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bummed and happy...
okay well im going to be moving the summer of 8th grade so this summer and i told my friends at school and they were really sad because they love me alot or somethin and dont want me to move...and i mean i dont want to move either but it's not my decision...and i use to live where im goin bak to before i moved here like 3 years ago and now i told a guy that goes there and hes like omg sweet it'll be so funn i can't wait ill protect u and stuff but the prob. is this guy used to hate me in like 2-6 grade lol n now he like stopped n he wants to protect me?? lol im gonna be a freshman n hes gonna be a junior.. so anyhow i really wanna c my old friends and start a new life but i dont wanna leave my friends here either..i just wish i can take them w. me lol..
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thats completley understandable. just make sure you keep the lines of communication with your friends open. try and get together for a sleepover every once and a while. it's going to be hard, but it is a new life. you can talk with both old and new friends and everything'll work out. as for the guy, i'd say get to know him a little better, and then maybe go for it. just dont do anything you might regret. send me a message if you need more help or just want to talk. x33 K
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that same thing happened to me too!! like ive moved 10 times the past fourteen years of my life (yes i noe A TON!! lolz) buh there was this one place we call Ptown where we stayed for almost three years and i got reallie close with my frends there and i was reallie upset about moving...i HATED it (i mean like who doesnt)...if its not too far away then mehbe you can visit..like every other year i go to Ptown and then my bff from there comes to visit me down south here the other years and we get to see each other quite a bit...also we call each other a ton and write letter and send pics every year so we noe how we change every year...plus theres AIM and email and stuff...just so long as we can communicate is fine and thats wat you shoold do with your frends too...COMMUNICATE...ya noe?
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Oh yes, I know how you feel. Moving to Miami was such a big deal to me. It would mean leaving my family, my friends, and my boyfriend. But you're given the chance to start a new life. With new people, and new place to go. And you have to accept that and challenge yourself. It took me about a week to realize this and I just wished I had realized it sooner. You and your friends are going to be sad, but it's sort of like a test. If you can keep in touch with them then that is proof your friendship is real. You can still visit them, and they can visit you. There's e-mail, AIM, and telephones. I know that may not be enough, but you will be able to get through it!
And this guy probably changed his feelings for you. He hated you before, but he probably wants to get to know you again. And he might feel like he can start over to. Saying that he'll protect you already is kinda scary. (lol) I guess he feels like he's your big brother, and it's great to have those types of friends as long as they're not too overprotective. But yeah, I'd wait until you get there to see what he's up to.
Good luck sweetie!!
Love Always,
Mandee
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