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Hair down there...
Okay well I'm 14 and not in a sexual relationship (why would I I'm 14). So I don't know if I should shave or just trim. Right now I trim but I'm half Italian and my hair grows fast down there. I've googled this to see more info and there's a huge controversy on the subject. You need hair down there because it helps keep out infections or something. Plus when you shave you look like a 7-year-old. Yet guys seem to like it shaved more. But, why is it the boyfriends or even some random guys' decisions on the matter. Shouldn't it be the women who choose. Also, from shaving the women get razor bumps and ingrown hairs. As you can see I really don't know what to do, so any ideas? Thank you.
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Since your not sexually active right now [thank goodness], I highly suggest just trimming. You're correct about hair helping keep your lady part "healthy." When you do decide to be sexually active in a few years, hopefully MANY, you may choose to shave. Just get a shaving creme that is for sensitive skin, and take your time. Hope I helped!
-Brina
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Dear Questioner
seems like you have a sensible head there!
for now, if i were you would trim it a little bit, just so you dont sweat too much down theree as that can be a bit uncomfortable.
when you get older and maybe into a relationship, expiriment a bit with what you personally like. see if you like to trim shave or eunaturalle best. you obviously have researched it well.
another nice alternative could be shaving the outer parts but leaving some hair nearer to your more intimate areas.
but again your preferences on this subject will probally changes on your menstrual cycle, weather, your exercise routine, your sexual activity etc.
dont feel to stressed about it youhave years to figure it all out!
vikkikimberly
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It really depends on personal preference. Some women like to shave down there despite the chance of getting razor bumps and ingrown hairs as you already know. Others trim their hair. As long as your are careful with the scissors, this has the least chance for pain and/or hurting yourself. Also another thing that women do is wax. Many don't do it because it hurts, but it lasts longer. At your age, I would recommend sticking with trimming your hair and wait for shaving or waxing until you're a little older or until you know how to do it properly. And yes it should be the women who chooses about her own body hair. Some guys have their preferences, but the best guys are the ones that don't really care :)
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