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The names Sammy. I'm 16. 5'0" & 96 pounds. Homeschooled & in the 11th grade. Live in the beautiful state of North Carolina. I loove Hollister & Pac Sun, they are like the best stores ever invented. Smoothies are my anti-drug, haha.


I enjoy helping people- so ask whatever you feel like, no matter what it may be & I'll try my best to help you :)


By the way, I've learned not to take things in life for granted. Always remember that. ♥

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im 13 female and im like so scared right now. i was just in the bathroom and i wiped and there was brown liquidy stuff on the toilet paper. no i didnt go number 2. ive never had my period b4 plz help

More than likely- you just started your period. That's what it looks like the first time you start. So don't worry :) You should probably tell your mom and she'll be able to help you get all the things you need. :)

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GiNGER QUiT! =( =(

Omg, are you serious?! Why? =/ Ugh, it's like everyone is quitting now. This seriously sucks. But I guess it's something she really wanted to do, so we can't stop her. I'm gonna miss her though! Who is this anyway? :)
*I just looked at her column & it said she's just taking a break. So maybe she'll return soon :)*

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were do igoto to get the link to put into my aim profiel?

Well, it really depends on what your talking about. If you're talking about the advicenators website then you just put "http://www.advicenators.com" or if you're talking about a specific column then the link would be "http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=usernamehere" I'm guessing that you already know how to add links to your profile.. and I'm not even sure if this is what you wanted.. but hopefully I helped? :)

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okay so thers this sorta old rap/hip-hop old song. i need the name and the artist plz.here are the lyrics that i remember:
"yall gunna make me lose my mind up in hur up in hur. yall gunna make me act a fool up in hur up in hur. yall gunna make me go all out up in hur up in hur" i rate 5's for any correct answers.

Party up by DMX. I used to love that song :)

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is there a way to just leave a message when calling somebody? like you dont want them to pick up you just want to leave a message?

Nope, you can't do that. It would be kinda cool if you could though. :)

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is it possibly to get pregnant if you have sex without a condom but the guy didnt cum

Yes. Because he more than likely had "pre-cum" and you can still get pregnant by that. So next time I'd advise you to use a condom, so your chances of being pregnant aren't as high. :)

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I'm 19/m

I've never masterbated before, and honestly I've never had an urge to.. Am I abnormal?

No, that's normal. Not ALL girls masturbate even though that's what like everyone says. So it's fine- don't worry. :)

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You answered my question about the '100 things I love about you' and I wanted to see what you think about my finished product!

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OMG!! That is seriously the cutest thing ever. :) I love it!! You and your boyfriend are totally adorable and meant for each other. So sweet. I'm sure he'll love it tons♥ How long have you two been together? And, do you have AIM? Haha. :)

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i have extremely dry skin on my face. are there any at-home remedies for this?

Well, I personally don't know of any at home remedies to help dry skin, but you could probably search Google and find some. Although, Olay moistorizing face lotion always works really good when my face is dry. :)

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my freind thinks im anemic soooo

1) how can you tell if youre anemic?
2)how do you get anemic?
3)how can you be not anemic anymore?

http://www.ehow.com/how_5436_know-you-are.html
http://www.emedicinehealth.com/articles/4893-3.asp
Those links should help you. :)

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hey ok is gonna sound really dumb especially to me cause music is my life...but what EXACTLY is r&b??? xoxo thanx no smart a answers

Rhythm and Blues. :)

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so I am "seeing" this guy right now. I feel really comfterbal with him. I could lay with him for hours! I have had a tendancy to be a prude in the past and all though I havent done anythign with this guy yet I feel like I could just let go and be comfterbal with him. He even admitted to me he has a past with being called a pimp so when he is "with" someone people think its weird. But we are "seeing" eachother.. I was just wondering if you think this is safe for me emotionaly? I mean so far all he has been is great. He has made me feel so comfterbal and I have really fallin for him. What do You think i should do?

Well, if you aren't actually together as like a couple, then doing things with him would be considered like a friends with benefits relationship. That definately wouldn't be safe for you emotionally. Although, if you are sort of dating around and thinking about coming an actual couple, then sure it's fine to do things with him. But only do things when YOU want too & you know you won't regreat it or whatnot. Don't do something just because he wants you too.. or because you feel like you're being prude. :)

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OK, here it goes. I just started high school and by a few days in, I had made a few new friends. One friend added me to a huge conversation over msn and I met this guy. I added him to my msn and now we talk pretty often... Only over msn though. I rarely see him at school, he has a totally different group of friends and is only in one of my classes. Even though I don't talk to him in person much, I feel like he's a friend. I don't know how I should act now, because there are some things you can say to friends but not to other people. Should I treat him like a friend?

Yes, of course you should treat him like a friend. Maybe he's the type of person where it's easier for him to open up to other people and have a really good conversation online :) As long as he's nice to you & you like him as a friend, then it's totally fine. But maybe you should ask him to hang out during school or just go up to him and randomly say hey. If he avoids you at school when you try to approach him, then I'd start to wonder wheather or not he's your friend. :)

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Okay.. I really like this guy, but he is the most popular guy in our grade! I know I have not much of a chance with him. A school dance is coming up this Friday Night, and I want to dance with him so bad, but I am too afraid to ask. My friends say they'll help me, but I know I'll just chicken out!! What should I do?

You don't know that you don't have a chance with him. Everyone has a chance with at least everyone :) So if you're too afraid to ask him yourself ((which would be better if you did)) then just get your friends to do it for you. And, if he says yes- then yay you'll have a date. But if he says no- don't stress over it, you can just go with your friends. :)

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i want to get my hair redone. It light brown with a few blond highlights. it like right above my boobs and i have these long grown out bange a little below my chin. I also have an onval face and bigish nose. I want to get a hair style but keep it the same length. Can you please help and also i have some suggestions and please tell me which one is the best. http://www.dvdtimes.co.uk/images/TiffanyBradford/meangirls_c.jpg
http://www.meangirls.com/downloads/wallpapers/regina1024.jpg
http://www.meangirls.com/downloads/wallpapers/gretchen800.jpg

First or third one. :)
It's kind of hard to tell in those pictures though.. but yeah I think those are the best ones.

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For Christmas I thought it'd be cute to do a '100 things I like about you' for my boyfriend. First of all, is that a terrible idea? What do you think he'd think about it? He's pretty sentimental about gifts.
&& Do you have any ideas that I could put in there?
(IE: 17. I love when you say those cute little sayings you come up with out of nowhere.
23. I love how you write me notes when we both know you dislike it.
34. I love how you hug me from behind.)

Thanks!

Aw, that's a really cute idea. I think that he would really enjoy it! I guess it could all depend on the guy though. For my boyfriend & I's 6 months anniversary, I made 73 (7 is my lucky number & 3 is his) stars and wrote things I loved about him on each one, and he thought it was REALLY cute and sweet. He loved it :) So even though we girls all think guys don't like mushy stuff, deep down they do- it makes them feel good :) I'm pretty sure that your boyfriend would like it though. But I'd probably get him another gift to go along with it, like something he's asked for, you know? Happy Holidays :)

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Does sex hurt the first time?

It really all depends on the person. For some people, yes it hurts, but for others, theres hardely any pain at all involved. :)

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I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends?

Boyfriend because I don't have that many friends anymore, they all pretty much backstabbed me so we barely hang out. It's okay though, at least I have a wonderful boyfriend :)

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i have cingular and im getting a new cell phone soon becuase my contract is almost two years.. so my question is .. do i get to keep my old cell phone when i get a new cell ?

ps. this is my first cell phone if that helps

Yep. You get to keep your old cell phone :)

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Well Okay... first of all let me say thanks in advance for answering this.. i would really like opinions on this and sorry if this is long.. but i will rate fives for anyone who gives serious advice... (15/f)

Okay.. so first of all theres this kid who im really good friends with.. and ive known him since second grade. He is my best guy friend actually. And i like him too. I see him every day in school like he will come over to me in the morning and talk to me and once i had put my books in his locker. and he brought them to me knowing that i needed them. and he always pokes me and stuff. once he linked arms with me and just stood there for a while. and then he put his arm around my waist once too and just stood there. And well my school sells carnations for thanksgiving.. and well i sent him one.. and he sent me one.. and like im the only person he sent one too. and sometimes when im standing with him in the morning he looks at me when he thinks im not looking and this is not just like once.. so ya.. im wondering if he likes me or just likes me as a friend and what i should do about it if he does.. THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME

It's kind of hard to tell. Because him being your best guy friend & all, he's going to do sweet things like that for you, you know? But honestly, I think that he may just like you more than a friend. The only way you're going to find out is to ask him.. or have someone else ask him. :)

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