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My friends dont like each other
well, a while back my friends all got along, but then randomally they got in a fight and split up. now we are ok but i still feel tention between us and i dont know what to do? how can i confront them and fix it all.
-needy
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Um...r u one of my friends lol? well yea that happened between a friend and me. And I sorta broke off the friendship..it wasn't working and I thought the other person was rude and disrespectful. My other friends were great they wanted to help but one key thing they needed to remember was taht I didn't want them to fix something I was trying to end. It's all worked out now (that friend and I still arent friends) but my friends and I still hang out without her...or them without me and we're all cool. hope it all works out i know it's stuff! good luck babe
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i think you should talk to all your friends and tell them how u feel.
~*~kris~*~
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well i used to be in a situation like that and we are all friends again but we never hang out that much anymore. i think that you should try talkin to the one friend that you are closest to and that you 2 can fix everything
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well i say you just tell them both it buggs you that they arnt friends and try to get along for you and after a while ..and yah all hang out they will start to get along my friends lc and tt wernt tha best of friends but they r muh 2 bffs ans i told em they nead to knock it off and get along i am sick of being in tha middle of the fights and it isnt fair and now we all hang out together and r perfect..just try and talk to them!..hope i helped..
-xO Jessie
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There probably isnt anything else to say or do to fix things. Maybe it will work out or maybe it wont. there is no other nice way to put this.
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all the advice that i can think of to give you is for you to just talk to them and see how they feel and what they think. it might just make it a better situation and make yall better friends. i hope this helped! -Kayla
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TO: needy
that happened between two of my frends too...all i can say is just wait until everything shimmers and cools down...tension is normal buh it will eventually go away...just be as cheerful as you possible can and if you REALLIE REALLIE wannna help then try to get them to do stuff with each other more...ya noe?
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Im actually going through that right now..it sucks. theres really nothing u can do about it besides being there for ALL ur friends. dont take any ones side, dont talk behind backs when the other side does it..you really cant do anything about it, the only thing u can do is when one side of the friends are kinda talking about the other side, tell them whuts real..like if u think that they are kinda overexaturating, be like, well maybe u just think that cause u dont really get along with her maybe u are right though but i doubt it? or something like that..just make sure to stay neutral and everything will be fine, trust me ive gone thru this, if he stay true to both sides of the group, itll be okay..
love kristin
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