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Help some one i really fancie my paper boy and hes sooo cute but the problem is im really shy and dont want to talk to him,Can anyone thing of another way to let him no i fancey him?
thank you roxie
ps ill rate you if you help
pps PLEASE HELP

you gotta talk to him. he wont know u like him until you tell him!!! good luck. send me something if you need more help!!

xox- Kristen

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i like this boy and he doesn't like me and i have a major crush on himk but i dunno what to do! sooo what should i do?

well u cant make someone fall in love with you immediately. just talk to him and be yourself. if he still doesn't like you, he isn't worth your time. good luck. send me something if you need more help!!

xox- Kristen

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I wanna lose weight, on my stomach and my bum. But I wanna lose weight before I go back to school in 5 weeks, anyone got any good ways?

do crunches, and eat healthier foods. cut down on junk, and cut carbs like bread and pasta. good luck!!!!! send me something if you need more help!

xo -- kRiS

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i have a friend who is really pretty and really popular...she could practically get any guy she wants. Whenever i have a guy who in interested in me she goes and flirts with him and he ends up dumping me and going for her. What should i do to let my friend know that this hurts me badly?

tell her. say that she's flirting with all the guys you like and you're sick of it. maybe you need to get a new friend cause friends don't do that to one another. send me something if you need more help!

xox Kristen

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Does anyone know how you upload a pic of you into ur collumn? Thanks!
xoxo Shea

go to the edit settings link, scroll down until you see Upload a Picture of Yourself and click browse. hope i helped

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Okay Yesterday I went off on my friends because I thought they were going to say "you are copying us" because they do this and i wanted to so i said i have wanted to do this since i was in 4th grade and i am not copying you. so now they are mad at me and i really wish that they werent. they think i copy them and that I do not know how to deal with people and that i am stupid well at least right now that they are mad at me....I tried to apologize to them through e-mail but I think they are still mad at me...I want to apologize again in person but I know they will not talk to me...What Should I do?

give it time to cool off, and then try to apoligize again. good luck!

XOX k

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Theres this kid nd hes like my brotha i love him so much but he just like randomly desides to hate me madd bad its soo f*ckin stupid he seriously randomly woke up one morning nd desided to hate me i mean wuts up wit that? now he gives me all this bullsh*t bein all b*tchy nd sh*t nd its soo shady i mean like seriously we used to be like best frends wut is up wit this!! why would ne body do sumthin like that! i swear to god i didnt do ne htin to deserve the shit htis kid is givin me!! i need some help here.. :'(

i agree with girdy goo 15... he's growing up and he's probably gona act differently than he did before!!! if you are really uncomfortable, go talk to hi and tell him how you feel. good luck!!! send me something if you need more help!

XOX k

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when i was in 4th grade my dad came to my school and told me he was leaving forever. My dad is a very abusive person and threatend a lot of stuff on my family. Its been 5 years and hes back. My mom is afraid she wont meet any guys again. So my dad is living at my house and he yells at me a lot when my moms not home. Im scared of him bcuz he might still be abusive. My mom doesnt understand and i dotn know what to do. i get in a fight with him every day. Please help.

i'm so sorry. try to avoid him. and remember- dont be afraid to call the cops if you need them. they are here to help you. best wishes , and please send me a message or im me if you need more help!

xox-- Kristen

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how do you make this super hot egyptian chick forget about her boyfriend and fall for you?

you can"t just force someone to fall for you. it just happens over time. start talking to her and get to know her and don"t be fake. g/l

KrIs

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okay well my frend was sleepin ova one nite last week and we kinda snuck out at like 1am to go see my frend lets call him adam ok well we walked to adams house nd its like 1 nd he came to his window nd was like go to the back yard so we met him in the back yard and he came out nd i guess we were talkin too loud cuz his bro woke up nd flipped out nd yelled for his parents nd everythin so me nd my frend ran like hell to get away from there wit out them noticing so we ran nd idk wut my frend said but i think wen she was yellin for me tryin to find me in the dark she mita sed my name, but we got home nd now its been a week and i just found out that adam got sent to christian camp because of it nd his bro knos it was me nd told my other frends bro who was askin my other frend y i was over there that late and my other frend thinks he couldve told her parents who will tell my parents sooo idk wut to do.. should i just like wait for my parents to find out or should i tell them myself oh ya nd by the way before we snuck out my mom specifically told us not to leave the house nd go walkin round the neighborhood or to adams house... so yea im kinda screwed help out!!! and soon please im kinda freakin out!!!

your gonna have to take responsibility for your actions. you disobeyed your mother by doing something she told you not to do. tell your parents what you did. you'll have to accept the consequences of your actions. good luuck

kRiS

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how do u change ur password>?

click on the edit settings link on the side of the page. i'm pretty sure it's on the top

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I thought you would be the person to let me know that it is ok to be able to trust people , to let them know how you feel.

I thought you could show me how it feels to have someone who really cares about me.

I thought I could depend on you to always be there for me.

I thought you really cared about me.

I thought you really wanted to be with me.

I never thought you would be the person to hurt me.

I never had a thought you and I would never be together.

I always thought you were going to be there when I need you.

I never thought any one could hurt me as bad as you did.

I would have dreams of me and you being together till death did us part.

I never thought you would cheat on me like you did with other gurlz

I never thought u could ever lie to me.

I never thought the worse could happen between us but the worse has yet to come.

i liiike it!!! keep writing

xox -- kRiS

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how do i get my mom to let me wear a padded bra? like a push up one?

just go shopping and pick one up and say "hey how about this"

---or---

just talk to her and tell her what and why you want to wear this

just don't go to crazy ... or don't bother with it

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As my mind and my body grows tired,
I find that my soul still remains strong,
Though I have come to the point to realize my fate,
To accept death as it slowly creeps up on me,
To accept the fact I will always be lonley,
To accept my life as it truly is,
And to accept the way things are

i like it.

kris

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Sometimes I wish I wasn't born mixed I like having diffrent cultures. But I get sick and tired of people always judging me by my color. or say i am a certain race because of how i act. I hate it when i have no friends in school cause they think i act fake. I hate it when people say i am a certain person when they know NOTHING about me. I hate that everytime i get into a serious relationship with someone i care about. it get's flushed down the drain. Just cause they want to believe something about me they heard from someone els instead of trying to get to know me.

it doesnt have a format and it doesn't seem like a poem to me.

then again, maybe i'm just not poetic

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my best friend..
i went out with my boy friend for 9 months and now my best friend wants to go out with him and she talks about him 24/7 its not even funny should i not be friends with her please help and answer my question fast!!!

you've gotta let her know how you feel about the situation. she should respect the way you feel. don't just dump her because of it.. dont jeopardize your relationship with your best friend over a guy! thats just not cool! Send me a message or IM me if you need help!!!!!!! i'll listen

xox- kRiS

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hey girl.. i need help right now well i love my bf... but its like my best friend likes me well i took him today dat i only like him as a friend and nothing else.. but i hurt him really bad.. but he just cant get OVER ME!!!!!!!!!!! and i want him 2.. bc i dont look @ him like dat.. bc my bf iz da one 4 me and i love him 2 death... can you tell me what 2 do?
plz..

i think your friend is just going to have to accept that you have a boyfriend and you love him. he'll have to get over you eventually. send me something if you need anything else.

xox-- kRiS

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I don't really do that well on tests and I try an study an hour the night before tests. What are some things to help me score higher on tests?

start studying the day you get the new chapter. look over notes and vocab (if you have any) . make flashcards and review every night .

xo-- kRiS

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im not really aloud to wear thongz but i reall wunna ask my mom but she thinks there really painful n how girls can wear em. also i think she thinks their for hoes n slutz etc. i dont she does. lol. well how do i ask her in a way she might say yes? i already have one but i have to wash it wen shez not home. i kno itz weird but i use it alot. lol. but i wash it! cuz i dont really like wearing regualr underwear that much n i wunna buy thongz n throw away them grnnyz. lol. oh my goodness. lol. okay this is a little embarassing but i dont really wear big underwear like underwear thats even a little losse i call grnnyz. wellz plz help!

go up to her and explain. tell her you jus don't like regular underwear and you don't want pantylines. be convincing... good luck

xo- K

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I have a boyfriend who I love sooo very much!! I wouldnt do anything to hurt him! I have a few good guy friends who I ONLY talk to on the internet because my bf doesnt like me hanging out with them. Well, one of my friends asked me to go to a party with him tonight or we could go to the mall another night. I'm not sure I should because I think my boyfriend would be mad! What should I do? And if I shouldnt hang out with him, how do I say no without saying my boyfriend wouldnt want me to. He always says "F*** your stupid boyfriend" :-/ Thanks for the advice!!

your boyfriend is being possesive. there is nothing wrong with having guy friends. explain to him that you love HIM and no one else. he has no right to restrict who your friends are and if he has a problem with it, i'd say he's no good and you deserve better. good luck. send me something if you need more help!!

xox-- kRiS

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