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About a month ago we had homecoming at our school, and during that week this one guy seemed to be really interested in me. He called me each night, and was sad if I couldn't talk for long periods of time. We spent homecoming night together and the following monday we hung out after school. We seemed to really hit it off, and he always made it a point to see me each day in school and talked about taking our relationship to the next step. Then he had a really bad night with his friends, I asked him about it, and he refused to tell me about it so I couldn't comfort him or anything. Since then, he doesn't really answer his phone or talk to me, he's almost the exact opposite. Is it just because of what hes going through with his friends or did I do something wrong? Might he still have feelings for me deep down and they are just covered up by his current mood? (link)
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well maybe you could send him a text message asking him if you did something wrong but do not go to indepth because boys get nervous that you are insecure if you keep bothering them. try to talk to him but not too much =]
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im not quite sure how to explain this but ill try .. see two of my best friends whom i LOVE to death are great.. we always have funn. But when all three of us are together, they act different and i dont like it, so how do i bring this up to them and what do i do? i NEED to let this out because im sick of trying to be nice and hiding how i really feel because by doing this im letting them walk all over me, and if i dont hide how i feel, then i turn into a bitch again.. theres no really RIGHT way to do this.. somethings gonna end up bad and someones gonna end up mad at me.. what do i do??? (link)
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you should talk to them both privately and tell them that this is bothering you and that you feel as if they are walking all over you make sure you are doing it seperatly with each of them or they could gang up on you. make sure that at the beginning of the conversation you tell them to let you finish before they interupt or you will never finish what you need to say. write it down first it will be easier to say. =]
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well see i have this friend and she one of my best friends.. shes always been there for me no metter what and shes listened to every problem i have and ive always been there for her NO MATTER WHAT.. but you see, the ONLY problem we have being friends with each other is that EVERY guy likes her, no matter who it is, i mean she has like a fan club that gives her whatever she wants and drives her wherever she wants etc, but the problem is when i like a guy, or when a guy likes me, shell support me to go out with him and then just when im about to.. shell ruin it, by sayin she likes him or hookin up with him, and i know i should be REALLY ANGRY with her, and I AM. but, i dont want to ruin our friendship over guys, you know? well how do i stop her from being like this?? i could always not tell her, but then she'd wonder why i wasnt talkin to her about guys like we ALWAYS do?? help me please. (link)
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well you should have her go to your house and talk to her in person .. dont start out in a way where she feels she needs to defend herself .. but give her examples so you have proof and not just your opinion because she might have a totally different one .. hope i helped =]
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I am a sophomore girl in highschool and i have had a major crush on this boy (who is a senior now) since last year. We have both ran on the same team for two years (but the season is over now). And i thought that there was absolutely no chance of "us" ever being together. But at our homecoming game (like october 3) i was sitting beside him and teasing him because a lot of freshmen girls always crowd around him. and he told me "its ok, because the girl sitting beside me (that would be me )is pretty cute. Then the next day he asked me to do something with him and we had an awesome time. But after that we didnt talk very much because i dont see him that much.
Then, about two weeks later, he called me and we talked on the phone for over an hour. He called me about 4 times within 2 weeks. He would skip class to eat lunch with me and it was great.
but i just found out that my friend has been telling him to call me and really pressuring him to be around me and ask me out and stuff. And now me and him havent talked on the phone for about a week and i'm wondering if he ever liked me to begin with or if he was just doing it becuase she told him to. (she has a way of leading people on and making them do stuff). I'm really confused and i dont know if i should call him or if i would seem needy, please help (link)
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of course you can call him .. and you should ask him about your friend. confront your friend tell her that you dont appreciate that she did that to you.
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THERE'S NO GETTING OVER THIS GUY - i mean seriously, we broke up 2 years ago, 2 YEARS, and ever since..ive done everything possible, everything you're supposed to do, to get over a person,... burnt his stuff, cried, talked to friends about it, gotten closure, dated other guys, you name it - ive done it! YET, im not over him. I think about him all the time, i still love him and still need him, and still dream about marrying him ten years from now, i havn't let go.. even though ive tried, so hard, for two years, im beginning to think i'll never get over him, i dont know what to do, he's moved on, his screenname is always about a new girl, h flirts like crazy, has fun, and at the same time has deep meaningful relationships, HE'S MOVED ON so howcome i can't? all along i knew i loved him more than he loved me and it meant more to me than it meant to him, so i knew it would take some more time for me.. but he got over me in a matter of days, IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS FOR ME. help me please. (link)
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have you talked to him about how you feel .. maybe you need to talk to a counselor at school or something. you need to figure out why he means so much to you .. was her your first? usually girls get really attached to their first
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Ok so here's the deal, I love my girlfriend to death, and i am willig to do everything for her, and just become so sweet when im around her. Everyone says im whipped, even her, so i want to become more asertive, that way i dont look so whipped. ya know? cause im kinda worried it's annoying her (link)
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next time she askes you to do something dont say yes right away .. let her think you will say no. when you are with your friends dont ditch them to talk to her or to hang out with her let her know that you have your own life =]
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So I'm like really close friends with this guy named adrian. We just met this year and I've liked him and he knows I do. We tell each otehr a lot of things and talk about almost everything. Well he flirts with me a lot.. like hes always hugging me and we fell asleep on a couch together last night. But he doesnt like me even though he flirts with me..maybe thats how he is but hes not reallly like that to everyone. We used to talk on the phone every night but now theres a girl in the picture her name is Patty. She likes him and he likes her and supposably they arent dating yet but they are close. I'm soo jealous and hes always asking to use my phone to call her and shes called my phone looking for him the other night. Ugh it pisses me off and makes me soo jealous. I like him a lot and i've tried to get over him but its just too hard. I dont know what to do.. help pleaseE? (link)
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well let him know that you arent gonna be his way to talk to her and your not comfortable with girls calling you looking for him. tell him exactly how you feel and say that if he doesnt like you then not to flirt with you because its leading you on and then you fall on your face =[ .. be honest =]
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I'm on the shorter/smaller side (5'0" and I have a 26" waist) and I'm not getting any taller (I'm taller than my mom). My style tends to be on the more "preppy" side. Anyone have any suggestions on where (or what brands) to buy jeans without having to get them altered? I have quite a few Buckle jeans already. I'm not a big fan of skinny jeans, but I'm open to ANY ideas/suggestions.
16/F
Thanks:) (link)
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im short too just a half inch taller than you. i like angel jeans they look good and they arent wicked long just long enough =]
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so i told my boyfriend I think we shoudl take abreak because he was being way to controlling and overpowering and he fraked out saying he was gonna drive his car into a tree and drove away..i found him and we talked and he keeps saying that if we broke up he would die..this relationship isn't good for me..how do i get out of it (link)
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you need to tell him that he needs to get help and that he cant rely on you to make him happy .. my boyfriend does kind of the same things sometimes when he gets upset and i just tell him that he cant make me his whole life because you never know what will happen in the future
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ok so i have a boyfriend weve been daying for 5 months and i love him to death. the problem is when i got my schedule changed i ended up in none of the same classes or lunches as my boyfriend =[
in my new classes im with this one guy lets call him d. hes so nice and he used ot like me. but hes about to ask this one girl out but i like him. i dont like him as much as my boyfriend but there is a little crush. Im happy for d but i dont want him to go out with another girl because i loved it when i knew i was the only girl.
what do i do?
confused with everything (link)
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well its not fair to your bf for you to like someone else, so you need to be straightforward with him or you shouldnt be with him. let d know how you feel too.
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okay so im 16/f and im a junior.
and i like this kid whos a freshman i know how awful is that? but i mean hes supposed to be a sophmore. so its not that bad. but yeah. and my friend said i should invite him to junior prom. and i know thats a long way away. but would it be kinda dorkish to bring a freshman to junior prom??
thanks in advance.
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if you like him and you feel an attraction to him go for it.. if your friends dont like it that sucks for them they dont have to go out with him. =]
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Every night I cry so hard because I get so hurt from having my boyfriend talk to other girls. Yes, I've talked to him about it, and he says they're all friends. I believe him, I just don't know how to stop being jealous. I get so stressed, and I'm just tired of crying and being hurt all the time. Please help me. (link)
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well there must be something that makes you not trust him or make you doubt the girls he talks to. its not fair that you cry yourself to sleep but maybe its not fair to him that you dont trust him. sit him down and talk .. make sure that you are alone and he is listening no distractions
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last night around 2am. i was sleeping on the couch because my room gets very cold. well right next to my house is 4 large peak windows. well two kids smashed them with baseball bats. it was the scariest thing. i was covered in glass. i didn't get hurt but i was so shocken up that i threw up and i could not stop shaking. now im terrified to go back to sleep. it took me 3½ hours to try to get back to sleep. the reason they smashed them was because my brother 18, got into an arguement with this kid and the kid wanted to fight with my brother but my brother wouldn't fight him. so they took it out on my windows. i just kind of stare. i've been quite depressed for a little bit of time now and after that i feel worse. i just don't want to move or do anything. i dont know what to do. i'm still shaking and can't stop crying. what can i do. please help. (link)
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you need to talk to your parents and tell them you think you need couseling or to see a doctor about the effects of a traumatic accident.
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what do i do if my best friend is going out with my exboyfriend? (link)
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that means she isnt a good friend. you need to tell her that its not right for her to go out with him .. or at least she should have asked you first if you cared. number 1 in the friendship handbook is NEVER DATE AN EX! =]
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My ex and I have been broken up for a month or so. It was a serious relationship, but we seem to be on a 'friend' level now where we talk/joke around. I love him and would like to get back together to see if things might workout, but everyone is telling me to play hard to get. The advice I get from my friends & family is to act like I don't care and he'll come to me. It has started to work, but I need to know if it will backfire? Does the playing hard to get for a guy or even an ex really work? (18/f) (link)
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playing hard to get works to a degree .. just dont make him think that you dont like him or he will turn and run.
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Haye yawl, this is kindof stupid n all but like me and my boyfriend hav been goin out 4 like a year this thursday and i kindof need a cute gift idea. i really love him and i need it 2 b awsome. he iz a country redneck boy cauz we r frum ga.so if u have a good idear id luv 2 hear it.thanx yawl :)!!
luv caroHaley (link)
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you should think about getting pictures together of the two of you and making a collage maybe a mix cd of songs that remind you of him itll show him you care
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heres the thing..my bf nd i have been going out for about 9 months and we love each other like crazy!we spent a lottt of time together too..just recently a girl from his school has been showing some interest in him. hes been making new friends too..so friday night we decided to chill with our friends..he went to a football game..i went to the movies. i gues now hes saying he likes this new girl a little and after talking we decided we would have a somewhat open relationship for now. nothing major..he says he will jus hang out with her..maybe kiss her nothing more. we are both young..only 17..and we are serious about each other. i respect him for being honest and not going behind my back..he says nothing will get inbetween us..he sees us being together for a verrry long time..he loves me soo much and even says he can see us marrying each other. i think the whole flirt around and date for a lil bit is kinda good too..but of course its kinda odd. i gues im looking for feedback? what are your opinions and what would you do?thanks so much ..its much appreciated and i will give good feedback (link)
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well i think that if you are both okay with going on a break then its alright but it cant be one sided .. if you feel that your relationship is strong enough to work after an open relationship than go for it. =]
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Ok, so me and my boyfriend[Brent] have been dating only a few weeks. Well today at our schools football game, one of his friends showed up[he doesn't even go to our school] his name is Sam.
Well, I was flirting ALOT with Sam. And then when my boyfriend left, I thought about how cute Sam was and how I actually liked him.
Which is pretty weird because he has a girlfriend & I have a boyfriend. But then he would come over and talk to me, and I would catch him staring at me. And then he kept hugging me and patting my back and all of that.
So what do you think? (link)
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stay with your boyfriend and you shouldnt flirt with his friends even if he says he doesnt care .. he does
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ok. so i went out with this guy in the summer. it was like this little cute thing we had. and well tehn he went away on vacation for like 2 and a hlaf weeks. then right when he c ame back i was on vacation. then when i came back i wanted to see him so badly! because like i never told him like that i liked him because he thought i never did. but ithought he assumed it because i mean i was going out with him and had kissed him and stuff. and well when i came back he sent me a message on myspace. not even in person. but on myspace saying he was breaking up with me because he didnt want A SUMEMR relationship. hes like we will talk about US in teh summer. and call me sometime. so like i caleld him and stuff. and he never picked up the first few days. so i gave up. then about 5 days after he broke up with me. he started going out with this girl. and i got really mad because he didnt want a summer relationship and here he was going out with this girl. i mean he could have just told me. so if he lied about me to that im like what else did he lie about? well, i still like him. and it is october. last week i told him how i felt and all and he gave no reply. then last saturday i was texting him and all and he was talking about how we should have lunch or whatever and we should talk and how we could maybe become a couple again. well that was a lie. while i was there crying and happy he was there laughing his head off with his friends. now i cant look at him without crying or like wanting to punch him. and one of my best friends locker is next to his and i have been using hers and im still using it because i want him to have to deal with me because one day i will confront him. and after i found out he told my friend he felt like an ass for doing what he did. well duh! he should that broke my heart. i mean i still am cryign about it. and im so mad. and i dont know what t odo. i eman hes a jerk for doing taht but i dont know. and now his friends whenever i pass them are like "jerk". and it is just annoying. i dont know what to do.
sorry this is so long.
help!!!!!
and my friend and him are going out to lunch one day in school. but like there just friends. like i know they are. so there not going as anything more. and my friend has a boyfriend anyways. but when i found out (today) i was like so sad.
i get jealous so easily.
its like i hate him but i love him.
i dont know what to do. help!!
sorry this is so long (link)
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first of all im sorry that guy was a jerk to you thats horrible and no one deserves that. second you need to find someone else try not to let them bother you. and dont let him and his friends know they bother you or you let them win. act like you dont care even if it kills you. it will make you stronger and things easier. PROMISE =]
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16, female..
how can i get over this guy? we're pretty good friends but somewhere, somehow i ended up falling for him and he has a girlfriend of about 4 months and they are in love..shes always saying how lucky she is to have him and how perfect he is (or thats what i hear) i dont really know her! but i know hes amazing, i know he is sweet and everything i just cant get over the fact that he loves her so much and i cant even get him to look at me like he use to when we flirted like crazy in the summer when he didnt have a girlfriend. i dont want to waste my time thinking about him i mean i dont want to wait forever! i know i should try and go out do other stuff, and i DO! its just im always thinking about what he is doing and how i want to run into him or just see him :] it KILLS me so much just to know that i can never have him so i am trying so hard to get over him and see him as just a friend again. any ideas? i try to keep my distance, but hes good friends with my cousin and im always over there so we all hangout together! i love being around him but at the same time it hurts so badly and i dont want to put myself through this anymore..
well thank you so much! (link)
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oh hunny im sorry you feel this way but you need to know the truth. it will most likely wont happen or at least not soon. you shouldnt have to wait for him. its not fair to you. does he know you like him, has he ever said anything to you about liking you. and if he has than thats pretty shitty to do to his girlfriend and you probably shouldnt get involved with him. =] hope i helped
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