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Hey there all! I'm Charli and I'm 16 :) just! I'm usually the one my friends come to when they need advice and I love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through quite alot for someone as young as me (which in some cases is a good thing). I'll tell you exactly what I think so if you don't want the truth then I would ask someone else :) bye bye for now xxx
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im in soo big of a pickle. ive been with my boyfriend for like 14 months. i love him alot and cant imagine being without him. were like peas and carrots ya kno but this is my first serious relationship [his second]. two weeks ago, i met this guy at school.. hes rlly sweet and funny and flirts with me sometimes and gives me butterflies every time he hugs me [which was 3 times today!] or smiles at me. im not sure if hes startin to like me or if thats just how he is. i dont know what to do. what if he does like me and asks me to hangout or go out or whatever? i dont wanna be like oh sry i have a boyfriend and ruin my chances. because i do like him. but at the same time i dont know what id do without my boyfriend. he just may be the one but i dont know since i havent dated a whole lot yanno? so its like i wanna give this other guy a chance without hurting my relationship now, even though i know that cant be done. if me and my boyfriend break up, we're done, he's said before he wouldnt take me back especially if its over another guy bc he doesnt wanna get hurt. and i understand that but at the same time its kinda not fair to me. i dont know, i guess im looking for something bc our relationship is kind of one-sided in the sense that i drive 13 miles like 2-3 a week to see him and drive us wherever we go [he has no car] and sometimes end up paying for the things we do bc "he has no money" even though he has a job. and if we dont do anything we just sit there at his house. and thats starting to get REALLY old REALLY fast. but even as im startin to like this new guy i cant imagine not having my boyfriend in my ife you know? ugh i dont know! any input? sorry for the length.
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Familiar situation to me lol.... Sometimes when you have been with someone for so long you want the chance to have some fun... afterall the grass is always greener on the other side or is it? But thats whats going through your mind at the moment! Your wondering whether or not you would be happier with this other guy. If you and your boyfriend have been together for so long then it sounds like you have a good thing and from past expirience I wouldnt recommed putting that at risk because futher down the line you could seriously regret it! If you find that you and him are getting into a boring rountine then suggest doing something different like going out for a meal, shopping, or just go to the cinema together... if you try doing different things together then it could help you get along better and stop you thinking of what you could have and instead be thankful for what you already do have! Good luck hun x x x
okay me and my X went out like a year ago and still very good friends. we hang out and talk about our love life and stuff. now i still like him a whole lot and i heard he still likes me well now hes a big flirt and i wanna see if its ferr sure that he likes me but all my friends say i cant cause if he says no i will look like such a loser. && that would rele suckk 2. but hes not making any moves. just calling every single nite and flirting with me nonstop and school. what should i do?!!
Hard situation lol... Well first of all you need to make sure that you definatly want to go for this relationship again and consider why you split up in the first place! If you're still good friends then it is worth talking to him about, ask him simple questions like 'do you ever regret what happened with us?' and hopefully the conversation should go in the right direction! If you still want to be with him then i would fight for him else you will end up regretting it int he future... soemtimes love is worth risking looking like a loser for.
ok so i have a boyfriend weve been daying for 5 months and i love him to death. the problem is when i got my schedule changed i ended up in none of the same classes or lunches as my boyfriend =[
in my new classes im with this one guy lets call him d. hes so nice and he used ot like me. but hes about to ask this one girl out but i like him. i dont like him as much as my boyfriend but there is a little crush. Im happy for d but i dont want him to go out with another girl because i loved it when i knew i was the only girl.
what do i do?
confused with everything
Ok so what girl doesn't like being the only girl for someone else? This little crush is nothing compared to the love you have for your boyfriend... it's more of a way for you looking at other oppertunities. You're probably feeling a bit lonely after being seperated from you're boyfriend so your looking for the attention of someone close to you... but think about it... if you're boyfriend were still in the same classes would you still have the same feelings for D? He knows he hasnt got a chance with you because you're already taken and he probably does still really like you but is moving on to another girl because he doesn't feel that something will happen between him and you. So let him move on, and you stick with you're boyfriend which you love :)
Help! Please. Ok so I had this boyfriend for like 8 months. He was always so sweet and everything seemes to go right. He's a (A.) Student so he always expects to get good grades. But this year we entered highschool (we both go to different ones) and he failed 4 classes he was really sad and he said that he needs a brake. He said that he needed time to think and that he loves me but that he needs a brake also that his life isn't going the way he planned. And then I told him that I wasreally hurt. And then I signed off. But I haven't spoken to him for like 4 days he goes online all the time and its hard to see him online and not be able to talk to him. I don't want to talk to him because I'm afraid he won't write back or he says something mean. I don't know what to do. Also. My friend told me that he probably broke up with me because he wnats to date other girls. Is that true? What do u think about all of this?. Help. Sorry this is so long thanks!
Don't think the worst! So basically you went to different school... he failed some classes... this would of been a major blow to him after being an A student and he is bound to have a dent in his confidence. Maybe he feels like he has let his family down and let you down. What he needs right now is that confidence boost someone to reasure him that it isn't his fault. I doubt that he broke up with you to see other girls because if he did he would of broke up with you in a nastier way... which he didnt. If I were in your position I would talk to him and tell him that even though your not together at the moment you still want to be friends a be there for him while he is going through this rough patch. Knowing that you are going to be there for him will make him fel so much better and make him realise that he got a good girlfriend by his side. When he knows this then start talking to him about your relationship... ask him how long you think this brake needs to be. With any luck he will decide that hes better off with you than without you.
Every night I cry so hard because I get so hurt from having my boyfriend talk to other girls. Yes, I've talked to him about it, and he says they're all friends. I believe him, I just don't know how to stop being jealous. I get so stressed, and I'm just tired of crying and being hurt all the time. Please help me.
This isn't a nice position to be in and I'm going to be honest with you here... Your feelings about this will NOT change. If you are a jelous person then this will always be a problem to you.
If you look a bit deeper into this problem then you might see that its not because he is talking to other girls but maybe its because you dont find that he gives you the love and attention you want. What I mean is that you are maybe feeling that you are not in a stable relationship so you are wondering if he will leave you for another girl. What you could use at the moment is for him to reasure you that your the only girl for him and if you knew that then him talking to other girls wouldnt bother you as much.
I think you should talk to him again and tell him exactly how you feel about it and tell him how much he is hurting you... if he really cares about you then he will either reasure you that he loves you and you only or he will carry on hurting you. If he carries on doing this then he's not the right person for you and you need to end this relationship and find someone who will respect your feelings and not abuse the love that you are giving him.