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help!
my life at home is hell all i get from my sis is abuse all me n my bro do is ague and fight my mum wont talk 2 me she never speaks 2 me about anythink never asks me if im alright never tells me she loves me never just asks hows my day been always sends me out the room and speaks 2 my sisters friends wont ever talk 2 me about anythink blames me for everythink buys my sis everythink always talks 2 her lets my bro off with everythink if i do what my bro does i will get smacked for it but if my bro does it then its ok(MY BRO CANT COMPRAMISE WITH ME MY SIS CANT BE NICE TO ME AND MY MUM CANT COMMUNICATE WITH ME ) H.E.L.P PPPPLLLLLEEEEAAAASSSSEEE
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Hun I used to be just like that. my sis beat me and so did my dad. this may be hard to hear but you NEED to tell somebody go to a councler and tell them. YOur family needs to get help really badly. Mine got help and we are doing alot better..
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I read what the Avicenators have posted and the part about abuse is true, and if this happening then you should definitely tell someone of authority. The sibling fighting is a natural part of growing up. As for your mom not communicating with you, that is a problem. My suggestion: Write your feelings down on paper. Maybe even in the form of a letter to her. Tell her how she makes you feel, and be honest and leave nothing out. Tell her that if she doesn't love you and doesn't want to treat you fairly then have her send you to live with a close relative that will give you the love and support that you need. If you cannot communicate with her, then don't. Just say what you need to say in a letter. Make sure you tell her like it is, and if she is a good parent she will feel ashamed of the way she has treated you. Word your letter wisely and do not lie or exaggerate. Do not tear her down, or bad mouth anyone. If she gets angry with you over this letter, (she is a BAD parent with screwed up priorities) then you should take it upon yourself to contact someone that can remove you from the negative environment she is promoting. I am sorry that I could not be more help. Take care and Good Luck. I am here if you need to vent anytime, just leave a message in my box.
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It sounds like you're really excited about this. First, calm down. Think this through. It may not be as bad as you're making it sound. However, it very well could be. If you think you're being abused you need to tell someone about it like a counselor at school or find the number to your state's social services. They will be able to tell you what to do and maybe you can get out of there. It doesn't sound like you're in a very good environment at all from what you've said. Remember, there's such a thing as mental abuse too. It sounds like you're getting a dose of both. Before doing anything, though make sure you relax and think it through to make sure that this isn't just normal family rivalries. I hope that things get better for you. Good luck!
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well gurl im sooo soory about that that breaks my heart i think you should confront your mom and say you know im one of your kids too can weplez get along plez!i hope everything works out gurl youve got our luv:)amber&ashley
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I Have A Similar story. My mom blames everything on me so I stay in my room all day and only come out to use the toilet and eat and go to school. She always says im lazy and doesnt care if the house rots. And that she feels like leaving me and my dad her and never coming back. So ya know we cant really talk to them. Just do some of the things your brother does and when she gets ready to slap you or whatever tell her you will call the police (BTW have the phone in your hand) Hope I Helped Ya ♥
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whoa thats harsh well just confront your mom and say mom we dont ever get to spend time together and i think we should maybe just kind of "hang out" a little more
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woe it does seem like your home is crazy! alright well with your mom, as stupid as it sounds, you just need to talk to her. just tell her everything you told like thousands of people on the internet, that you dont feel like shes there for you. nothing is going to change if you dont speak up and do anything about it. with your whole brother thing, as hard as it may sound you really just gotta shake that off. i have a little brother and i'd probobly describe hime just like that! most sibling are the same: annyoing, nosy, and always in your face. for your sister, you really just need to level with her and find some common ground. just try to stop getting in arguments and learn to atleast stand each other. me and my brother always think the other is more spoiled. im always thinking he gets more attention and vise-versa. when you feel like you just cant stand the people in your house and just want to get away, dont scream and cause an even bigger scene, just take a walk around your neighborhood or soemthing to blow off some steam. alright well i really hope this helped! tell me how it goes. xox
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