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Love Struck
Every time Im on the phone with my boyfriend we always start argueing because he always brings up my old boyfriends that are long gon. I do not want to brake up with him but he's forceing me to. What should I do
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I hate when guys do that! That shows insecurity and jealousy. Tell him you don't like when he does that. Ask him how he would feel if you brought up his old girlfriends all the time. Get it through his head you have no feelings for those guys and it pisses you off when he does that. He is just asking for a fight.
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you should'nt start arguing with him.You should just bring up something different every time he askes you about your old boyfriends.or you could just tell him that you really dont care about the past boyfriends that you only care about him.but hand it to him nicly not in a agruing way.
hope i helped ♥ Suejla
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well..if he`s always bringing your ex-boyfriends up..he must be insecure about something..just reashure him that your with him now..and you really like him and don`t want this relationship to end..tell him your ex-boyfriends are "ex's" for a reason..and tell him you don`t want to argue about them again..because thats the past..and he's your present..
-christina
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Talk to him or give him a note saying something on the lines of:
My old boyfriends were in the past, you are my present and my future and I love you more than all of them put together. I need you to understand that you mean the world to me and you have to accept me as a package...that includes my past.
I'm sure if he is the boyfriend you think he is, he will understand.
Best of luck!
x Steph x
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I strongly feel like this is an act of jealousy. Your boyfriend wants toa know that he's all yours, and you dont have anymore feelings for your past boyfriends. Don't bring your ex's up...ever. Nothing good will come of it. Just let your boyfriend know how much you care for him, and assure him that he's the one for you & you hate arguing. I really hope i helped! let me know how it goes! xox
-jillian-
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ehh that seems like a weird situation & it's probably juss because he's jealous. explain to him that your bfs were before, not now & that's totally different. he seems insecure about it & you juss need to straight tell him that they aren't involved with you anymore. maybe he can even talk to them himself. if he trusts you he wouldn't be worried about it. ask him if he does. it almost seems like its an excuse, because why would he ever bring that up if he didn't trust you? explain this to him & talk to him about it.
-hope that helped!♥
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Tell him matter of fact that your past is the past and you are with him now. Let him know you are with him for a reason and how special and important he is. Let him know you no longer discuss your past boyfriends as you have moved on.
Point blank it is not his business anyways but get that across tactfully. I would tell him to chuck his insecurity as he would never be compared to those who came before him. I think that latter point is what bothers him. He feels inadequate and as though he will be compared to them.
If you feel this will cause a breakup if his behavior continues tell him how you feel. Hopefully, you will be on the same page as eachother once you do.
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