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my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old high school special ed student and my verbal skills brought my iq up really high,but they still put me in special ed for english and I don't understand that.I asked my mom about it and she got really mad she said if I asked her about it again she'd make me quit school,but I still think I could do regular ed english,but she dosn't belive me what should I do?

Im 17 and in English 3 prep this year. Next year ill be turning 18 and i will only have the special ed when i need it. When you turn 18 you should have the same desicion. You can talk to your teacher about it. They are usually very understanding about stuff like this. If they are not talk to your guidance counselor. If you think you are ready to move up in english then they should take your word for it but they will let you know that you can see them for help whenever you may need it.


If none of that information helps im sorry.

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is there a certain kind of pad or pantiliner that is made to wear with thongs?


and if yes, what are they called and what is the best brand?

Yes they are sold anywhere there are pads && tampons.

http://www.kotex.com/na/products/pantiliners.asp?h=l&p=ltdythng


Thats what the box looks like.

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ok i am 13 years old and my breast are a 38C! they hurt and they hang too. one of my breasts is bigger than the other and it is kind of noticeable. my mom said that when i turn 18 i can get a reduction because by the looks of it now they are going to keep growing. i dont want really small breast i want then to be big but not heavy like they are now. and right now they are triagular shaped insted of round. i want then to be round but not really small. i dont want anything less than a BIG B cup. but no bigger than DD cup. so do you think i should get a reduction when im older or keep them big?

Its kinda early to plan a reduction. You still have 5 years till your 18. When i was about 13-14 i was flat as a bored. Now im 17 and a DD. So you really never know if you will grow or stay the same. Buy a reallly good bra. They have bras that are like sports bras at walmart and they are really good and they sport you .

http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=2652304 - You can wear a bra under neath the sportbra for more support.

http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=873400 - kind of alot of money but its worth it.


Hope i helped.

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My iron has black stuff on the bottom and it keeps rubbing off on white clothes but it won't be wiped off. Any tips for getting it off and any idea why it's there in the first place?!

IM not sure how it got there but when you iron something put a thin piece of fabric between the iron and the piece of clothing so the black stuff will go onto the thin piece of fabric.

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I've been called in to an interview for one of the jobs I applied for, its at Baskin Robbins. Since this is my first job, I'm kind of nervous about this interview. What types of questions do they normally ask?

If you have any experience.
School & grades usually.
Sometimes some of your hobbies.
When you are able to work.
If they will be able to depend on & make sure that you arent going to leave the next week.
If you work well with others.


They usually tell you what you will be doing. And if you do get the job there usually is alot of paper work to fill out.

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Ok, yesterday i went to the bathroom and saw a tiny blood stain on my undies. it wasn't there before, and i don't have my period yet. is this it :S. i've had some cramps today too, but no more blood ...

It might be. Wear a pantyliner so if it is it wont ruin your undies.

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im having revival at my church all this week. i forgot to ask off from work, and im the type of person that hates to inconvenience people. i got someone to work for me monday. my only two days are today and friday. today, im supost to be training a new girl(about the 5th one theyve had me train),so, their definetely gonig to be inconvenienced. plus, tomorrow,i have a family graduation party to go to. i just feel bad asking for the whole week off, and inconveniencing them. any ideas on what i can say?

If you can't have someone trad shifts with you or work for you. Call work as soon as possible and let them know what is going on and that your extremely sorry && and next time just make sure you give a 2week notice that you wont be able to work. As for the Person you are supposed to train im sure there will some one else that can do the training.

Any Question drop one in my inbox.

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Hey, i'm looking for a digital camera, small, not over 200. any suggestions on some good ones? thanks.

They have Many at walmart. Theres a kodak camera with a printer at walmart thats like 180$. I have a small one On the front it says SVP 1.2 mp it has a 2.5" LTPS TFT screen. And i ordered it from a store on ebay. And it was bradn new. For only 145$ and it works reallly well.

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How do you decide whether its love or lust?
Or seven years over 7 months?
I'm caught between a long standing relationship and a hot crush?
What should i do ?
How can I decide?

Deff. stay with the 7 year relationship. If you leave then you will lose everything that went into the relationship. Im guessing you love this person of 7 years because thats a long time.


Don't leave the person you love for the person you like, Because the person you like will leave you for the person they love.

Its a perfect quote.

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Ok I know smoking is bad for you and that I shouldn't do it. Im a 15/f and been smoking for I would say bout 2 maybe 3 yrs. I have tried to quit before and I can't.Now I'm trying to lose weight and I have heard it helps keep off the pounds. Is it true?(please don't lie so I will quit I want a honest answer.)

When People quit smoking they gain weight && alot of it. Everyone i know that quit has gained pounds and im not talking 2-3 pounds.

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Hey, I'm 17 and have been with my bf for just over 6 months...about a month ago he asked me to move in with him, and i really want to but i dont no how to ask my parents cus i dont think they will approve... how do i tell them that i think its the right thing to do???

Maybe that not such a great idea. You have only been with this guy for six months. Thats not very long. Atleast not long enough to move in with him. yea you can ask you parents but they wont take it well. What if you do and you and your boyfriend break - up.? what Happens when your parents don't let you back in the house? You should wait till your 18 or until you and your boyfriend are together longer.

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Hi, i am 15 nearly 16 and my teenage years which i should be enjoying are being ruined. ever since i was young i have had an obsession with babies and at one point i almost slept with someone i had only just met, to get pregnant. luckily i couldn't go through with it and after a while and a great deal of thinking i managed to bottle these feelings up and get on with my life and hopefully get a degree to become a high school teacher. Since i have entered year 10 i have been taking child development which is 90% about babies, also a girl in the year below me is pregnant and is really excited and I'm just so jealous! everyone i have talked to said "it just my hormones" or "its just a faze" but its not, its more than that. it is making me depressed and my GCSE's are suffering because i cant tell the teachers why i am always so down and moody so they just assume i am being immature, then cocky when i say that I'm not being immature. I'm not a big clubbing fan so if i did get pregnant that wouldn't bother me and my best mate had a child at 16 (she is now 19) and she says its great and she hasn't missed out anything she wouldn't sacrifice anyway. please help me, i just don't no what to do!

Teenagers that have sex just to get pregnant. (or even say they would do that) Thats immature. Your only 15 and yea you may think you want a baby but you don't know what your talking about. In your Paragraph you didnt say one thing about a job that actually pays you money. If you do not have a job it is impossible to raise a baby. Your friend that had a baby at 16 hasnt lived yet. shes only 19 and her life is spent with her kid. And i bet her parents are a main part in that kids life.

Every Single one of my COusins have kids (except for the ones under 13& one 17 y.o) They said the same thing you are saying right now And they dont even no what to do with their kids. 2 of my cousins gave their kids to their mother. And the one Cousin is struggling with raising her kid and she Always leaves it with her mother. Because they are all young they would rather go out and have fun with friends.

Maybe you say your not into the Whole clubbing scene. You Dont know if you will be the same way when your 21 and with a kid.

Your not ready and you may not like the answer that everyone is telling you but you should wait for someone special and settled down for life.

For now maybe babysit kids.

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I JUST got my permit the other day--and so today, I BEGGED my mom to let me drive out of our parkway---yeaaaah didn't turn out so well because I had NO FRICKIN' clue what I was doing. She kept yelling at me--and it scared me! I know this sounds incredibly hilarious because I'm laughing about it now--but I was REALLY scared. Anyway, tomorrow I'm driving around tomorrow at driver's ed and I don't want the instructor to think I'm an idiot. I have NO EXPERIENCE whatsoever. Today (with my mom) was the FIRST time in my life I have sat in the driver's seat and put the keys in. I didn't even know how to put the key in until my mom told me. I NOW realize that BRAKES are the most important thing EVEEEEEER. Does anyone have any tips for me tomorrow..so I don't look stupid? PS. I'm 16! :) Thanks!!

this is funny sorry. But umm you sound clueless about driving. Maybe you should go outside and sit in the car and figure out what all the buttons in the car mean and what they do.Ask your mom anyy questions you have about driving before tomorrow.

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what does it means when a guy say the girl is "easy"?

Its when a guy can pretty much say "lets have sex" and shes there to do it. She doesnt think twice about who she has sex with.

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My friend is 13 and ran half a mile in 5 mins and 13 seconds. Is that slow, regular, or fast?

its kinda of slowish && averagge. Usually 2 min a lap is average or around there.

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ok so a few days ago i caught my almost 16 yr old brother looking at porn on the internet...and he caught me spying on him. and i promised to him i wouldnt tell cuz god only knows what my parents would do... so idk what to do like is this normal .. it probably is but what should i do its just kinda freaky ....
help!

This is totally normal. Your brother is 16. pretty much the age where his hormones go crazy i would just let it slide.

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How do you put a picture from photobucket on to your myspace?? thankyaa ill rate really high ;)

im guessing you have already browsed and have the picture of photobucket. After that you copy the address labeled "tag" And paste that on your myspace.

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Hi, I was just wondering if anyone knew of any numbing stuff you could buy at any store. I need it for my mouth. Please Help!!! I'm in a lot of pain!

If its like a tooth ache kid of deal then
Oragel. it numbs

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i know what masturbating is, but how do you describe it. my little sister asked me what it was, and i didnt know like how you say, so i just said i dont know!

When a male or female Plessure themselves.

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ok, i go to swimteam during the summer, but i started my period. what tricks can i do-besides a tampon-to prevent blood from coming out? i've tried panty liners already...

Tampons are pretty much the only thing you can wear. And you dont wear panty-liners or any kind of pads in the pool.

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