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who should i choose?
im so confused! i am going out with ( lets call him bob ) bob but i feel like im using him just to get to ( lets call him fred ) fred. i know its not right but i actually love fred! what should i do. i dont want to hurt bob but even if i break up with bob doesnt mean that i will get fred. HELP!
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You should break up with 'bob' because the longer the wait, the more its going to hurt him. And its not right to lead him on like that =/ just try to get 'Fred' without using 'Bob'. Just try talking to 'Fred' more and flirting with him maybe just a little. You never know.. Fred could like you and just didn't act upon it because you were already going out with someone else. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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You shouldn't lead 'Bob' on like that. If you really like the other guy, definitely break up with Bob. Don't give Bob false hope and make him think you really like him, because in the future when you break up with him, it won't be good.
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Before reading this, bare in mind that I'm just trying to get a message across and in no way am I being judgemental or having a go!
But, you can't toy with people's feelings. Bob could be thinking that you're the one meanwhile you're thinking about how to plan to get close to Fred. You can't do that. Love can be a beautiful thing, but it can also hurt. Like I said...love can be a cute, merrily dancing pixie..with a shotgun...please don't fire the bullet.
x Steph x
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i think that you should brake up with "bob" because even though you might hurt him, he might get more hurt if he finds out that your using him for someone else. You also never no if "fred" likes you because he probably didnt want to say anything because your going out with "bob" so if you dump "bob" "fred" might ask you out.. you never no.
hope i helped !!
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