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Website: MYSPACE =D
Gender: Female
Location: Rochester, MN
Age: 14
AIM: ARR pirate gurl
Member Since: October 30, 2006
Answers: 12
Last Update: November 7, 2006
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hey guys.. in 14, freshman. ivehad my boyfriend for just about a year. everyone has already had sex, or atleast thats what it seems like. And i really think im inlove witht his guy. i dont knwo hwo else to word it, just ITS LOVE. he tryed fingering me multable times, but i guess i got scared, and gave him a little push away. i think i was afraid he didnt knwo how to do it(hah) but anyways i also tryed to give him a handjob, but it was wayy harder than i thought. i almost just want to have sex, like when the moments right because i know that wont be any harder than fingering or givin a hj ya know??

help? i dont know that i should. i mean i want to but i dont know that it "right", or even realistic. im still young and all. im confused i guess.

also, any tips?? (link)
in my opinion, 14 is too young to be having sex...

but if you're completly ready for it, i guess you could go ahead.
just make sure you're making this choice by yourself. don't be pressured into doing it just because it seems like other people already have. just be sure if you do have sex, you won't regret it later. and also be aware of the consequences you may encounter.

hope i helped
Laura


Okay so yeah it's a little early but I need a Christmas gift idea for my best friend. He's a guy that I've known for awhile, and I really care about him. So just need some ideas without going over the top. I just don't know what to get him. Any ideas would help, just a variety of things that won't cost a lot. (link)
guys really like electronics, so i would suggest getting him something in that department.

you could get him something like a video game, or, if that's too expensive, you could get him something small like phone or iPod accessories. like if he does have an iPod, you could visit www.apple.com and see what they have there.

hope i was able to help!! =D
Laura


i just wanted to know what a kiss means on the lips the cheeks and so on... (link)
kisses can mean a lot of different things!

if you get kissed on the lips, that means the person who gave it to you really cares about you.

a kiss on the cheek can be an "i like you" kiss, it can be a friendship kiss, a love kiss by your relatives, and so on.


hope i helped =D
Laura


lately, i've been seeing things that look like the grim reeper. just really random things, like trees, or the shape of my blankets and its kind of freaky. does this mean anything (link)
it might just all be in your imagination!
or in other words, you might be looking for it without you even realizing it, so your mind will make you think you see it.

try to not think about it at all. just keep your mind focused on something you really like, so you'll see that instead.

hope i was able to help!!
Laura


OK, now it's my first year in highschool (freshmen) and my grades arn't like real bad but there not what i want them to be and some are below average. Not to be arrogant but i find myself bright. I can get around alot of things in school, for instance i have the rest of my homework done for the year in 2 subjects. The reason why was the teachers had left over workbooks filld out from the past years and i just show that to them. I still learnt eh material because when we get tested i have to know it so i read the vocab words and things. But i just don't like doing the written work cause it suks, Anyway i do all my homework too even when i have to do it and can't get around it. Thing is when i get my report card it says a C- in homework. The one thing that really got me mad also was i showed my english teacher one of my homeworks and she was giving everyone checks on her sheet to get it done and what does she do, she doesn't give me a check. I saw her look at it, it wasn't like she missed it. I think they all have something against me. I have a feeling they purposely don't record my assignments. I've approached them about this and they just say o no don't worry all your works in. Then when they say your missings this this and this i show them the sheets and they still don't record it. IDK WHAT TO DO. Im out of ideas to try and fix this. I also do 88 or better on most of my tests Please help any helps appreciated. Thanks (link)
hmm i've had a teacher that's been out to get me before...but she was a lot worse.

..so are you saying that you just copy your homework from previous years? because your teachers might reconize it somehow so they're not giving you your points.

but if that's not the case, try talking to your parents. i did that for my teacher problems, and during conferences they got things cleared up.

but i don't think they're plotting against you, because they would loose their job for that =)

hope i helped
Laura


does anyone know any breakdance websites?
other than bboy.org and bboyworld.com
cause i already have it =) thanks
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hmm i'm not into breakdancing, but i think i found what you're looking for..

try going to http://www.dancescape.com/links/dance-break-dancing.html

it has a lot of different websites listed, including the ones you already names.

hope i was able to help!
Laura


I know this is in the wrong category but I couldn't find the right one. I have a project due on monday about the song from aly and aj called "chemicals react." I have 2 analyze it. I really don't understand themessage in the song or what's going on. Does anyone know please help me!. Oh and if anyone doesn't know then does anyone know a website where they identifly music. Like tell the main points and stuff like that. I already tried songfacts.com but they didn't have it there. Any advcie is thnakful. Thankyou! (link)
hey i like that song!

--it's basically a love song about 2 people who look into eachothers eyes and realize that they're ment for eachother. in other words something happens between them.

hope i was able to help!
Laura


okay. i just bought an ipod nano. i put songs on it and everything. and i did everything correct. i pressed eject when i wanted to remove it. and now when i turn on the ipod, the screen goes white, and then black. i press the buttons, and nothing happens. i plug it back into the computer, do the same thing over again and it still doesn't work. what the hell?! (link)
hmm i'm not sure what the problem is, but you may have missed a step! that's happened to me before too.

after you import the songs, they get put into your library. you may not have realized but you have to highlight the songs you want and drag and drop them on your ipod tab (on the sidebar close to your library and playlists.)

if that still doesn't fix the problem, you could go to www.apple.com and look for help there.

hope I was able to help!!
Laura


Hey everyone.

Here is a question I have about pygmy goats. I am recently going to be purchasing my first one and I am very excited! So, I was wondering if you knew of any good websites about Pygmy goats, and information on feeding ect. Please dont tell me to google or search it because I have. I will rate 5's to anyone who will give me pointers or websites. Thanks!

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here is a great website!!

http://www.petsyclopedia.com/pygmy-goats/

you'll find it has feeding information, first aid tips, breeding tips, health care, and other things.

hope I was able to help!! =D
Laura


i cannot style my hair...like at all. whenever i get it cut at a beauty salon, i come back and it looks soo good, and i look at what shes doing, and then i try to do it at home and it looks bad. i even bought the same styling stuff. i dont know what to do because my hair is layered, a couple inches past my shoulders, and extremely curly - but not kinky curly just regular. and it always looks bad. i also have these weird bang things like that are halfway down my cheek, but thye look so stupid and i always have to pin them or something.

http://images.meredith.com/lhj/images/03/ss_100387745.jpg

its that type of curly hair...but shoulder length and blonde.





thanks for any tips!! (link)
The best suggestion I could think of would the next time you go to your beauty salon, ask your hairdresser if they could tell you how they did it. Have them give you step by step instructions, and possibly have them write it down (or you write it down if you can remember after you get home.)

I hope I was able to help!! =D
Laura


how do you know if a boy likes you? Especially if he's shy... ? Cause I'm so confused about this one boy who i happen to likeee!! Ahh but i just can't tell! How can you?

thanks! (link)
haha it's very hard to tell if a boy likes you, because there are tons of different ways they'll show it!

The most common way I can think of is them staring at you, and when you look back, they'll quickly look away. But other ways would be him being mean to only you, being extremely nice to you, going wherever you go, avoiding you, etc. What I would do is compare how he treats you to another girl you know he doesn't like.

hope that helps!! =D
Laura


ok, so there is this guy. i went to church the other night and could have sworn i knew him from somewhere. i walked up to him and started talking to him to see if he remembered me. he didnt. well the next night, yesterday, i saw him again trick or treating downtown. we talked a little more. ok well tonight i went to the football game. he was there. me and my friends were joking around and one told him i thought he was hot. he blushed. i do think hes hot, but ive only seen him a few times. he likes me, or so everyone says. i met him three days ago and have seen him everyday since. i like him and he likes me. ill probly see him soon if things keep going the way they are. first question, would it be too akward to go out with him? second, would you consider it destiny? third, would it be worth giving up a three month relationship? plz help. im a little freaked out about it. i dont know anything about him or his name. but he keeps showing up where i am. colud this be dangerous? thank you (link)
If you don't know anything about him, you should try to talk to him the next time you see him. You don't have to talk to him in front of other people, you could just pull him over to the side if you'd like. Try to find out things such as music he likes, what he thinks of animals, etc. But I wouldn't go out with him JUST yet. After you've found out more, you could go on a couple dates with him, but then you'd have to decide who you want to be with more - him or your current boyfriend.

I hope I helped you with your problem =D
Laura




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