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Confused
Okay I have a boyfriend. And I have a bunch of guy friends like most girls do. but here's my problem. My b/f lives two hours away and I don't get to see him much. And last nite I was hangin out with some of my friends at a fair. Well I was hangin out with this one really great guy that I liked before I started dating my b/f. Well I want to go out with him but I can't bring myself to break up with my b/f. And here's another problem. My b/f is only a few months older than me and this guy is like 4 years. I see this guy more than I see my b/f and he wants to have a chance with me but I can't bring my self to break up with my b/f. I actually ended up kissing this guy yesterday while still going out with my b/f of course I told my b/f (while crying on the phone) and he says he's not mad (which I'm sure he is) and wants to talk to him ya know "Man to Man" but I don't know if that's a good Idea because my b/f is VERY belligerent(warlike ready to fight)and I don't know what to do anymore My idea was to ask my b/f if he wanted to date some of the girls where he lives because he could see them more often. and see what he says on that. I really thought that my realationship w/ him was going to work out cuz it worked for like 10months(and still going) for my sister and her b/f(which lives in the same town as mine and his cousins to mine) and I don't know what to do anymore. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
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lost and confused
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TO: lost and confused
if your SOORE it wont work out with your current boyfrend then you hab to tell him...it was a good move to tell him about the kiss tho coz that showed that yor open enuff to admit yor mistakes and trust me thats summin most girls wont do (including me lolz)...anyways ya gotta tell him you wanna be over as soon as you can so you both can be hurt and move on faster...its way better than waiting till the two guys talk man to man and hab a fite over you and.... well...ya noe...
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personally my opinion 4 years older is way to old especcially if your in your teens. but anyways on to your advice be straight up with your boyfriend tell him you have been havin thoughts ever since you kissed the guy about your and his relationship...that it would be so much nicer to date someone who is in a reasonable distance of each other....you think its for the best....the whole askin him if he likes a chicka near him i will tell you right now it aint gonna work cus he would never admit to it....so just tel him the truth.......and please just be careful with the guy who is 4 years older then you are..
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