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Q: Every time Im on the phone with my boyfriend we always start argueing because he always brings up my old boyfriends that are long gon. I do not want to brake up with him but he's forceing me to. What should I do
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I strongly feel like this is an act of jealousy. Your boyfriend wants toa know that he's all yours, and you dont have anymore feelings for your past boyfriends. Don't bring your ex's up...ever. Nothing good will come of it. Just let your boyfriend know how much you care for him, and assure him that he's the one for you & you hate arguing. I really hope i helped! let me know how it goes! xox
-jillian-
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Q: I know one of my friends is stealing things from my locker because I saw all of my stuff in her backpack. I don't want to tell. What should I do?
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Hey! Well I dont think that you should tell someone on her just yet. The thing to do now is confront her about it. Believe me, when things like this are confronted about, you'll friend will most likely feel awkward, then apologize. But don't go up to her and say,"Why are you stealing my stuff?" Because that might not be the case. You should ask her why you found all of your stuff in your backpack? If she continues taking your sutff, then you should tell someone. Hope i helped! tell me how things go! xox
-jillian-
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Q: I'm thinking about a sort-of emo/hipster/scene-style hair cut- but I have no idea what to do to it.
My hair's a little longer than shoulder length and almost perfectly straight naturally. There is a slight wave at the very bottom. My hair is think and light to medium brown. My hair has a very next shine and is very healthy on a whole. My face is heart-shaped and I have a low hairline.
My main idea right now is to get asymetrical bangs that go across, and get it cut shorter in the front.
Any ideas?
thanx
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Hey! well something you can do is look on your site and see if the style your looking for is on it!
http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.com/short_hairstyles.html
if it is, then print the style out and show it to your hairdresser and she'll know what to do! and if that site doesnt have what your looking for you can google "hairstyles/haircuts" and see what come up! alright hope i helped out! let me know how it goes! xox
-jillian-
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Q: I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!!
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The exact same thing happened to me, except I didnt have a choice. I really think you should take this opportunity to do better by switching schools. You'll always have your friends from your other school. And its not like your moving to Antarctica! You'll still be able to hang out with them on weekends, and talk to them on the phone. And i guarentee that you'll make loads more friends at your new school, that is if you decide to transfer! But remember that this is just advice, I'm not telling youu what to do, just what I think you should do! Alright well I really hope I helped out! Tell me how it goes! xox
-jillian-
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Q: Hey jill im going out with this guy and hes not really the one for me how should i break up with him,without hurting his feelings plus hes a really good kisser(dont wanna lose that)WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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Alright, well if he just isnt the one for you, it wouldnt be fair to him if he thinks your like in-love with him and your not. And if you think about it, it would be kinda selfish and un-fair to keep him because of how he kisses. There are SO MANY more guys out there, and you shouldnt stay with one because your scared to hurt his feelings, when the perfect guy could be waiting for you! I dont think there is anyway to kindly brake up with someone. You just have to do it gently. Maybe be like "It was easier and more fun when we were friends, and I like it better that way." or something like that. I really really hope i helped! let me know how it goes! xox
-jillian-
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Q: hello jill.......idk wutt to ask lol... o yA!! ok ummmm ok so theres this guy....hes sort of famous...well REALLY famous...and HES SEXY!!!!!!!! and... i love him!!!!!!!! wutt should i do?!?!?!?! haha...
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omg i know EXACTLY what to do! first find out where he lives....then go to his house every night and sing him songs outside his window. THEN find out his daily schedule and follow him around non-stop. but u MUST blow-up a picture of him and hang it above your bed and kiss it every night then worship it before you go to school! not that I do stuff like that or anything....
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Q: What does jiggaelo mean? Its in one of my cheers for cheerleading and i dont know what it means
Please help
I give 5's
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haha a jiggalo is a male hooker i think....lol yeah
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Q: i rele lik this guy but idk if he liks me should i get over him or still lik him? im rele confused bc sumtimes he'll smile @ me but then he acts kinda weird.....around me? wutt should i do o great jill
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oh goodness sammy! is this **** were talking about? well theres that saying that goes "never give up on someone you cant spend a day without thinking about." and im pretty sure that applies to you! i know how much you like this guy and i DEFINITLY dont think you should give up on him. but i mean if you keep things the same between yall nothings going to change. now if you take it a step FURTHER and maybe flirt a little more, give off hints, or ask a friend to talk to him, then somehthing might happen! alright well i really hope i helped! lyl! xox
-jillian-
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Q: hey me and my friend have been friends since kindergarden and now i think its not the same we have just gotten into middel school so u meet all new friends and start hangingout with them i feel like i dont even want to be friends with her she didnt want to go to the football game with me because she wanted to go with her "new" friends and didnt want to go with any old friends if anyone can help im me or something GeorgiaGal48
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omg i know exactly what your talking about. when you first go to middle school from elementary it can be really overwhelming with all these new people. but you really cant get mad when your friends meet new people. when your friend said that she might not have meant it the way it came out. she just met these people and want to get to know them better. now if she constantly starts to push you aside for her new friends then you might want to have a litle chat with her. theres a saying i remember like this, it goes : make new friends and cherish the old ones! okay well i really hope that helped! let me know how it goes! xox
-jillian-
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Q: i have this guy friend and hes like almost 1 of my best friends and hes really nice 2 me when im mad at him and i think i like him but i have a boyfriend! and i dont know what 2 tell him because hes going out w/ my best friend....help! ox0xo
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oh goodness! so much drama! i think the thing to do now is...NOTHING. if you start flirting with him and leading him on and what not, his girlfriend is gonna get mad and like beat you up or something! haha jkjk. but really if you do anything now itll just cause more drama in your life than you need. just wait it out and see if their relationship really works out! so you can start leading him on after they break up! and if they do seem to be kinda seriouse well then there are so many more fish in the sea! im just kinda confused about your boyfriend. do you still like him or not? because if you think you might have stronger feelings for this other guy then just tell your guy the truth. dont be like "im in love with someone else." haha thats a little too honest. you should just be like,"i think it was better when we were friends." or just something not so heart-breaking like that. alright well i really do hope i helped! let me know how it goes! xox
-jilian-
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Q: my life at home is hell all i get from my sis is abuse all me n my bro do is ague and fight my mum wont talk 2 me she never speaks 2 me about anythink never asks me if im alright never tells me she loves me never just asks hows my day been always sends me out the room and speaks 2 my sisters friends wont ever talk 2 me about anythink blames me for everythink buys my sis everythink always talks 2 her lets my bro off with everythink if i do what my bro does i will get smacked for it but if my bro does it then its ok(MY BRO CANT COMPRAMISE WITH ME MY SIS CANT BE NICE TO ME AND MY MUM CANT COMMUNICATE WITH ME ) H.E.L.P PPPPLLLLLEEEEAAAASSSSEEE
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woe it does seem like your home is crazy! alright well with your mom, as stupid as it sounds, you just need to talk to her. just tell her everything you told like thousands of people on the internet, that you dont feel like shes there for you. nothing is going to change if you dont speak up and do anything about it. with your whole brother thing, as hard as it may sound you really just gotta shake that off. i have a little brother and i'd probobly describe hime just like that! most sibling are the same: annyoing, nosy, and always in your face. for your sister, you really just need to level with her and find some common ground. just try to stop getting in arguments and learn to atleast stand each other. me and my brother always think the other is more spoiled. im always thinking he gets more attention and vise-versa. when you feel like you just cant stand the people in your house and just want to get away, dont scream and cause an even bigger scene, just take a walk around your neighborhood or soemthing to blow off some steam. alright well i really hope this helped! tell me how it goes. xox
-jillian-
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Q: i am a comlumnist here but there comes a time when i need advice. c i have been w/ this guy for 4 months now and he seem to b slipping. i dont know what to say to him. he seems to be holding back all the time. i need help. please, tell me what to do!
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Okay well the question is kind of vague but I'll try to work with it. Maybe this guy had something happen to him and hes just stuck on it. Talk to him and see if you can help! But Im kinda confused on if you like him or not. If you know you really like him than stick with him, nobodys perfect! Like I said, maybe hes just had something happen to him. If your not as into him as you were before, wait it out for a little while before you decide to do something you might regret. Again, talk to him and see whats up! Hope I helped!, xox
-jillian-
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Q: I really want to play softball. I want to get in shape because I think try-outs are very soon. What can I do to prepare? What should I take? What should I wear, I know that I should wear nothing to tight but something kind of neatly loose, right? SOmeone please help me. Thank You in advance.
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Alright well to prepare your body you obviously need to work out some and eat the right foods to get your energy up. But when you work out, try not to do it like 2 or 3 days before try-outs because you dont want to be too sore. Try lifting weights, and running. For your clothes you should wear a pair of soffees and a tee-shirt with cleats/tennishoes! Hope I helped, xox
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hey guys! Just letting you know that I'm here all the time anytime to answer your questions! I'll answer anything you throw at me. I've done advicenators before on my old account where I answered more then a hundred questions! And I'd love it if you would rate me afterwards! Thanks
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jillian
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Gender: Female Location: Hotlanta <3 Age: 13 Member Since: November 2, 2005 Answers: 13 Last Update: November 12, 2005 Visitors: 2230
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