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my best guy friend and his gf
okay my best friend is a guy..weve been best friends for only like a year, and he usta like me ALOT..like really alot..so neway, he just gotta gf and theyve been goin out for 4 months. they realli love eachother, etcetc..his gf is my good friend..so neway, she like is CONVINCEd that he still likes me for some reason..but he seriously doesnt. he hasnt liked me in like a year.so theres alwaysss conflict now..like she gets mad at him all tha time if he ever talks to me on tha phone or hangs out with me on weekands..i mean theres nothing to be jealous of, me and him never even HUG or nething that regular guy and girl friends do. ive sat down and talked about this with her like 3 times, like GOOD ass talks..and it would seem like everything was okay, she understood everything, etc..but STILL, theres tension between us..i have no idea y..my friend says that its prolly cause she thinks im prettier than her, smarter, funnier, etcetc, but i dunno wtf to do..this stupid drama that shekeeps bringing up is SO OLD now..its just like give it up we DONT FUCKING LIKE EACHOTHER. plzz help me!!!
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Well, if she really does love him then she should beleive him and since shes like ur bestfriend,she should MOST DEFINITLY beleive you. If she still acts wierd say,"look if u dont beleive me than thats ur problem and i know that im telling the truth and so is ________" and set it straight!!!!!
.::Chelsea::. hope i helped:)
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tell her think what u want but i no he doesnt like me for a fact .. all girlfriends feel jelous wen therre man talks to other girlsz .. for more help im me aTt bAyB x mAu 143 <33 mM
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well if they realy love eachother and trust one another then she wouldint think that he still likes u.but anyways if i were u then i would just chil and hang out with the boy wen he is around his g/f.i no that it might make her jelous but after a while(like for about 3 weeks) she will start trusting u becuz wen she is around u and her b/f, she would proly feel better bcuz she is there to make sure that there is nuthing goin on with u 2.soo it just takes time to get everyhitng back to normal..i hope this works..good luck buddy!
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TO: my best guy friend and gf
i had a frend that was sooo like this...the best way is to just stay away for a bit...from HER i mean...and as for your guy frend mehbe you three can talk it out together...if she dusnt trust you or your best guy frend then mehbe you should tell your guy frend that shes not worht it (altho privately coz tellin her where she can hear JUST MITE be a lil bad rite? lolz)..ya noe?
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well try to get the three of you together and and you need to sit down and explain it to the both of them. let them both know what going on between all of you and if this doesnt work then tell her to just back off because she has nothing to be jealous of and that if she persists this "drama" then you will no longer except her friendship because she is supposed to trust you as a gopod friend and her bf/your friend as a boyfriend. Tell her you are not going to stop being friends with your best friend just because she doesnt like it. Good Luck, hope this helps. Let me know how things go and if ya need anything else... drop it in the inbox!~
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