Well, there's this guy I really like. His name is Brent I don't care if you all know. Lol. He's really fun to be around and sooo sweet! I love talkin to him or just being with him. He likes me too. I know this for a fact cause him and all of his friends tell me and he flirts like crazy. Well, he wants to see me some more then he's gonna ask me out according to his best friend. See, I really wanna go out with him but I'm afraid if I do I might not be everything he looks for in a girlfriend and it won't work out and we'll end up hating each other and I couldn't live with that cause I like him as a best friend as well as something more. I know I should just go for it and see what happens and that's probably what I'll do I just need to know, if we do start dating and end up breaking up....how can we keep our friendship the way it has always been?
TO: Stay friends??
first off make the rules before you go dating..like say when we date up no akward silences and like we'll still be frends and all that...that way its like insurance...also if you feel like you guys are getting apart after you break up (IF you break up) then start talkin to him and stuff ya noe...if it dunt work out just pick things up where you last left them off as frends...ya noe?
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Ok there is this guy right that goes to a different school. I mean i have only seen him once but right when i met him we hit it off at least i think we have? hmm well n e ways are different school relationships bad i mean i have alot of friends that go to his skool and one of his friends is mi best friend now we talk on the internet and stuff and lk we try and set up times to see each other but something gets in the way wat should i do?
TO: Different school
keep tryin gettin together...itll happen...and its okay to hab an inter-school relationship...i mean many people do that and it works so long as no cheating goes on...just make soore that the guy your gonna go out wid is someone worth your time...ya noe?
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Hi. This is my first question ^_^
I'm 14 (15 next month) and I just got into high school. Last year and all the school years before it I went to a private seventh-day adventist school. This year I switched over to public school because the private school was getting worse and I wanted to take Japanese and Computer Programming, which it didn't offer.
Well, on the first day of school, I didn't know -anyone- and this girl, let's call her "D", invited me to eat lunch with her and her friend (who we can call "G").
They're very nice, and we've become like best friends. D and G have known each other forever, and are best friends, so I sort of feel like the third wheel. My best friend since I was 5 goes to that school, but she has a different lunch period and since she's a junior we have no classes together.
I'm not really like D and G. As I've gotten to know them, I see they're sort of like the girls who talk about other girls just because they're prettier or smarter than them (without realizing it, unfortunately many females do this unintentionally and ignorantly). I know some people now, and I think I'd want to eat lunch with them more, but I would feel bad leaving D and G alone, since our table is less filled than others.
They always talk about these guys they like and how hot they are, and I don't like the same type of guys. Usually, I won't like a guy before talking to him, I need to know the intellectual side of them first, but D and G know I don't like their type and they constantly talk about their "guys" (they also stalk them, and I don't really want to get a stalker reputation since I don't, I was just talking with D and G).
Should I ditch them, and how so?
Thanks.
-Farren
TO: Farren
if you dunt like the way they are then go with some other frends...i mean you CAN make frends with other people and im soore itd be okay with them...and if you feel like youre doing something wrong or your instincts are going like crazy...then follow them...you mite be led straight to trouble if you dont...ya noe?
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i have been with a girl for the last 18 months and she cheated on me and got with another guy, and on out year and a half anniversary she told him she loved him after knowing him for a week. can she love him? and he dumped her and said he doesnt like her anymore, and i know we cant get back together but sometimes she says i love you and is it wrong for me to say it back, i mean i resent her for cheating on me and breaking our trust and relationship but i love her, help please
TO: help me
i noe you prolly herd this a billion times buh thats reallie sad...anyways she CAN love him after a week wierd as it is buh thats just how love works i gess...also its coo to say i love you back wen she says it to you...who noes mehbe she realized her mistake and is reallie resenting herself for doing wat she did too... you can nebe noe unless you gib her a second shot...just let time heal all wounds and get to be reallie close frends agin then if you guys feel up to gibin the going-out thing another try then go for it...ya noe?
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ok well i play vball n im realli good at it im one of tha top members on my team...well my coach recommended for me to switch skools so i can start playin jv..only thing is im in 7th grade so id bein goin to a secondary skool n being wit 9th graders n stuff...well all my friends r like i hate you if u move im never gonna talk to you again..so im confused should i go or not?? bcuz if i go to tha skool im gonna b playin vball in a more advanced team but ima b leavin all my friends..but if i stay then ima stay on tha same vball team n b ahead of every1 on my team and i cant do nething i kno bcuz they dont kno it yet..sry its long ill ratE! wuts ur opinion on this?
TO: changing schools...
well the whole school switchin is a reallie big deal and an awesome opportunity...dont miss the chance... the doors alredy knockin and the doorbell ringing so wat kinda of sign do you need... your frends will understand and i dunt think theyre serious about hatin you...plus you get to make a lot of new frends and you and your old frends will still be able to hang out rite? its not like your moving all the way across the country or anythin...take the chance and switch schools...at least gib it a try...ya noe?
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I'm awkward and shy. I don't know how to talk to girls or tell whether or not girls like me. I'm in my senior year of high school, and i'm turning 17 on 10/10. so i realize this is kinda pathetic. I'm not very funny or spontaneous either. How do i flirt/be funny so girls will like me? I am being myself 24/7, and that isn't really working.
TO: (anonymous)
first off...HAPPIE FIVE-DAYS-EARLY BIRTHDAY!! as for your problem i can totallie relate... the thing about the whole shy business is that you grow out of it...no one and i mean NO ONE stays shy forebe...the hard part is doing the growing out... for me my frends did most of the work... they embarrassed me to DEATH and then i started to not care about this and that anymore and BAM i had my guy frends...for you well you shoold try not to care about wat they think about you...then the rest pretty much works for itself...ya noe?
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When I was 17, everything was going great in my life. I had a job, a car, a boyfriend, and family that loved me. But my great life soon turned into a nightmare-I got a phone call, my mom and dad were in the hospital. They were driving when a car had hit them, and they died 3 days later. I'm 20 now, and I take care of my 13 year old sister and 9 year old brother. I have so much stress being a 20 year old parent. Sometimes I just break down and want to die. Of course, that's not an option. I need help, how can I keep up with working full time and taking care of my two siblings. I dont have family that could help me, I'm all on my own! Any advice would be helpful. Thank you.
TO: I dont know if I can do this
im a teen and of course i cant relate to any of that buh heres wat i think you shoold do anyways... of course your schedule is now jam packed buh you hab to at least try and get school squeezed in there (even if its nite school) so you can get a better paying job...im soore your sister can baby-sit your brother for like two hours while your gone to school and then you can prolly take care of the rest... school is a major essential in survival and you reallie need to try...i mean its the effort that counts rite?
***good luck with being a parent and i hope i helped...! ^^
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well, a while back my friends all got along, but then randomally they got in a fight and split up. now we are ok but i still feel tention between us and i dont know what to do? how can i confront them and fix it all.
-needy
TO: needy
that happened between two of my frends too...all i can say is just wait until everything shimmers and cools down...tension is normal buh it will eventually go away...just be as cheerful as you possible can and if you REALLIE REALLIE wannna help then try to get them to do stuff with each other more...ya noe?
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I have this friend who likes to know just everything about my life, and always talks about me behind my back to my really good guy friend. Shes acuused me of liking every guy she has, but its honestly the opposite way around. She really is a backstabber and my guy friend says that i should confront her of what shes doing because shes ruining my chances of going out with anyone because she starts to like them and then i feel bad and want her to have him. I really dont mind if she talks about me because shes only hurting herself, but now im starting to wonder if it will get worse and i should do somthing about it?? please help!
TO: (anonymous)
you should totallie talk to her about it...you shouldnt wait til it gets worse coz then mehbe you wont be able to reverse wats been done... its real cool you can be that forgivin about her talkin behind your back tho..i cant do that... tee hee...well as i sed just talk to her and who noes how things will go...ya noe?
GOOD LUCK!! -^v^-
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ok well there is this guy i like and he likes me. but we are not going out. but he really likes me. and he found out that i sat on this other guys lap and got really mad. and he gets jealous and stuff when i hang out with just this one guy and everything. my one friend said that he is to protective of me..but idk..what do you think i should do. i mean i cant help but flirt with him. but i dont want to lose the guy i like....:(
TO: please dont delete
if you like one guy then why are you flirting with another? i mean wat happened to DEDICATION...if you like one guy then hang with him more than the other guy...its okay if you guys are "just frends" (you and the guy that you dunt like) buh you and the guy you like should be/have more..ya noe?
sorry i was havin trouble explainin this coz theres no name so uhh if you dunt get it then just delete it or ignore it er summin k? k lolz
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okay well im going to be moving the summer of 8th grade so this summer and i told my friends at school and they were really sad because they love me alot or somethin and dont want me to move...and i mean i dont want to move either but it's not my decision...and i use to live where im goin bak to before i moved here like 3 years ago and now i told a guy that goes there and hes like omg sweet it'll be so funn i can't wait ill protect u and stuff but the prob. is this guy used to hate me in like 2-6 grade lol n now he like stopped n he wants to protect me?? lol im gonna be a freshman n hes gonna be a junior.. so anyhow i really wanna c my old friends and start a new life but i dont wanna leave my friends here either..i just wish i can take them w. me lol..
TO: bummed and happy...
that same thing happened to me too!! like ive moved 10 times the past fourteen years of my life (yes i noe A TON!! lolz) buh there was this one place we call Ptown where we stayed for almost three years and i got reallie close with my frends there and i was reallie upset about moving...i HATED it (i mean like who doesnt)...if its not too far away then mehbe you can visit..like every other year i go to Ptown and then my bff from there comes to visit me down south here the other years and we get to see each other quite a bit...also we call each other a ton and write letter and send pics every year so we noe how we change every year...plus theres AIM and email and stuff...just so long as we can communicate is fine and thats wat you shoold do with your frends too...COMMUNICATE...ya noe?
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ok well its only the third week of school ive missed 7 days so far and we can only miss 9 in a semester or quarter something like that but im sick so i cant help it. anyways i have FS in ALL my classes! jus because im missin 2 things its crazy. im in highschool and its really hard for me. english class is the hardest becuz i can never think of anything to write on essays or anything. and math is hard because i dont understand divison everything else it ok. my mom said if i keep my grades up i get a cell ( im in 10th ). she knows how much i want a cell so she uses that to make me get good grades. lately ive been really stressed because my ex boyfriend is always emailing me saying i have no life and im a bitch. then my bestfriend keeps sayin that im going to fail because ive missed so many days and ect. and all she does it put her problems on me and make them my problems. everyones just making it worst for me and making me worry. what do i do? how do i keep my grades up? thanks.
TO: (blank)
first solution...work hard!! lolz thats the obvious one..another thing is to try and isolate yourself from anything that would sidetrack you... for me i try not to go on the comp unles i REALLIEEE need to because then i hab AIM runnin and i like itch in my pants to talk to ppl...also ask your teachers if there is ANY WAY that you can make up watebe you missed coz of course you werent there and how could you make that up rite? do a lotta extra credit and thats about all you can do...ya noe?
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i have pretty much felt like this my whole life...
i feel like whenever i do something people are watching me and talking shit about me or gunna laugh at me or something, i mean i realize that they dont really do that, they probably dont even notice me, but i dont like getting up in class to go sharpen my pencil cause im scared or embarresed or something that people will watch me and just stare at me the whole time or the teacher will yell at me for getting up...and today i was to embarresed or scared to go get ketchup and put it on my plate cause i was thinking that people might laugh and me and be like omg look at her shes using ketchup or something...i know it really weird..
i mean im not a shy person cause ill talk to a lot of people but its things like that..whats wrong with me?
TO: (blank)
there is soooooo nothing rong with you....so wat if your a lil..self conscious i think is the word... i used to be like that wen i was lil..i wouldnt get up or do ANYTHING at all coz i dint wanna mess up...the feelin will eventually wear off tho... or youll just get over it...like for me i did the most stoopedest things i could think of and my frends were there with me and we just laffed it off...sooo my advice is...dunt care and laff things off if you DID do summin stoopid..its not like anyones gonna remember by the next week ya noe?
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okay my best friend is a guy..weve been best friends for only like a year, and he usta like me ALOT..like really alot..so neway, he just gotta gf and theyve been goin out for 4 months. they realli love eachother, etcetc..his gf is my good friend..so neway, she like is CONVINCEd that he still likes me for some reason..but he seriously doesnt. he hasnt liked me in like a year.so theres alwaysss conflict now..like she gets mad at him all tha time if he ever talks to me on tha phone or hangs out with me on weekands..i mean theres nothing to be jealous of, me and him never even HUG or nething that regular guy and girl friends do. ive sat down and talked about this with her like 3 times, like GOOD ass talks..and it would seem like everything was okay, she understood everything, etc..but STILL, theres tension between us..i have no idea y..my friend says that its prolly cause she thinks im prettier than her, smarter, funnier, etcetc, but i dunno wtf to do..this stupid drama that shekeeps bringing up is SO OLD now..its just like give it up we DONT FUCKING LIKE EACHOTHER. plzz help me!!!
TO: my best guy friend and gf
i had a frend that was sooo like this...the best way is to just stay away for a bit...from HER i mean...and as for your guy frend mehbe you three can talk it out together...if she dusnt trust you or your best guy frend then mehbe you should tell your guy frend that shes not worht it (altho privately coz tellin her where she can hear JUST MITE be a lil bad rite? lolz)..ya noe?
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my girlfriend has posters on her wall of a bunch of celebrities that she thinks are "hot". She claims to me all the time that she doesnt check them out or think about them in any way but i think she is lying to me. I dont know what to do now. Is she lying to me about checking other guys out or what. She claims they are stupid little pictures, well if they are so stupid why are they up?
TO: posters
doode...just coz your chick has like all these posters of male celebrities dusnt mean that she cheks em out..i mean thats kinda normal to HAB those posters...just trust your girlfrend...i mean wheres a relationship without trust...ya noe?
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Well, there is this boy in my school named Greg and he is going out with a boy named Shannon. I really like him and we are becoming really good friends and stuff. He is telling me stuff so i think we are on the right track. I have had a hige crush on him since 6th grade and we've yet to go out. I don't know what to do. Do i need to change my looks to get him to notice me?
Signed,
A girl in desperate need!
TO: A girl in desperate need!
uhhh i think you ment that he was going out wid a GRL named shannon rite? lol anyways dunt change yor look...if you guys are gettin tite alredy then that means that hes alredy noticing you... just wait things out and wen he dumps his current girlfrend then go for it...gib him like two wks coz thats like standard wait time after a break up buh then after that then hes free and ready and ya shoold be too...ya noe?
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there's this guy who i've met at school and we're getting really close. we like eachother but we didnt start dating... yet.
well his parents and grandparents died and he really doesn't have a permenant home, he just goes wherever and is constantly out on his own. he doesn't really have anyone to support him and buy him clothes and stuff
but im afraid if i date him, my parents will not approve because we've always been brought up from good homes and families. it doesnt bother ME at all but my parents always look down upon "poor" people. also, what should i do/say to him? he doesnt know that i know. i feel bad. should i offer anything? help! thanks
TO: (anonymous)
act like you dont noe...if he hadnt told you then dont say anythin...he prolly dunt want anyone looking down on him and pitying him just coz he dunt hab a home...also date him for HIM and not for wat he HAS...yor parents would understand sooner or later that money idnt the onie thing a person shoold hab...a heart of pure gold is more than any amount of dollars anyone can hab...ya noe?
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I have an Xanga Site, but it's really plain. I don't know how to make it cooler. I have music on there, but the layout is really plain. Does anyone know how to make it really cool? Thank you so much! :)
TO: Xanga...Help
go to the website: www.createblog.com ...it has a tona cool premade skins and it tells you how get em up...im an expert at html xanga skins and stuff so just ask more questions if ya need more help
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I have a boyfriend who i see every other weekend.i just saw this kid who i havent seen in three years and i still like him. wat do i do? do i stay with my boyfriend who ive known for a month and have been together a week or do i break up with my boyfriend for the kid ive liked for three years? some1 help please
TO: (blank)
this is not a question i (or anyone else) can reallie anser for you...i mean its more of a "who do you reallie like" question...just a hint tho: insted of asking yorself "who do I like?" ask yorself "who CAN i see myself with?" ...it mite help with yor decision making and stuff...ya noe?
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Okay I have a boyfriend. And I have a bunch of guy friends like most girls do. but here's my problem. My b/f lives two hours away and I don't get to see him much. And last nite I was hangin out with some of my friends at a fair. Well I was hangin out with this one really great guy that I liked before I started dating my b/f. Well I want to go out with him but I can't bring myself to break up with my b/f. And here's another problem. My b/f is only a few months older than me and this guy is like 4 years. I see this guy more than I see my b/f and he wants to have a chance with me but I can't bring my self to break up with my b/f. I actually ended up kissing this guy yesterday while still going out with my b/f of course I told my b/f (while crying on the phone) and he says he's not mad (which I'm sure he is) and wants to talk to him ya know "Man to Man" but I don't know if that's a good Idea because my b/f is VERY belligerent(warlike ready to fight)and I don't know what to do anymore My idea was to ask my b/f if he wanted to date some of the girls where he lives because he could see them more often. and see what he says on that. I really thought that my realationship w/ him was going to work out cuz it worked for like 10months(and still going) for my sister and her b/f(which lives in the same town as mine and his cousins to mine) and I don't know what to do anymore. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
signed
lost and confused
TO: lost and confused
if your SOORE it wont work out with your current boyfrend then you hab to tell him...it was a good move to tell him about the kiss tho coz that showed that yor open enuff to admit yor mistakes and trust me thats summin most girls wont do (including me lolz)...anyways ya gotta tell him you wanna be over as soon as you can so you both can be hurt and move on faster...its way better than waiting till the two guys talk man to man and hab a fite over you and.... well...ya noe...
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