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How To Decide?
How do you decide whether its love or lust?
Or seven years over 7 months?
I'm caught between a long standing relationship and a hot crush?
What should i do ?
How can I decide?
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the love or lust thing could be determined by the simple idea of- wht if his manhood got cut off in a tragic accident, and he could never have sex with you?- would you love him still, or would you break up with him?- break up- lust
stay together- love.
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You don't have to decide if it's love, if it is love then you just know, there wouldn't be any doubt in your mind.
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Nobody can decide for you who you should stay with. If you are having feelings for someone else whilst in a long term relationship, are you getting fed up with that person? If the seven year relationship was really the one then you would have no feelings whatsoever for anyone else. You may be suffering from the "seven year itch" and realising that there may be someone else out there that is more suitable for you. Give yourself some time to reflect on what both people do for you before you make a decision. Ask yourself how you would feel if your present partner was no longer in your life. Don't two time them because that would be totally unfair. Take this slowly and weigh up all the pros and cons of the situation. I wish you good luck.
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Deff. stay with the 7 year relationship. If you leave then you will lose everything that went into the relationship. Im guessing you love this person of 7 years because thats a long time.
Don't leave the person you love for the person you like, Because the person you like will leave you for the person they love.
Its a perfect quote.
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You stay with your long term relationship.
Why would you even consider doing otherwise? Is the relation of 7 YEARS really worth throwing away over a hot crush? If it is to you, you don't deserve either.
Stay with your long term relationship and just forget the hot crush, because if you end the long term relationship and go for the crush, 10 to 1 you will lose him, then you get screwed both ways.
-Ryan
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