|
love hurts
i am a comlumnist here but there comes a time when i need advice. c i have been w/ this guy for 4 months now and he seem to b slipping. i dont know what to say to him. he seems to be holding back all the time. i need help. please, tell me what to do!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
just ask him what's up is the best idea....let him know that you feel like he's not giving 100% and if there's something going on in his life, maybe you could help, or else he can just say sry and try to do better....hope this helps
]
♥ I am in this kind of relationship as we speak so I am going to tell you what I have been trying to make it better and if it works or not.
♥ I have been holding his hand every chance I get hoping that he will understand that I have feelings for him. He holds back and so I think that is a good sign.
♥ I kiss him goodbye and hug him for hello. Signs of love are very good to a guy. He understands you care about him and you need him. A guy likes it when a girl takes charge of some things, but other things let him do it.
♥ Have him hold you and if he backs off he is not interested. You need to be more upfront with your relationship. If you tell him how you are feeling he might respond back with the same thing. If this happens ask him what you could do to make it better and tell him what he could to to make it better.
♥ Some guys break off from relationships because their skool work or just work as been keeping him busy. Ask him if thats the case and if it is plan a date on a day he is off. Don't make it a suprise because he might have plans and then once again your relationship is down.
♥ Ideas for a date-Dinner at your house, Movies, Lunch in the park, Going to the beach, Dinner at a nice restraunt, or Goint to the mall just to hang out.
♥ Over the weekend dates-Spend it in a boat house near a lake, Sking trip, Beach house, Go to a nice hotel nearby, or for a longer date maybe Jamaica. It's nice there
♥ I really hope I helped. Please Keep me updated!
♥Glam
(More Questions?Inbox!!!)
]
just sit down and jsut talk tell him whats on ur mind and that you feel like that im sure he'll understand.
]
Okay well the question is kind of vague but I'll try to work with it. Maybe this guy had something happen to him and hes just stuck on it. Talk to him and see if you can help! But Im kinda confused on if you like him or not. If you know you really like him than stick with him, nobodys perfect! Like I said, maybe hes just had something happen to him. If your not as into him as you were before, wait it out for a little while before you decide to do something you might regret. Again, talk to him and see whats up! Hope I helped!, xox
-jillian-
]
Its so hard. I've been there. And it feels the harder you try and grab on, the more he slips away (and it makes you kind of nuts in the process). I don't advocate playing games, but in this case, it may work...Why not try and do it back to him. Make some plans with your friends this weekend, don't always ask whats wrong and stuff. Do NOT act rude, that will backfire in your face, big time. Just play a little hard to get. It may get him refocused back on you, and if he is gone for good, it will get you over that much faster.
Good luck and keep me posted
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question: License
| Next Question >>> shy
|
|