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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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Hi. 15/m. Weekend mornings I try to cook breakfast, and as the title suggests, scrabled eggs. After pouring the contents into the pan, i try to bunch it all up...because lately I've been trying to make an omlette. Do the same rules apply, or should I try to use a lot less cooking oil? Any tips/suggestions? Thanks a lot.

i think that is soo cute how guys have the urge to cook. anywyas you need help with scambled egss i will tell you that if you need help with omletes i can tell you that to just drop it in my inbox and i will gladdly explain it to you.

scrambled eggs
pretty simple you dont fill up the pan all the way you put a lil bit of oil or at least to wear the pan is cover wit it but it has to be all smothed out like no hieghth to it. then when you pour the content in it you dont move it right away. you let is set until it hardens a lil (like a minute or 2) then move it around and then you will have scrambled eggs.

hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!!

that has happened to me be4 he probably did but want you to feel it and back off you know. my bf has done that be4 to me except i moved his hand and felt it..
~*Stephanie~*

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I would like to know what it is that I can say and do to get my ex-boyfriend back who wants to take things slow, but we have a child one the way and I want him back before she is born?

talk to him and tell him the truth about how you feel. explain to him if he doesnt love you to do it for the baby. dont just wait talk to him ASAP.. explain to him evrything about how you fel towards him and your baby.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay well i wanna find out if this one guy likes me how do i do that without being forward online hes always like "we should hook up agin" cuz we kinda allready did but when i see him we dont even talk so what do i do and how do i find out what he wants?

the best and easiest way is to just ask.. i eman if you want the truth just ask and find out. dont jump to thinks ask and fund out the truth. hoep this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i haven't had my period for 2 months and i know i'm pregnant because i'm a virgin. relatives and stuff think that i have a problem with reproductive system or something and wants me to see a gyno, but i really don't want to do that and i'll make that my last resort. they think it's because i always drink cold stuff and don't eat. my weight is the same as before and idk. help? i'm 14/f by the way

your perfectally normal. DONT see a gyno go to ur family doctor and if it is a guy he will send you to a girl that will help you out that isnt a gyn.. but i dont see a reason for you to go to the doctor because it is normal and you shouldnt worry about it to much.
*~Stephanie~*

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if it kind of smells down there is that normal? would shaving help?

yes it is normal and shavin will help because there wont be anything for the smeel stuff to get stuck in and make the smell stay there. so shave it and clean it wit a good deodarant soap and when your done put some good smellin lotion on it so you wont get razzer burns.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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hi, 13/m
i have hair around my "butt hole". is this normal? should i shave it or something?
all fives.

its normal just leave it ther dont shave it or more will come out and a lot noticeable.
*~Stephanie~*

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( im a 13/m ) and i need some awesome things to say to my gf because we are dating long distance, and over the phone i need to say some cool things to my gf like about how much i love her and stuff. I need this info asap thanks!


(a website link would work too)

easy 5's guys!!!

tell her how you feel. dont tell her about girls hittin on you etc. she wont be into that. just explain to her that you love her and that you would do anything for her. hope evrything works out for you.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay well i been going out with this guy for 7 months and we always make out but after a while it just gets boring just doing that. If we have sex what do i need to no .. i mean i no a lot of stuff ... but what else should i no because it would be my first time and im afraid im going to do somethin wrong .. idk ..
thankss

if you dont noe what to do i am waring you not to take a chance and have sex. if your not ready then do it. but the ebst thing for you to know is to start BP (birth control) and to let him use a condom. just so you dont have a babby to take care off. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you kiss someone ... im afriad i not going to do it right...

thankss

to be honest with you there isnt a technique to do. i used to be just like you. and i have asked a question similar to urs on here and someone told em the easiest and best way to do is go with the flow and mover your tongue around your partners tongue. more htne have the time a guy takes charge of it and you just follow him.. hope this helps you out.

http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm

http://www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/

those links are the bets i can give you.
*~Stephanie~*

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Two questions. My mother has offered to put my girlfriend on the pill. (aka birth control) And i believe they are starting the process some time next week. Two questions i have about it.

1) Is it true that the ultraviolet radiation from a tanning bed deactivates the pill and doesnt allow it to serve the purpose its made for?

2) What are the chances of a girl whos on the pill getting pregnant? I mean of course if were going till we both finish, i'd use a condom but what about pulling out and all that?

Any girls that are pretty sure about this please lemme know. I DONT WANT A KID!!! lol

1) that isnt true.

2) the pill is like 99.9% effective. because it makes the body think she is pregnant when she really isnt. so she cant be pregnant twice.. hope this helps you out. and your lucky to have your mom watchin out for you like that. some parents wouldnt want there kids doin that kind of stuff.
*~Stephanie~*

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what does 143 mean?

1 I

4 LOVE

3 YOU

hope that helps. it goes for the letters for the words.
*~Stephanie~*

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when you shave your vagina are, is wierd or normal to shave everything? i mean like completly bald i guess youd call it, i dont really know what im talking about but i need help. all thoughts appreciated..thnx

nope it is normal..
*~stephanie~*

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I cheated on my ex-boyfriend while we were together. I realized I did not love him, and broke it off with him after that. Well, I still loved him very much and he loved me, so one day we decided to hang out as friends. Well, one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. Well, I realized how much of a mistake that was, so I stopped seeing him or talking to him completely.

Now I found out I am pregnant. I am 19 years old and he is 20. My ex-boyfriend is a really good person and I think he'd make a very good father. If our problems weren't enough, here is the biggest issue.

He is foreign. He is staying in the country on a student visa. He will have to leave in 6 months unless we get married. I desperately don't want him to leave. Not for me, but for our future child. The flight to his country and back to visit would be 1200 dollars per trip. Everyone is pressuring us to get married so he can fulfill his fatherly duties and our child could have both parents around. We've research all possible ways he could stay, and it basically comes down to him marrying me.

What should I do? I can't see myself being with this person forever, but I can't see my child only getting to see his father once a year or so. I am seriously thinking about marrying him until he becomes a citizen, and then divorcing. Ugh, it's so frustrating, I don't even want to think about it!!!

first of all are you sure you want to keep the baby.i mean there is a lot of other things you can do like adopion and abortion.. i dont think it is a good idea to marry someone and then devorcing them. when you marry someone it means you love them and you promise to stay together DO YOU APART.. not to be mean or anything but i was always raised to think twice be4 doing soemthing. if you knew he wasnt goin to be able to raise a baby with you and be in your baby life forever. you guys should have never had sex to begin with if you cant take care of a baby together and not only that but that you guys dont have love for each other. but anyways you cant change the past so i dont know what to tell i guess you should marry him and devorice him.. in my opinon i think it is a big sin.. but hey its your life and your mistakes.
*~Stephanie~*

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I want to raise enough money to buy a nano iPod but many places you have to be 16 to work at. My friend told me that to work at McDonalds you can be 14(my current age) Does anyone know if this is true?

P.S-I know there food is the worst for you but I'm working there for the money.

yup you can.. i am planning to get a job right now to at a fast food place..lol.. =]
*~Stephanie~*

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Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.

it is all up to you. if you ant to you can but i wouldnt advice you to because it will come out priccly and it will feel nasty. timming it is the best thing to do.hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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does anybody know what the one song that goes "baby im freaky" is called. All i know is that Pit Bull and Lil' Jon sing it. I dont know anything else they say because its in spanish.
I rate 5's!!

toma.. by pitbull

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Hi!

I would like to know having sex how many times a day, is healthy...

Thanks.

With warm regards,

Udhay.

it isnt health.. well from what i know. espacially if you are young.
*~Stephanie~*

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Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks..

nothin they are the same. just differnet wording. so it doesnt sound sexual

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my friend was fingering me the other night and when he was done he askd me if i poped and i said no but i really wasnt sure....how can i tell...what exactly does it mean?

i dont think he popped it..but it is possible.
*~Stephanie~*

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