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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.


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okay so my boyfriend we have been dating for about 3 months now and we talk on the phone constantly! i mean i really love him but i have a life and i dont have time to just talk to him for hours every night! and like when he calls he barley has n e thing to say! wut should i do? i dont wanna break up with him but i mean it will b really hard to tell him not to call me n e more!

aahhh please help me sooon!! b4 he calls again!! lol jk but yea i need advice soon

well u dont exactly have to stop talking to him on the phone. just limit ur time. that or do the things u need to do b4 he calls. or if he calls and ur really busy just tell be like "hey can i talk to u tomorrow, im really busy and doing......" w/e ur doing..good luck..i hope it all works out!

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i like two people. lets call them billy and bob. i really started to like billy. and one day i got someone to tell him. well my best friend told BOB that i like him. i didnt really but then i started to again. i didnt really hear much from billy but bob was starting to like me now. i talked to bob and he said "well i like you but i really want to get to know you more first and well see what happens from then." all of the sudden one day like 10 people come and tell me billy likes me. so now i want to go out with billy, but i dont want bob to think i dont like him and have him not like me anymore so if me and billy ever broke up bob would think im running back to him. i dont feel like waiting for bob and have billy not like me either. what should i do ?

i no that ur not gonna want to hear this but its the truth..."pick one and stay with him." figure out which one u have a future with, which one u would rather be with, which one makes u happier. its not easy, that i no. but let it all play out. and it will become clear in a little bit.

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ok, im doing a science fair at my school blah blah blah...is this a good project: How does music affect one's ability to sleep well?

please be honest, p.s:im in seventh grade(13)
just thought it might help judge...thanx

thats a great idea. good luck with it!

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hey, do you have any good "love" qoutes like fer guys to put like in ur profile..?

thnx so much, if u cant find any its ok!

luv quotes are the best! im not sure if guys would like these so ill just give u a couple of quotes..and if u want so more just let me know.:

~Don't give up on love, because there is always someone who loves you...even if it's not the person you were hoping for....

~luv is blind and itll take over ur mind

~When yOu lOve sOmeOne
theres nOthing yOu can dO
yOu cant cOntrOl yOuR heart
It cOntrOls yOu

~You know you're in love when you think about someone more times in a day than you think about yourself.

~*LoVe* doesnt cause pain~*PeOpLe* do..

~*It's your good personality*
*That great smile*
*-and those sexy eyes-*
*That keeps me luvin you*

~I’m falling even more in love with you,
I’m letting go of all I’ve held onto.
I’m standing here until you make me move,
I‘m hanging by a moment here with you.

~Trying to forget someone you loved
is like trying to remember someone you never knew

~Every now and then, my eyes start to water,
my heart feels the hurt and my mind starts to wonder.
As I'm filled with memories, I'll realize that I do
and still am deeply in love with you

~YOU are the reason why I have sleepless nights.
YOU are the reason why I tend to hold my pillow tight.
It's YOU that I'm thinking when I lay down at night.
And YOU are the reason I can't sleep without saying goodnight

~All our lives we search for someone to love,
someone to make us complete.
We choose partners and change partners.
We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope,
all the while wondering if somewhere, somehow..
someone perfect is searching for us too

~You know you love someone when you want them to be happy
even if their happiness means that you're not part of it


theirs a couple of the many of luv quotes. like i said b4 let me know if u want some more or if those arent the ones u wanted or anything..i hope i helped.

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alright this guys..lets say collin and he and i are best friends. but when im not around he'll go around and ask my other friends where im..but when i get there he'll like ignore me! then last night we were at a party and he was flirting with me..then the next minute hes flirting with this other girl..but looking at me well doing it! i mean does he like me or not?! cause i really like him..but i dont kno if i should keep liking him! also he has a girlfriend and they have been going out for 5 months..but they havent kissed or anything.

if he has a girlfriend then he shouldnt be flirting with other grls.

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Hey. WeLL, I have a lot of stress on me right now. I have a math project and a book report to due, and I only have 3 more days tp finish including today. The book report is not only writing the book report, but you have to make a cover for it, reading notes, web organizers, etc. And in the math project you have to make graphs, research, solve problems, etc. I really want to make staright A's this quarter, and I think that if I don't complete these 2 assignments that it will bring my grade down, and everytime I think of that I have emotional breakdowns where I keep on crying, and I can;t control it becuse I keep on thinking negative without thinking positive like I should be doing. Can anyone help me get through this on a positive note. I'd really appreciate it.

dont think about the grades, just think about getting ur projects done and complete for the due date. good luck.

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I used to like this guy for like 2 yrs. i was soo freaked out that i couldn't even talk to him.(hes a yr older than me)...well then i realized that i had a crush on a completely different guy(3 yrs. older than me) and convinced myself that i didnt like the other one anymore....now me and the 1st guy talk a LOT and its soo cool!! everytime that i talk about my new crush...he either looks away or talks w/ me...i have stopped liking the 2nd guy but i haven't told the first one yet..but my problem is that i never stopped liking the 1st one...and i think he knows....but i dont want to tell him...and loose our releationship.
~Confused

i dont think that u would loose ur relationship if u told him. i think u should tell him. or atleast tell him that ur over the one guy. but good luck.

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Ok i asked a question eirlier in the month about a guy i really like and telling him i like him. Or atleast its what ya'll said to do and i was almost there some days but i just couldnt think of almost ruining everything if he didnt fell the same way. We flirt,he opens doors for me, and its all ok. But for some reason, it seemed like he liked me a lot but now its kinda fading away(or so it seems). Maybe its just this week or something and our relationship will go back to its normal ways (flirting, liking eachother stuff). But Should i still tell him, and see what happens?? I really like this guy, he means so much to me. what do i do?

some relationships are like that..they will be fine and then slowly fade away..and there isnt much that u can do for that. i would just let things go for a little bit and everything should come into place...good luck

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i just wanna say thanx to all the pplz tht helped me the otha day. but i didnt get to read the feedbac till like 2 mins ago.. so im gonna do wat u all told me... well today at skewl he flirted with me like... the whole time! in skewl, at lockers, in engilsh ( we r in every class together) it was weird.. it was like he was startin to like me all ova again. n i was on the fone with him yesterday (he calls not me i swear!) n i told him i mite of sprained my knee doin something n he said "yes i can carry ur books"........? im so confused help please!!!!!

awww..thats really sweet of him to say. i think he likes u..good luck..i hope everything works out good.

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should i change my look from preppy 2 punk 4 a guy?

no..only change if its what u want to do..never change for someone else

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What would you do if you liked a guy and you asked him out? He said that he would tell me Monday because I had to go. I don't know if he likes me, but all the others guys do not like me and think I'm a weird psychotic,crazy,mental person. PLEEZ HELP ME! Thanks!

just wait till monday to find out!

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I like this site and I goto to this site to try and give helpful advice or even to receive some, why is that people are such jerks on here? They give bad advice or stupid comments to someones advice!! And there will probably be a whole bunch of people who will give a dumb remark to this question! Why do people come an give stupid advice like "go kill yourself" or "your a loser" or some stupid comment! Honestly do these people get a thrill out of making fun of someone ? Why do these people sign up for this website if they are just going to give horrible advice? Does anyone agree? Doesn't it seem stupid and pointless?

they probably just signed up to amuse themselves about stupid things...just ignore them and rate them low..lol...i hope i helped

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Okay, so there's this guy. We're sort of friends, but there's complicated issues between us. A while back, like in May/June, I liked him and he liked me, but we never went out or anything. Because of certain reasons I'm not willing to explain. Anyway, I've gotten over him and I really like this other guy. But whenever I talk to or see the guy I used to like (we'll call him Bob), I usually get butterflies in my stomach and get kind of nervous. Yet that doesn't happen when I'm around the guy I like now. And I really like this guy, I do not like Bob. Seriously, I am being honest with myself. But then how come I always get butterflies in my stomach when I'm around Bob? Does that mean I like him and I just can't seem to admit that to myself..? I seriously don't think I like him though. Arrgh, I don't know. The thing is, I don't even have a reason to like him. So what's the deal here??!!!

Even though I've "stopped liking you", every time someone mentions your name my head turns right toward them. Its like every time I hear it, I think of all that we could have had, and all that could have happened that didn't
^^thats a quote..think about it..

i no what ur going through. im going through it now. u dont like bob. u just maybe liked him alot and now ur just finally getting over him and its new to u or weird. but dont lie to urself...cuz i no with me thats what i did and it didnt go over to well...good luck!

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How would be the best way to get trust as a Guy? Girls think all we want is ya know!!!! 17 male

talk to them and stuff. i think guys are actually easier to trust. but let them know that u dont what ya know!!

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Well.. there's this boy and he is one of my best friends x's and I love him to death. Me and my best friend.. well i guess I wouldn't call her that bcuz.. I don't really talk to her all that much anymore.. but like.. I love this guy to death and I've slept with him numerous times.. the problem isn't my friend.. it's him.. He loves having sex! And I figure maybe if I have sex with him ALL the time he won't NEED any other girls.. bcuz I definitely don't have a problem with having sex with him all the time.. lol i love it! But like.. we aren't together or anything.. but we would be.. if it wasn't for all these other hoes.. He's the only guy I sleep with and I care a lot about him.. I really wish I knew what I could do to get him away from these other girls.. I want to be the ONLY one he WANTS to have sex with.. and I want to be with him.. WHAT DO I DO!! HELP ME!!

tell him that..and tell him how u feel. just be open to him and confront him with it..good luck

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I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah

thank you in advance, I'll rate you all

~Allysa

just tell her the truth about how u feel. if she doesnt understand than shes not that good of a friend..

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You see, I'm developing feeelings for this guy who lives near my friends place. Whenever I'm around him, I act like a fool. My friends (girls) can do sporty things he does, but I totally cant. I think he refers to me as "girly", which I am. But I feel left out when I'm with them. I can't run as fast as they do, and I really don't know what to do. I won't be going to my friends place anymore, so I don't know how I can talk 2 the guy who lives near her. I want him 2 like me, but I feel so ashamed to even see him again. What do I do?

Signed,
Confused

dont be ashamed of who you are and dont change just because of someone else. dont do something unless u want to becuase u may end up not being happy if u do. just be urself when ur around him! thats really all that u can do.

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I have a boyfriend that I've been with for almost two months. I feel that I love him, but I barely see him, and he never openly talks to me. I have three other guys who like me, and I goofed the other day and cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. The guy I cheated on him with I really like, but he's got a girlfriend and can't leave her, or he won't have a place to live. I want to be with the other guy more then my boyfriend, but I can't be. Should I stay with my boyfriend?

if ur not happy with ur boyfriend than dont stay with him.

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There is this guy in three of my classes and almost every single class he says things like
"I like you"
"I love you"
"You have pretty eyes"
"I'm gonna call you my boo"
and "You're so nice"
but most of the time when he says these things he says it in a dorky joking kinda voice, and I like him. We're pretty good friends and we flirt a lot but I don't know if he's serious or not. Is he?

if hes doing it with the joking kind of voice hes prolly just joking. that and guys usually arent that open with there feelings.

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ok just started wrestling and im a grl. .but umm i get body slammded all the time and my neck hurts soo bad does anyone no how i can get the pain to go away faster??

try a heating pad that might help..good luck with wrestling!

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