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Hi, i'm 14 and I have size 34b-c size breasts and I really need a boyfriends! I am tanned, slim, clever but all the boys only like me as a friend! How do I make them think otherwise? I also love to dance, sing and act! 14f (link)
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You have to actually get to know them. Be friendly. Flirt if you're comfortable with. It doesn't matter how pretty you are or how big your boobs are. Most guys see through to your true inner beauty and that's what matters most to them. So you want to get a guy. Show him your true inner beauty and let things happen the way they do. Good luck :)
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I would like exercises that can help me tone my tummy.... i do aerobics once a week... but need exercises to tone the tummy (link)
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Okay, so as you may know, exercises that can tone you stomach are basically ab exercises. Some of the most basic ones are sit ups/curl ups. There are many variations but this website (http://www.humananatura.org/calisthenics_basicsitups.php) shows and explains how to do different types of sit ups and other exercises (use the previous and next buttons in the top right hand corner of the page to go back and forth between different types of exercises). I hope this helps and good luck :)
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Hi there.
I am a type of person who like to share his thoughts. It was just recently that I spotted this quality in me - I have a very very very good imagination. Really ! I AM NOT JOKING!!!
Ok cut down one '' very ''. Happy ? :P
Now, I thought that I can use (and I do use) this imagination to make up scripts for stories, novels or even films. I have 2 small story scripys ready. I can improve upon that. But my english writing skill is not too good to make me a good writer. I can make up wonderful novels, but the vocabulary and writing style ? It's too basic, too normal. What as a budding writer do I need to do to make myself more skillful in these areas and what do you, as an audience suggest me I should be writing. Any topic, any suggestion. What would you like to be written about...???? Any answer. Thanks. (link)
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To improve your writing style, I suggest reading different kinds of writing to see what you might like to write about. By reading other authors' stuff, you kind of get an example of different styles. Also, remember that every author and what they right is different in its own way. There are some writers who do have a basic writing style and came make something out of nothing. Also, if you truly are blessed with an imagination, you definitely should stick with writing fiction.
Another thing that I recommend to do is enter some of your writing in contests. There are several that you can enter for free across the web specific for teenagers. There is also a website called Teen Ink (http://teenink.com/) where you can create an account and upload your work where other people can see and give an opinion on it. It's a pretty nice way to get some other opinions without any bias. Anyways, I hope this helped and good luck with writing :)
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18/f.
I've been playing the drums for about 7 years if you count from when I started. I am not regular though.
My first year was taking basic lessons every weekend. The next 5 years were in the school band where I didn't really play the drumset per se, I had a lot of other parts too. I only occasionally played my drum set at home.
In my 6th year of drumming, I had a band for about 5 months but I was playing the same 6-9 songs. I didn't fit in with the band and they found a better dude drummer (they were all guys they just wanted me cos it would look cool to have a female drummer). That's fine cos I was taking my GCE O levels that year.
I have a band with my 3 closest friends but we aren't exactly good and we only jam like once every few weeks for a couple of months then we stop as we go to different schools and they all depend on me to sync everyone's schedule.
The problems is that I think I suck at drumming.
I think the only reason people think I'm good is because they're phased by the apparent rarity of a girl playing drums (in my personal life it's not so rare).
It sounds like I'm whining but I really think I'm not good enough to go anywhere with my skills or lack thereof (I wanna play some gigs) and I'm losing my motivation. I don't derive joy from playing or practising anymore. I just feel frustrated with myself and I feel like a failure. Is this affected by my depression (4 years and counting)?
I've got a guitar and keyboards - also bad as hell. I feel like I've been at beginner stage for all my years of playing these instruments and I am so angry with myself! I try to improve but I get really demotivated. How do I get myself to just pull through the practise to improve and to help me be less negative about my "skills"? (link)
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I just want to point out that the feeling you have right now it completely normal :)
After years of doing anything remotely difficult, doubt and frustration is going to occur. You start to expect more out of yourself, and sometimes people expect too much. They start to get cocky and believe that they are so good that they can do anything. In music, that's not necessarily a bad thing. When you play an instrument or sing, confidence adds more to it all. It's not really easy to explain, but there's obviously a difference between somebody who is confident in what they play rather than somebody playing with no emotion. If you play with the feeling that you aren't good, then it's not going to be good.
When you get frustrated, calm down and take a break. Try again later. Just because you can't play something doesn't mean that you're bad. It just means that the music takes some practice or is a little harder that your skill level. Some musicians overcompensate for their level and try to learn music WAY harder than they should. I did that when I attempted to learn Jupiter by Gustav Holst on the piano (and I've played for...10 years I think). And if you haven't heard it before, it's beautiful but freaking hard. And then I realized that the reason I was constantly getting mad was because it was too hard for me. So make sure that your music is at your level. I also want to point out that you can't get any better unless you practice. Unfortunately, I haven't ever heard of a person who has always been motivated to practice ever single day.
Also, I do think that depression does factor in a little. Whenever I'm really depressed, I can't practice for very long. It just...doesn't work out too well. So try to practice when you're in a good mood.
As for motivation, reward yourself for improvement. You could also try learning how to play your favorite song on the guitar or keyboard. I take a break from all the classical or band stuff (that I play on the clarinet) occasionally to have a practice where I fool around and play whatever. Sometimes its a song from the radio or sometimes I switch my clarinet and piano music around and transpose all the stuff...I'm such a nerd..But anyways, you can take breaks from the normal stuff. Sometimes it might help you feel a little better.
Don't let the musical people around you influence you too much. I also come from a musical family and most of my friends are in love with music as much as I am. Do whatever you want to do. Besides, you can always try something new. Maybe the stuff you are doing isn't what's right for you. I've recently taken up singing and songwriting to add something new to my musical ability. Don't be afraid to try something new, you might actually like it! :)
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Well I used to be the prize in the family. You know straight A's, popular, a good kid, and everything you could ask for in a kid. When I got to 6th grade it was harder because my school is for all gifted students so I got A's B's and a C. My parents weren't happy but I still was the prize. Then my brother decided to try going into the Army. All of a sudden everything changed. I'm the one that does all chores except one and if I don't do them I get in trouble but my bro doesn't get in trouble in he doesn't do his ONE chore. If one speck is left on the counter, I get yelled at and when my mom is in a bad mood because of me she goes to my brother and says "SOMEONE made me mad, it's ok honey, it's not your fault." She gets upset with me SO easily and never gets mad at my brother even though he eats ALL the food in the house and knows he's not supposed to, doesn't do his chore, his room smells like a pig pen, he doesn't follow ANY rules! I know going into the Army is a big thing but I don't think it's necessary for al this to happen.
I've tried talking to her MANY times but everytime she yells at me and I cry and she yells at me for crying. Then goes to my brother and says "it's ok, it's not your fault!"
I'm sorry it's long, but what can I do? Thanks a bunch! (link)
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I know you feel. I'm the oldest of 3 kids and my parents spoiled me until my brother and sister had came along. For awhile now, my mom has made it seem like she loves my sister more than me. And she's done some of the things that your mom has done to you. What you have to realize is that your mom does love you even if she doesn't always show it. She's hard on you because she knows that you can do well. Also, she's probably nervous about your brother going into the army. She wants to him to know that she loves him because he won't always be home for her to tell him. She's probably stressed as well. The next time you feel upset, try giving her a big hug and telling her that you love her. I'm sure that would make her happier and keep her from yelling at you. I know it all sucks, but it will get better if you try your hardest. Stay strong!
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I have the most amazing guy all to myself as my boyfriend. He is crazy funny, very caring, comforting, and understanding, and I can really be myself around him. I don't ever get scared or nervous around him. It's like I have known him for years. He is thoughtful. He surprises me with cute little trinkets and places I've always talked about wanting to go to. He never lets me down and I have a prince charming on my hands. He always lets me know he loves me and does all these sweet things for me. I hate being away from him, and we've been dating for 8 months. We talk a lot of our future together.
I don't know what it is lately, but I have been getting very annoyed with him. The things I'd normally find cute I find very very very irritating. I feel bad because I know he is just trying to make me laugh and make me feel happy. He always says that's his goal in life, to make me happy endlessly. I feel stupid. I mean, come on. I have everything I have always wanted. Yet I have been off and on with my feelings. Once I felt the same way I do now, not fond of him and feeling like I am losing feelings for him, and he cried when I told him. That hurt so bad to see him like that. We worked things out over a matter of days.
I just don't know why I feel this way. He just irritates me lately and I get mad easily and then we fight. We fight A LOT. About the dumbest stuff too, but he never yells or hits me. He just stays calm and holds me while we talk, even if I yell and cry. I feel horrible. I am so stupid to believe and let myself lose feelings for this amazing person. He doesn't deserve any of it. (link)
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This kind of thing happens to many people who spend a lot of time together, not just couples but best friends too. The best thing to do in the situation is to try spending less time together for a few weeks. During the time that you aren't with him, think about the relationship you have with him, the good and the bad. It might be able to help you see whether you still have feelings for this guy or not. I hope this helps and good luck :)
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Okay well I'm 14 and not in a sexual relationship (why would I I'm 14). So I don't know if I should shave or just trim. Right now I trim but I'm half Italian and my hair grows fast down there. I've googled this to see more info and there's a huge controversy on the subject. You need hair down there because it helps keep out infections or something. Plus when you shave you look like a 7-year-old. Yet guys seem to like it shaved more. But, why is it the boyfriends or even some random guys' decisions on the matter. Shouldn't it be the women who choose. Also, from shaving the women get razor bumps and ingrown hairs. As you can see I really don't know what to do, so any ideas? Thank you. (link)
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It really depends on personal preference. Some women like to shave down there despite the chance of getting razor bumps and ingrown hairs as you already know. Others trim their hair. As long as your are careful with the scissors, this has the least chance for pain and/or hurting yourself. Also another thing that women do is wax. Many don't do it because it hurts, but it lasts longer. At your age, I would recommend sticking with trimming your hair and wait for shaving or waxing until you're a little older or until you know how to do it properly. And yes it should be the women who chooses about her own body hair. Some guys have their preferences, but the best guys are the ones that don't really care :)
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I was jumping over obsticals as I do everyday and because my ankle is sore I have to jump a little different today. Over one of my bigger jumps I had to twist my leg to get it over the jump and my knee popped. It hurt pretty bad and it still hurts 10 minutes later. I sure it's not dislocated but what should I do to stop the pain and what do you thing happened? I know your not doctors but still... Thanks! (link)
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Ice it down for awhile. Remember to take the ice off every 10 minutes or so to prevent the ice from killing your tissue. Take pain medication if it's really bad and go to the doctor whenever you can.
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I used to cut myself but I stopped.
I cry in the bathroom like an hour a day because I'm bullied and I don't know if the guy I love likes me.
I just want to commit suicide.
I only have 1 friend and my family also hates me.
How do I deal with my life?! I'm tired of dealing with it. Should I kill myself? (link)
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No you shouldn't! I completely understand what you are going through.
Good job for stopping the cutting! It's an addiction that many people can stop on their own, but you were able to.
When I am really depressed, I try to make myself busy. Whenever you feel depressed, try reading a cheerful book or listening to some motivational music.
Also, depending on how close you and your friend are, I suggest talking to her about some of the things you are going through. That way, you are able to vent which also helps.
Set up some goals for yourself. This gives sort of a motivation to keep going. Yes, you will get tired of dealing with life, but that's how almost everybody feels at one point or another. The important thing that really shows character is how you deal with it. When you ignore the depression and try harder to make yourself happier, you are overcoming all those obstacles and becoming a stronger person.
As for the bullying, you should tell a teacher or trusted adult so they can help you out with it. And the guy that you like. If it doesn't work out, don't worry. There are so many other guys, you'll find the one eventually.
I really hope this helps and good luck with everything :)
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~15 year old
~Female
***Mostly guy opinions please***
I was just reading comments on a picture... But, umm is there something wrong with skinny girls or something?? Or do you guys just father have big/curves girls?? Like I'm just really courious 'bout this!! Cause I'm skinny (as what people tell me) Do you guys propher skinny girls over curvey girls? Or the curvey girls over skinny girls? Why and Why not?
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I just want to point out that I am female.
I think that if it's the right guy, then he shouldn't care about how skinny or curvy you are. Unfortunately there aren't too many guys like that around your age group. It really depends on the guy. Some guys like super skinny girls and others prefer girls that are curvier. As a curvier person, I can tell you that I've always wished I could be skinnier, but when I talked to my skinnier friends, they wished they could be curvier. I guess us girls wish to be what we aren't. I think it has to do with our self esteem, but don't worry, there isn't anything wrong with being skinny and curvy, just be happy the way you are :)
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Right so I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 16, we have so much respect for each other and he's the one I want to lose my virginity to, i know you are all going to say "you way too young" but I know I'm ready! Nothing's going to change my mind... I've discussed the topic with him and he said its up to me, he would never push me into anything I wasn't ready for. I was just wondering where the best place to do this would be? Ehm also, I've done everything but sex with him... I might be staying at his sisters with him soon, should I do it then? I know I'm ready so no nasty comments thank you... I'm American so we're both under-age...
Please don't call me a 'slut', 'whore' ect... Because I'm not I'm mad for this boy so before you judge think?!
Thanks:'-)! (link)
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I am not and will not judge you in any way, I'm just going to say it how it is.
You say that you are ready to lose your virginity. But are you ready to have and support a child? Would you be able to raise a child at your age? Of course not. At 13, you are still in school, living with your parents/guardians, and you can't even drive. Even if you aren't wanting a baby, there is no guarantee that you won't get pregnant even if you use protection. You might think, there's no way. Well don't you think that's what almost every other teenage mom said before they had sex?
What about your parents? I'm pretty sure that you're parents didn't just tell you "oh honey yeah it's okay to have sex with your boyfriend, just make sure you both are careful". No, they would probably be against it.
As for the physical and emotional stand point, especially because of your age, if you were to get pregnant, it would be hard on yourself. One, you are still developing and two, sex isn't some emotionless thing that you can get over if you make a mistake. It's not like riding your bike for the first time, it's something that you'll remember forever, good or bad.
I'm not trying to tell you that what you and your boyfriends has is bad or wrong. You could have an amazing relationship and truly love each other, but that's not the point. I'm just trying to get you to see that having sex with him at your age is not a good idea. When you get older, you'll understand it better.
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2 nights ago I couldn't sleep until 3 in the morning and got 4 hours of sleep then last night we had to stay up till one in the morning to pick my brother up from work. But he ended up being late and we left around 2:30 am. I fell asleep at 4 in the morning. Then had to wake up around 8. So another four hours. My mom said my eyes were bloods shot and that I look very tired but I ddin't feel it at all. Now that it is the middle of the night and I want to fall asleep I can't. My body is tired and all but I just can't. I didn't have coffee, didn't exersice, and I have a comfortable, quiet room. How can I fall asleep? I have school tommorrow! Thanks! (link)
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I have problems falling asleep as well. First I recommend going to see a your physician or the next time you see them, tell them about this. They can help you the most by offering help and tips that are well suited for you. I also recommend winding down the last 30 minutes or so before you want to go to sleep. For me, this generally is lamp on (instead of my overhead light) and all electronics off except maybe some peaceful music. I sit there and try to relax by reading a book or just clearing my head. Hopefully this will help :)
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*Sorry if this is long, but please read. I need help as soon as I can get it.*
I'm a female. My age is between 11-16.
I hate my body. I think i'm so fat and I wish I can look like my role model, Bella Thorne.
I hate my weight. I really wish I was skinny, but I honestly think i'm like an elephant. I don't really have a double chin, but if I lean my head back then you can see it.I'm around 90 pounds.
I hate myself. I was really skinny and picky when I was younger, but I ended up going overweight one summer. Then I was overweight that whole school year. The next summer(last summer), I started to get concerned about my weight and stopped eating.
Ok, so here's the deal: I WANT TO STARVE MYSELF. I feel guilty when I eat. How do I starve myself? I don't eat at school, so I guess that's a start.
Please don't tell me all this stuff saying "Eat" and you know. Thanks! (link)
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Starving yourself is NOT healthy. I'm telling you this not just because it's unhealthy, but because I understand first hand what you are feeling. Trust me, weighing 90lbs at your age group is definitely not overweight. When I was around 10 or 11, I already weighed around 100lbs. I was always an overweight person and I began to get self conscious about it when I started middle school and when I would see the tv stars and how perfect they seemed to be. But the harsh reality of it all is that most of those models and the skinny celebs out there have their own problems with eating disorders. Their lives aren't perfect with glitz and glam like Hollywood makes it all seem. It's not something to take lightly. As adviceman49 said, eating disorders like anorexia can kill you.
Anyways, when I was younger, I was so jealous of all of my friends because they were all so much skinnier than I was. And I felt like had to compete with that. Eventually, I started to develop horrid eating habits. I was basically anorexic for awhile. I could tell my health was deteriorating. I promise you, starving yourself will shut your body down little by little. And don't try to throw it up either. Bulimia, to me is even worse than starving yourself because you waste so much food and it can kill you as well.
Recovery isn't easy either once you've started. It took me a long time to get used to eating normally. I've been having problems with binge eating now because of my old eating habits.
I've been trying hard, and I've actually been able to lose some weight the right way which comes with proper exercise and trying to eat better. It's a long process, but in the long run, it is much better for your body than any other eating habit or diet.
Also, you need to learn to be okay with who you are. Girls tend to be harder on their selves about their appearance. It's completely normal to feel fat sometimes, but it's important to stay strong and remember that starving yourself will only hurt you. Good luck with everything :)
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I'm a 27 yr old attractive female. I'm smart and I have a loving family. I have thought about killing myself since I was 13. I now live in a new city with my fiance, but I know no one here, I'm so lonely and becoming so needy and therefore unhappy. It's not that I was to die so much as I cant go on this way. I don't know if I'm strong enough to pick up the pieces on my own. My fiance says he loves me (he really is the love of my life) but where is he? I don't know, out drunk with his friends somewhere. So, I know it seems ridiculous but remember, I have been thinking this way for 14 yrs, I've thought a lot about it. Any way I can do this somewhat painlessly and not end up in a hospital with brain or organ damage? Please help me (link)
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There is no simple painless way to commit suicide. It's as plain and simple as that. You have people who love you, think about how much pain you would put them through if you did commit suicide. They might even blame themselves for it, and that's something they would have to live with for the rest of their lives. You have so much to live for and so much more time left. Moving to a new place is hard, especially if you don't know anybody around there. You could talk to your neighbors or go out or join a community group where you meet other people. You'll feel better once you make a few friends and start adjusting to the new environment. Also, you don't have to do this on your own. You need to talk to your fiance. He probably doesn't understand what you're going through, but if you talk to him about some of this, it will probably make you feel a little better. Tell him that you feel like he isn't around enough. (Also, if he's going out with his friends, maybe you could ask him to introduce you to any of their girlfriends or something). This is the kind of thing that can make your relationship stronger. I understand how hard it is to keep moving on after considering suicide. But look how far you've made it since then. In those 14 years, you've become stronger from not going through with it. One song that really inspires me and keeps suicidal thoughts out of my head is Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You) by Kelly Clarkson. You should really take the chance to listen to the song and really take in the lyrics. If you are still having suicide thoughts, please call 1-800-273-8255. I hope this helps and stay strong :)
If you are concerned about the people that love you, then it's not the right thing to do. If you can't talk to your fiance, then try talking to some of your family. Maybe you could try to organize a trip to go back and visit them. You're going to need somebody's help. Your family is another great way to get support. They can remind you the reasons why you've held on for such a long time. I'm sorry if this isn't the answer that you want, but stuff like this is all you're going to get on this website.
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I was wondering if anybody could help me in either adjusting what i'm currently doing, or teling me when they think I would see results.
I am about 130/135 pounds and 5'4. I am what you would refer to as "skinny fat" I look of average thiness but I have a lot of fat on my stomach...its not flat at all. I do, however, have fairly small legs (I carry all of my weight in my stomach and my boobs). I run about 2 miles every day (or I aim for everyday..sometimes its 6) and I eat relatively healthy. I eat cereal with banana, turkey sandwiches, sometimes i have a little peanut butter and then often salads. I am certainly not super healthy but I don't eat a ton of junk. Does anybody know when I will start to see results from this? I ahven't been doing this for terribly long (about 2 weeks) so I know that It takes time...but I am starting to get frusterated.
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It's different for everybody. Some people are able to eat lots of junk food all the time and still be super skinny just because of their metabolism. It sounds like you are doing a good job with how you eat. The only thing I'm going to recommend is to try to exercise other parts of your body besides your legs when you run. This way, you aren't overworking some muscles and neglecting others. Good luck and remember that it takes time and dedication to notice results :)
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There's this guy @ middle school that I really like, but he doesn't like me for my shyness! All my friends think he's really stupid and that he's a slut. My other friend likes him too but I don't know what to do because if my friends wants to ask him out! He likes her but not me. If my friend and her start going out then I don't know what to do when he's By her (link)
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You need to get over him. This guy doesn't sound like he's worth your time. You're not going to be able to do anything about your friend and him simply because it's her decision to make. By getting over him, it will help eliminate the jealously and tension that will be caused if they did start going out. There are many other guys out there that aren't shallow players
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I'm hoping for some exercise advice. I'm about to start a second part-time job. It it only temporary, but it will leave me with virtually no free time during the week to work out. I could get up super early and work out but I have trouble sleeping and am really bad at waking up early. So my question is, how do you think I can find time to exercise enough during this extremely busy period of time? (link)
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There is an alternative way that might not require you to take too much time out of your day. Recently, I was reading through a few issues of Redbook magazine and noticed that they have a page or two of simple exercises that you can do throughout the day while you are doing things like sitting at work and doing the laundry. I didn't remember what they were, so I searched it and found a few websites that have similar exercises (I included the link below). The nice thing about these is they are pretty simple to do while you're working and it gives you the slight break in work that you might need. This maximizes the use of your time wisely.
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifehack/29-exercises-you-can-do-at-or-near-your-desk.html
http://www.wikihow.com/Exercise-While-Sitting-at-Your-Computer
http://www.mastersinhealthcare.com/blog/2009/50-easy-ways-to-lose-weight-while-you-are-at-work/
I hope this helps and good luck :)
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ok so everytime a guy i like asks me out out of nowhere, i feel like its a dare or something. So a guy i like asked me out today but i was not expexting it at all he was just like "will you go out with me" on facebook and i do but i would be sooo embarrassed if it was a dare and that way if it was i could say i was kidding. u know what i mean??? WHAT DO I SAYYYY??? Im 13 btw /= (link)
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I agree with masterclinic about making sure you're interested in the guy and know enough about him before you make any rash decisions. Also, it's not good to say yes to a guy if they ask you out by facebook, text, or email because it could just be people screwing around or a dare. I almost made that mistake once with a guy I liked and it turned out to be really embarrassing. If the guy likes you enough, then he should man up and have the guts to ask you out in person. This also ensures that he truly likes you.
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So I don't have very high self esteem, and I want to feel really pretty for my birthday, I'm tall 5"8 and I have brown hair that falls at my shoulders, it's not very long and very layered, I want to do cute vintage pin curls but I don't know how to do it, I'm dying my hair a chocolate brown and I thought it would look pretty curled, I don't own a small curling iron and I don't have any styling products. any tips or any other ideas I could try? My birthday is in a few days and I want to look cute, I bought a new outfit and everything, I'll be turning 18 and I think my friend is throwing me a surprise party seeing as she is being obvious about it, I want to look cute for it because I'm sure she invited my guy friend I like. Please help?? (: (link)
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There are several ways to curl your hair without using heat. You could use rollers. Rollers came be bought for a fairly low price (depends on quality). I've even bought some from the dollar store. If you want tighter curls, I recommend using a roller that has a wire inside of thick (this curls REALLY fast for me- I leave it in for about 3-4 hours because overnight is too much), bendable foam or one that I can't describe really well (here's a link to a picture of one: http://i00.i.aliimg.com/photo/v0/428382854/Foam_soft_hair_rollers.jpg). If you are trying to get looser waves, there are zig zag looking foam rollers. These are ones that I have tried and have worked for me, but keep in mind that there are many other types of well recommended hair rollers.
Another way that might damage your hair slightly more is to braid little sections of your hair while it's slightly damp and wait until this dries (or as I do when I'm in a rush, just straighten the braid until it's dry-this is the more damaging part). I don't recommend doing this very often because it damages your hair more than the other ways (especially because braiding while it's wet tugs on your hair when it's most sensitive). Depending on the size of the braids (the smaller the braid, the tighter the curls), you could get tight curls or loose waves.
Last but not least, there is the classic rag or pin curlers. These are ways that women before the generation of heated hair curlers did their hair. For pin curls, it didn't work well for me because I have thick ish hair and not very strong bobby pins but ehow has a pretty good how to pg for pin curls (http://www.ehow.com/how_2084103_create-pin-curls.html). As for the rag curls, there have been many variations of this. I've read and watched countless tutorials on how to do it but the best so far has been Michelle Phan's tutorial on youtube (she uses paper bags in the video, but cloth like an old pillow case works too). Here's the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WoZ2QGq0n4A&feature=relmfu
Anyways, these are a few of the ways I curl my hair without using heat. Some have failed for me, others work wonders. The best thing for you to do is try a few and see what works best for you. Good luck and have a great birthday :)
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OKay , so what does it mean when a guy tells you that he's always gonna like you regardless of what happens with the two of you? I'm asking this because there are many different meanings to the word "like" and I wanna know which one he meant.
P.S. we both liked each other more than a friend. (link)
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The definition (and context) of like is different for every guy, but I'm going to assume that what he meant was that he was always going to have a bond or attachment to you. This happens sometimes with the guy you had your first kiss with or your first boyfriend. Even after people break up, some still love each other, not necessarily in the same way that had started the relationship, rather in a bond that will always exist (kind of the way you love your family even if you get mad at each other). Anyways, this is just how I interpreted it. So it may not be exactly what he meant. If it really means a lot, you could ask him what he meant. Hope this helped :)
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