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15 and confused with guys
ok so i have a boyfriend weve been daying for 5 months and i love him to death. the problem is when i got my schedule changed i ended up in none of the same classes or lunches as my boyfriend =[
in my new classes im with this one guy lets call him d. hes so nice and he used ot like me. but hes about to ask this one girl out but i like him. i dont like him as much as my boyfriend but there is a little crush. Im happy for d but i dont want him to go out with another girl because i loved it when i knew i was the only girl.
what do i do?
confused with everything
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well its not fair to your bf for you to like someone else, so you need to be straightforward with him or you shouldnt be with him. let d know how you feel too.
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I understand that you love the feeling of knowing you were the only girl, but remember: you are your boyfriends only girl.
I would stay with your boyfriend. You two have been dating for five months which can be a long time for some people, and just because you two don't have any classes together or anything, doesn't mean the relationship's doomed. It just means you two'll have to work harder at keeping in touch, which'll also show eachother how much you care for eachother. There's always hanging after school, calling eachother, the weekends.
Anyways, there's not even a point in pursuing with this guy. He's already going to ask out another girl, so it's not like you could date him anyways. Are you sure you like this guy, or are you just liking the attention he was giving you? Sometimes whenever girls have boyfriends, they like it when they get the attention from other guys because they feel that since they have a boyfriend, they get less attention from other guys since they're taken and everything.
Like I said, I would stick with your boyfriend. Obviously you two are going very well, and not being together alot could actually help the relationship because if you still work hard at talking to eachother and everything, like I said, will show you both how much you care for eachother and not seeing eachother might make you guys miss eachother more, and might make each hang out more and more special.
I hope I helped.
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You are human, so your selfish feelings are natural. The only choice you have if you are not going to break up with your guy and go for this one, is to get over your posessiveness. Most humans if not all would enjoy having multiple partners to choose from, if there were no consequences, but there are real consequences, because the objects of our affection are real people who want the same respect we do.
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Ok so what girl doesn't like being the only girl for someone else? This little crush is nothing compared to the love you have for your boyfriend... it's more of a way for you looking at other oppertunities. You're probably feeling a bit lonely after being seperated from you're boyfriend so your looking for the attention of someone close to you... but think about it... if you're boyfriend were still in the same classes would you still have the same feelings for D? He knows he hasnt got a chance with you because you're already taken and he probably does still really like you but is moving on to another girl because he doesn't feel that something will happen between him and you. So let him move on, and you stick with you're boyfriend which you love :)
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stay with b/f and let the other guy go ask that girl out.
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So what if your not in classes with your boyfriend? It's not that big of a deal, considering he's still in the same school. Still in the same region. Yes, he's still in the same state. I consider you very lucky. Let the other guy go. If you have/had a crush on him, let your boyfriend know that. Sounds weird, but you owe it to him to be honest. Wouldn't you want him to tell you he had a crush on some other girl if it was true? So you liked being the only girl. As great as that might have been, don't dwell on it. You aren't any less better for not being the only girl. Give D a fair chance. If your happy for him, then let him do what makes him happy. So I'm sure you'll still spend time with your boyfriend, I'll leave it up to you on whether or not to tell him about the other guy. And try to forget about D, it sounds like he's going for somebody else, and your taken anyways. Hope that helped and good luck.
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well you know that you have to let him go out with that other girl. sorry to break it to you but he doesn't like you anymore. i think you liked him liking you. right now you have a boyfriend and you should focus on him. even if you may like d a little, you should treat him more as a friend.
maybe later on you will have a chance with him.
-- hope i helped
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