|
my x and i like eah other again.
okay me and my X went out like a year ago and still very good friends. we hang out and talk about our love life and stuff. now i still like him a whole lot and i heard he still likes me well now hes a big flirt and i wanna see if its ferr sure that he likes me but all my friends say i cant cause if he says no i will look like such a loser. && that would rele suckk 2. but hes not making any moves. just calling every single nite and flirting with me nonstop and school. what should i do?!!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Hard situation lol... Well first of all you need to make sure that you definatly want to go for this relationship again and consider why you split up in the first place! If you're still good friends then it is worth talking to him about, ask him simple questions like 'do you ever regret what happened with us?' and hopefully the conversation should go in the right direction! If you still want to be with him then i would fight for him else you will end up regretting it int he future... soemtimes love is worth risking looking like a loser for.
]
Really I think one night when you guys are talking, you should ask (since you are still good friends) ask him how you like, but like you were asking your girlfriends. And see what he says, if he has to think so sturdders or changes the subject, and he never gives you an answer, then theres a good chance its you. If you think it is then ask him.
Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T
]
Don't flirt back and don't pick up your phone BUT...don't be mean. Just treat him like he's a human being, but you're not interested in him...this will put him in the position of having to approach you more aggresively if he's interested. If he doesn't, then you know he's not interested. If he does, then you know he is interested and...you hold the cards. His flirtation is bait...to encourage you to make the first move so that he can have leverage.
It's important to be nice to him without being flirtatious, essentially you want to make yourself unavailable to him.
Good luck.
]
Be honest with him and tell him. You guys were already in a relationship I don't see any reason to be shy.
]
More Questions: |