybe prevent this from happening??? thankss!
Hmm, by not doing anything with him to begin with? Ask him if he really likes you. You shouldn't do anything else sexual with him in the future unless you guys are dating or something.
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I'm so screwed. I haven't missed my period yet, I'm due for it Friday, but my friend is bringing me a pregnancy test tomorrow. I had sex without a condom, and my boyfriend pulled out but I'm still paranoid about it, and yes I know I have a good reason to be.
Anyways...I'm going to take a pregnancy test Saturday. I think I will be with my boyfriend when I do it. What I want to know is how do I tell my parents and what should I do? I'm so scared right now I'm crying...my parents have always known me as their good little girl that never did anything wrong. I feel like dying.
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That was very foolish of you to do. Just because he pulled it out doesn't mean you can't get pregnant. It's called pre ejaculation.
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this guy n i are really close n we both like each other, although were not together, and were ready to take the next step. *sex* is what were wanting from each other and im nervous and scared. im nervous because i dont want it to ruin our realtionship and im scared because im a virgin n hes not. what should i do?
If you are questioning if you should do it, then don't. You definitely aren't ready.
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I'm a 16 year old girl who's been dating this guy I'm fully in love with for around 7 - 8 months. We're both still virgins but we've talked about losing our virginity to each other. Neither one of us has EVER did anything sexually with another person, so I'm pretty sure neither of us have any STDS or AIDS. So far, we've experienced everything but sex with each other. We've considered all the risks & have thought long and hard about this, but mind you, we are prepared and we do have a brain unlike half the teenage population. We both know that we are fully ready to do this in our minds & hearts. But, I have a question. Even though, we aren't married & we're gonna lose our virginity to each other.. and though we've been together for a while & are planning on beging together for a long time after this (possibly even marriage later on, but you never know what may happen).. do you think this is okay? Like sometimes it worrys me because I know in my heart that it's a sin to have sex before marriage, but we've talked about it & with our friends as well, and we all figured out that if you ask God for his forgiveness, he will accept it. I just want opinions on this.. do you think it's okay to have sex at 16 if you're mature & ready enough? I mean, what's the point in waiting until you're married? I know one reason is because it can be a sin and then another is because there's a possibility of having a baby, but if you're sexually "safe" with condoms & birth control, then you're chances are very slim to none for having a child. So any opinions or thoughts is welcome on this.. don't be afraid to express how you feel, it won't bother me. Thank you all very much! :)
OMG! My boyfriend and I have been thinking the same thing (even the part about God). How weird. But anyway, I definitely think since God will forgive you, and if you are ready, then do it. If you know in your heart that you two will be together after this, then what's holding you back?
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hi.. um i was just wondering... can you reccomend a special brand of lubrication?
we need it cause my boyfriend has a hadr time getting it in
KY Jelly.
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my best frend is a girl and she is way hot shes 2 years yyounger than me which is ok. not my problem my problem is i am felling lust for her sister which is 6 year years younger than me being like 7 am i sicck or is it ok help email for more info cause there are other facts im not gonna say on this
sammygamy@hotmail.com
Wait if she is 7? Then yea that's pretty sick.
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i was wondering if excessive vaginal discharge and smellier discharge could be a sign of pregnancy..im 3 days late on my period, thanks!
No I don't think so. I wouldn't get worried after only 3 days. Your period could skip like 2 months and that doesn't mean your'e pregnant. Unless you know you have no way of being exposed to semen, take a test to be positive.
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