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ive been seeing my bf 4almost ayear..ithink im ready for the
hey guys.. in 14, freshman. ivehad my boyfriend for just about a year. everyone has already had sex, or atleast thats what it seems like. And i really think im inlove witht his guy. i dont knwo hwo else to word it, just ITS LOVE. he tryed fingering me multable times, but i guess i got scared, and gave him a little push away. i think i was afraid he didnt knwo how to do it(hah) but anyways i also tryed to give him a handjob, but it was wayy harder than i thought. i almost just want to have sex, like when the moments right because i know that wont be any harder than fingering or givin a hj ya know??
help? i dont know that i should. i mean i want to but i dont know that it "right", or even realistic. im still young and all. im confused i guess.
also, any tips??
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Given the risks of STDs and pregnancy, you should not have sex at 14. Both guys and gals under the age of about 17 or 18 do not fully understand what love is. I know I didn't. Don't you think you would be better off dating other guys and learning what's available in this huge world, than to limit yourself to knowing only one guy?
Instead of thinking about sexual activities all the time, why not try just doing fun things together, with less emphasis on sex for now. One of the reasons both of you feel a constant need for sex is that you are not doing enough other fun and interesting things.
You have lots of time for sex in the future. Your opportunities to have sex don't decrease as you grow up. You will eventually find the right guy, and you will know it. In the meantime, try to find some hobbies, get involved in activities at school (or church), consider trying to help people who need help, look around your community and see if you can find ways of volunteering to make it a better place to live. These are things that you and your boyfriend can do together. Think of yourselves as a team, working together on a goal to help somebody or some thing. It's fun stuff.
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in my opinion, 14 is too young to be having sex...
but if you're completly ready for it, i guess you could go ahead.
just make sure you're making this choice by yourself. don't be pressured into doing it just because it seems like other people already have. just be sure if you do have sex, you won't regret it later. and also be aware of the consequences you may encounter.
hope i helped
Laura <3
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do whats in your gut if u ready for it go for it!!!!!!! Make sure you kno all the risks..You shouldnt be asking us this though. girl go talk to yo man bout it. Sex isnt a one way thing.
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ok well there are alot of things you have to look at on this topic, like are you sure you really do LOVE him or do you just think you do, also you need to make sure that you are going to stay with him becouse if you and him do have sex then what do you have? Nothing just the loss of your virginity and that is one thing that when its gone it NEVER comes back, But if you think the time is right and you think that you and him will always be together then i suggest go for it thats the best advice i can give. Hope i helped..
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no you should not have sex with any man/boy before your completely ready to. it should be a man you LOVE not some sex toy cuz everyone else is doin it cuz beleive it or not n ot everyone else is.
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