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What do i say to this guy?
ok so everytime a guy i like asks me out out of nowhere, i feel like its a dare or something. So a guy i like asked me out today but i was not expexting it at all he was just like "will you go out with me" on facebook and i do but i would be sooo embarrassed if it was a dare and that way if it was i could say i was kidding. u know what i mean??? WHAT DO I SAYYYY??? Im 13 btw /=
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I agree with masterclinic about making sure you're interested in the guy and know enough about him before you make any rash decisions. Also, it's not good to say yes to a guy if they ask you out by facebook, text, or email because it could just be people screwing around or a dare. I almost made that mistake once with a guy I liked and it turned out to be really embarrassing. If the guy likes you enough, then he should man up and have the guts to ask you out in person. This also ensures that he truly likes you.
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I'd have to disagree with advice man, it's more of a matter of if your ready to date at 13, but I can see his point because most aren't. I suggest you don't date just anybody; make sure your interested in him, like thing about him and want to get to know him better. This way it actually has a chance to go somewhere and he's not a immature child that would actually ask you on a date then say he was joking (obviously someone that's not ready for it).
Don't say yes to a boy that's asks you out on Facebook... That's just bad. It says he probably doesn't know you (just knows who you are), so how could he possible like things about you?
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As someone old enough to be your grandparent I would think 13 is far to young to be dating. When my son was 13 I would not allow him to date. He was allowed to meet friends at the Mall, movies or other places for group activities. If this is what you mean by dating then accept his request.
Otherwise you can always fall back on the old standard answer. "My parents do not allow me to date." That worked fine when I was your age. It worked well when my nieces were your age. I believe it will always work well as it pus the reason for saying no on your parents and not you.
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