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My name's Megan :) I'm 16 years old and live in Kansas...not on a farm though. I'm a junior in high school. I'm a varsity cheerleader and have cheered at my school since my freshman year. I did competitive cheer ages 12-15. I'm a freshmen mentor at school as well as in a peer education group for positive body image called REbeL. I'm also involved in National Spanish Honors Society. When I was 10 I was diagnosed with anxiety disorder and still take meds to control it. I'm really mature for my age but also love to have fun! I LOVE country music, my friends, meeting new people, and driving around in my mazda 3. Feel free to ask me anything :)

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about 3 months ago, i was diagnosed with leaukemia=[. the doctor told me that i am gonna die after my 8th month. is he allowed to tell me this? he just flat out said... " in about 8 months your gonna die ", he made me my mom my dad and my brother cry. so anyways.... can he tell me this... and can i like sue him for it?



f/13

aw, i'm sorry to hear that ! but yes, he can tell you that, unfortchanatly. =[ hope you get better ! ♥ megan

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I'm not sure but I think I have TSS but I'm not sure what TSS really means. I am SUPER shy and if I talk to anyone or read outloud in class my face instinctly(as if it's a reaction or something)goes red and if I talk more than 2 minutes than my voice begins cracking and shaky. Sometimes when all eyes are on me I shake and feel like I'm about to faint and sometimes has to hold on something b4 I fall down from fear. This is not like as if I'm tlaking to a crush or something it happens when I'm talking to ANYONE and since TSS stands for toxis shock syndrum I think this might be is but is it?

no, you do not have TSS. yes, TSS means toxic shock syndrome, but you get TSS from having a tampon in too long. you're just shy and may have social anxiety disorder. ♥ megan

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I have been taking asthma medicine, but last night i had an asthma attack at 3 am.
They are the scariest thing ever, is there any way to deal with them or make them less scary or even prevent them?
Sometimes i cant go back to sleep after one, or i sweat or get scared of having another one.
Thank you

14/f

i have asthma too and whenever i have an asthma attack i try to take even, deep, calm breaths. to make them less scary you can close your eyes and take very deep breaths. to get back to sleep you can turn on some soft music while breathing deep and that should help. ♥ megan

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Can youu tell me a bunch of great fade sites? i really want CUTE oness. Thanks a bunch!

http://www.xanga.com/sunkissedx3fades
http://www.xanga.com/hollywood_pros
http://www.xanga.com/totallyhottprosx33
http://www.xanga.com/x__beautyfades
theres a feww certain ones but heres the blogring i go to...
http://www.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=1354988
and then go to whatever sites there are and then find the ones you likeee. hope this hellped! ♥ megan

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I just got a Razr cell phone :] I love it. And I took pictures, now how can I get it on my computer?? And how much does this cost..

send it as a pic message to your online account from your service provider [such as verizon has pix place.] then save the picture from the pic message and it will then be on there! ♥ megan

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wats cum? or wat does cumming mean?

cum (neutral, noun) † semen, ejaculate note Possibly from "to come" (i.e. to ejaculate), it is widely used in the porn industry (vide porn video dialogues & titles); also used as a verb, as in "John is cumming inside Mary". i found it at an online slang dictionary. hope this helped. ♥ megan

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When someone tells you that they believe that you're their soul mate, what does it mean?

when someone tells you that it most likely means that they really do love you and that they want to spend the rest of their life with you as their husband or wife. hope this helped! ♥ megan

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does anyone know where you can get nice sunglasses? for a 14/f. thanks.

forever 21. american eagle. kohl's. target. macy's. delias. ♥ megan

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I don't know how to change my password on advicenators. Is it possible? I looked in the FAQ and couldn't find it. Thanks =]

go to profile settings and near the top you will be able to change it. ♥ megan

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Does anyone know any good bands I can download. Specific songs that are really good by these bands would be excellent! But you can just give me band names.

Heres the kind of music I like. Its kind of a mix of indie/emo/soft rock? ha.

John Mayer
Dashboard Confessional
Death Cab for cutie.


the red jumpsuit apparatus ;; my chemical romance ;; five times august ;; hawthorne heights ;; from first to last ;; senses fail ;; something corporate ;; the calling ;; and the ataris are all really good ones. hope this helped !! ♥ megan

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im 13. i think i have endometriosis. my period hasnt gone away for 2 or 3 months now. i got pain in my lower back. and my period has gotten really heavy. i havent told anybody but my best friend. im not sure if i got it or not. but im kind of ambarrased to tell my mom and go to the doctors and stuff. im to scared. ive never thought of me as a wuss. but i dont want to be diagnosed with it cuz then i no it will never go away. help me get through this plz. all i need are some answers.

im 13 too and personally, i think you should tell your mom. since i'm your age i know how incredibly embarassing it would be, but trust me, you'll feel so relieved once you do say something. also, you can't be helped with his unless you tell someone. there's a better chance that it WILL go away once you say something rather then just leaving it alone and not telling someone. on the bright side, it may not even be endometriosis. hope this helped and hope it gets better. ♥ megan

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Ok..I'm a redhead 15/F and i really like this guy. Well he seemed to be diggen me or whatever soo one night i texted to see if he wanted to do something tom. He texted me back and said he is not attracted to redheads and that if i like him more than that than its not gonna work because he doesnt like me. I was heart broken. I mean red hair is kind of rare and i mean im not ugly at all..and i dont have the pale skin like one either. I look a little different but still i have red hair. My question is..in your opinion is red hair ugly and why dont guys like red hair?

my best friend and my little sister have red hair and its gorgeous !! i think you need to forget about him, because he's obviously not looking at what is on the inside. he's just focusing on one thing that doesnt truthfully matter. i'm sure you're gorgeous. and just because he doesn't like redheads DOESNT mean that other guys dont !! ♥ megan

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i keep hearing this song and i love it.

its on that nike and ipod nano commercial thing and it's called "Here it goes again"

whats the artist?

it's by OK Go. ♥ megan

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weird question..whats too high to wear your pants, like anywhere past your bellybutton?



no i don't wear them that high =P

it depends on the type of pants. the retro style has been around alot more lately so the high waist is in more. it's really what you feel comfortable with. personally, i wouldnt wear them above my bellybutton, but that's just me. ♥ megan

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How do you look more feminine?

I'm not talking about clothes or anything related.

I'm talking about the face. Any makeup tips or hair styles (heart or oval shaped). Eyebrow shapes? PICTURES PLEASE.

Every time I look in the mirror.. I don't feel or look like a woman.. even though I have C cup boobs and whatnot.

It's just my face that's bothering me. I was never mistaken for a boy .. I don't know what's wrong with me.

you should use a shimmer type of highlighter on temples and around your cheek bones. it could bring out the structure of your face more. ♥ megan

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I always am thinking about food, even if i'm not the leastbit hungry. I always want to be eating. CAn you please tell me some good ways to keep food off my mind.

alot of the time, when people are bored they think about food. what i do to get my mind off food is go out to fun things with my friends. or like making up dances with my friends ! it passes the time and makes me not think about food. also, pshycial activity like basketball, volleyball, dance, and cheerleading for me, keep my mind off of it. also, when you have just eaten a full meal but you're STILLL thinking about food, have a bottle of water. it's said to fill you up more. ♥ megan

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Do you think the reason people only dwell on comments that were made to them because the comments made to them is on the topics they are sensitive about and not on the ones they are NOT sensitive about.

i think people dwell on the things they are sensitive about because it makes them feel like they really do have something wrong with them in that area. if it's something they're NOT sensitive about, then why should they care what people think? ♥ megan

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how long do theytake to charge

if it's completely dead and you want it to fully charge all the way, then it'll take about 4 hours. otherwise, it depends how much you need to charge it. it should never take more then 4 hours though. ♥ megan

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(you answered my question about anxiety.) You're 13 and you were put on xanax? What disorder(s) was that for? If you don't mind saying. Thanks!

yep i've taken it since i was 11 years old. it was for anxiety attacks and panic disorder. ♥ megan

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OK, so me *& my crush hugged *&& i heard that you can tell by a hug (i forgot where. hah) if its a friendly hug or "i-like-you" hug hah i dont know how else to put it.

thank you!!! =]

i don't get what your question is, but if you could explain it more i may be able to help yah a bit. ♥ megan

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