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I am kinda siily, but thatz wat people lyk about me! I am kinda loud, but i am kinda smart. Isnt dat funny. Music is my boyfriend, and people say i am random, but i am concentrated sometimes. I lyk 2 speak spanish, because you can yell at people in spanish and it sounds so cool!I lyk dis guy in my skool, so i may dump music , you never know. And i am as cute as a button! Supoosedly...i am boy krazy, but i just think i am boy crazy. Oh yea i love to dance. I can dance for like ever. And i love pizza!I hope i help you with your problems! Enjoy! Oh yea, i love cartoons, especially donald duck as a baby.

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I was on hear a couple months ago.. but for those of you who didnt read it:

Last year this boy jake, popular, smart, nice, everything you would want in a guy, and me started talking a lot and we became good friends during school. i'm not hugely popular, like i have a ton of friends, and i am friends with a bunch of people who are considered 'popular' but i wouldnt be considered that. weelll iin january of my freshman year( last year) he asked me to daance at the semi, which i was really surprised by, because i kind of liked him but i would never guess he would ask me to dance.. well when he found out i liked him the rest of the year we didnt really talk much, and it bummed me out. This summer i started going out with this kid mike, who was kind of an asshole and we broke up a couple weeks ago, but since the year started jake has been talking to me a lot again. Like for example, hes in my spanish class, and he purposly switch seats with his friend so he could be next to me, and hes always talking to me and writing me notes and things.. like yesterday he hung up a sign that said 'marry me ashlee' and like i really like jake, ive liked him for a while, i just dont want to get myself hurt again, his birthday is tomorow, should i do anything? and besides the birthday, do you have any advice for me on what hes doing, if he likes me or not...?

thanks so much, i really appreciate any opinions, guys and girls

--ashlee :)

I dont want to sound mean, but i dont think he is interested in you like that. I think that he is just rilly flirtacious. I am sorry. I mean if he stopped talking to you as much when he found out you liked him, than i dont think he likes you any more than a friend. I am sorry, but dont worry thereis a guy out there for you who will be happy to be with you! :)Good luck!

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Hey!I am from Puerto Rico (talk spanish and English could reply in any both languages) Im Jay and I need some help in memorizing my monologue today is Tuesday and its for Saturday and i Dont know eally well on how to memorize all that stuff its like a page and a half I think its too long for the time they gave us , bubt if you have anby technique for me please help ME@!


Waiting for your advise!

In order to memorize the monologue, act it out andso you can remember alot of it, so if you forget a piece you can refer to the action you were going to do, or you can do what my mom always tells me to do. Write it like 20 times, and you should get it! Good luck! Have a good monologue...thing!

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how to you adjust the margins on mircosoft word? for some reason when i open up a document it goes to a default margin of over an inch and i need it to be exactly one inch...how do i fix this? thanks

Go to file and click page set up, and then you can adjust your margins to the way you like. Good luck!

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there is no realy way i can exsplain to you how i feel, i am more then deprested and more then disterbed to say the least.For more then a year now i have been stugleing with my wieght, i alot of terrible things have happind to me in my life, things i won't get into but i have been cuting myself and thinking about killing myself.I just ca't seem to lose wieght, the kids at my shcool pick on me beacuse they are all really scinny, to give you a better vitonual i am 13 and i weigh 130 pounds.I have a tredmeal in my atick and i have been runing on it for a hour a day yet i am still not useing weight.I think that if i continue to gain weight unstead of lose it i might end up killing myself.please dont give me advice like get perfesional help, tell your parents, or keep working out, or tell a docotr there some desease were you cant lose weight.none of thoughs will help me.

Ok every once in a while, people struggle with their weight. I will admit it, i even struggle with my weight, but i just eat healthier and try to workout. It is not as easy as it sounds, to eat more fruits and veggies, but just take baby steps. I once gained 30 lbs, but i have been working at my weight to decrease it. Do not cut your self, because that does nothing for you. All it does is hurts you, it doesnt do anything for you. Try eating carbs in the morning, fruits and veggies for lunch, and protein for dinner. 130 pounds is about average if your 5'2 or so. I dont kno how tall you are. Continue going on the tradmill, because maybe you have your period or your on a plateau. And killing yourself should not even be an option just because your heavier than others. Plus, if you have confidence in your self, then the kids at school wont pick on you, especially if youdont care. But why do you ncare what they think? You should be happy with your self and body. You should be happy your healthy and have a family. Plus, there is such thing as inner beauty. And if you want , talk to your doctor about weight loss pills, but he may not reccomend anything because you are not considered over weight. And whether you want to hear this or not, talk to somebody, because if you are thinking of hurthing yourself because you are bigger, than you need help.You could be 800 pounds, and you should never think of that. My aunt is maybe 290, and she is perfectly haapy, with herself.She may not be the skinniest girl, and she is losing maybe half a pound a week, but if yoy are determined enough, the weight will come off. And so, eat more small meals and you will succeed.

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ok i wanna know some exersizes 4 my stomack that 4 sure work

I am not a fitness trainer, but i do know that crunches and sit ups are great excersize for the stomach. I hope this helpz!

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Hi my name is Katie. I think my friend Brandi has a problem. She told me today that she got drunk yesterday and she cut herself with a razor all over her wrist and hand. I am really worried about her because she talks about all the time and I don't want her to do anything stupid. I think she might be doing it for attention but you can never be sure with because it is not something to toy with. I told her if she keeps cutting I will not talk to her anymore because I don't want to see her hurt like this. I love her alot but I don't want her to think I am okay with this. What should I do? I want to tell a school counsler but I don't want them to try to get help for her because she will know I was the one that told and I don't want her to me. Please help me with this problem. I want to be a good friend and help her but I don't know what to do.
thank you alot!
Katie

If you want to be a good friend you will tell some one your friend has a problem. She may be mad at you at first, but she will thank you in the long run, trust me. Friends look out for one another, no matter what! So, do your friend a favor, have her talk to some one, some thing good will come out of it! Good lukk!

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I have a real good friend who i hang out with and we come over to each other's houses and talk, you know, stuff like that. We both have P.E and when i try to hang out with her in that class, she never talks to me or anything and she seems annoyed by me sometimes. She is usually laying basketball with some other friends and when i ask her if i can play, all her friends including her say no. Ever since, she has been acting like she dosent like me that much. I know she is not embarresed with me around her when she is with her friends but i dont know what it is. When it's just us to, we laugh have a good time and just talk...now i have no clue whats going on. Can someone please help? thanks

You should talk to her about it, because it sounds like she isnt being a goodd friend. Tell her that you feel excluded, and hurt that she ignores you when she is with other friends making fun of you. She isnt a good friend if she does that. A good friend would hand with you no matter how you are, who your with, how you look or anything. A real friend loves you for you. You should be able to go up to her in ripped clothes, stinky, bad make up. bad hair, and she should still be there for you. If i was you, i would talk to her about it. I hope this helpz!

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iv been with my bf for about a month and we havent kissed yet. i really wanna kiss him but im too shy to make the first move. Is there any signs or something i could do to get him to kiss me?

Well why dont you guys go to a movie, and maybe the magic will work there, or maybe you can just give him a peck, on the cheek, and maybe he will feel you are ready for him to kiss you, but i am pretty sure he is feeling the same way. Good luck!

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Ok so i am a blonde haired skinny girl with no boobs ( ok they are there but the guys dont think so) and i have some butt. But anyways i am growing my bangs out and they are to my chin my reg. hair is a little passed my shoulders my bangs look horrible just down with my hair straight any idea's on how i could do my hair and pulling the bangs back doesnt work i have tried. Please help

i reccomend cutting your hair, and long hair is out! Cut your hair to a shorter, sexier, and easier to maintain level. Plus,, accesorize your hair.NOt with clipz and bows. Get high lights, and maybe layers. Try a push up bra, it may help, and wear clothes that make you stand out, so guyz wont be lookin at wat your body has, ubt watz on your body. And remember your blonde, have fun with it. I am not a blonde, but dont blondes have more fun?

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i'm going to italy to visit a guy that i really like, he told me not to fall in love with him, but at the same time he is taking me to venice for 3 days, how can i not fall in love with all the romance he is going to give me, we already had sex. what does this mean? can he be confused or am i? he acts like he really likes me.

call me old- fashioned or watever, but if you have sex with a guy , shouldnt it be because you think you love, him? I mean who says dont fall in love with me, no offense, but i think he is in denile or something. I realy hope it works out!

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i have no idea what to get my bf for his birthday. we will have been together 6 months & he`ll be turnin 17. hes not into sports or anything, but he plays guitar and likes the Fender brand.. soo i was thinkin about gettin him a Fender hoodie or something.. but i think he's already going to get one soon, and i think theyre pretty expensive anyway, and i dont have endless money. i dont want to get him cologne because he got me perfume for my birthday so i dont want to repeat that idea, and i cant cook so i cant fix him dinner or anything. i thought about the picture of us in a frame but i have to get a picture first, and i want to get him more than just that anyway. hope that helps! any ideas?

does he like to read books, or does he like parties?Does he like video games, a tool box, a new guitar, i got it! You can get him a gig! Ha! Hope you lyk it! Tell him happy birthday!

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AWESOME GRADES FROM SO-SO SCHOOL OR SO-SO GRADES FROM AWESOME SCHOOL?

what's the best? see i was thinking if i choose a school like UCLA (good repuation right?) but since everyone's so smart there i'd get so-so grades, or is it better to choose a so-so school where i'd get the best grades?? like lets say i want to becom a doctor, what would be best? do they look at your grades, or where you got your degree, or both? does anyone know??

just to answer your first question, go to a good school, even if you have so so grades, becuase people will undersatnad and will be impressed that you even got in. And secondly, universities look at more than just grades, they look at community services, clubs, sports, and your GPA, and your SATs, but there are more to it. Jobs though, look only at your degree, so go to an awsome school, and just try your best, because you never know, you may actually excel!

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my brest are" saggy" if I sleep with a certain bra would it help me any?

Well not really, but you can wear a push up bra and that will do the trick, trust me!

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I'm concerned about a couple of friends I have...I was wondering what age is appropriate to have sex...12?...14?...16?...18?...older?...they say they love the guy but come on...what's too young?

Ok, i think that you should not have sex to express your love for one another because there are other ways. Plus, if you feel you are in love, and you really want to have sex, than think about your situation. Are you old enough to have a child, and to get a job, and will you handle the pressure of being in school and having a baby, will you even be able to go to school, will your guy stay with you, are you willing to reverse your life's work, because sex can lead to babies, and abortion, and problems you will face. I reccomend you wait, until you are ready, and mature enough to tell your parents, and dont be stupid and have it at age 12, be smart! I would rather someone have it at age 45 and be ready for it, then a 14 year old. And with all of the social diseases going around. There are risks. I feel the youngest age, if anything 17 , and i personally still think that is too young, but if you feel you are ready go ahead, but it will come with alot hurdles.

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Thanks for the advice.One problem...HE WON"T BREAK UP WITH HER!!Here she situation:The other girl{Kara} dumped him at the beginning of the grade to ask out his best friend,he said no.And Dakota was going out with my friend Amber who broke up with Dakota.So to make Amber want him back,he asked Kara out becase I was out{sick}.But he likes me.We know each other likes the other,oh,and he's my best friend.What do i do? please!I don't know what to do!

That was scarily complicated, but anyways...i would have you start talking to him, and flirt, and if you know he likes you just ask him out, but if you arent that forward have your friends talk to him about you, and hopefully he will gain the courage to ask you out! :)Good lukk!

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You gave some advice,i sent you something.I just remembered something he told me Thursday.Before my BEST friend Amanda and i went to my house,we were just hanging til my mom got there.Amanda was talking to Jok' {John} and i just watched as she chased him around.Dakota was right beside me.He saw my SPEACIAL necklace {if you want 2 no i'll tell you later} and aske what it was about.{tel you later}So i told him.And 4 NO reson,he just up and said,"You know,Amanda thinks i should go out with you." me being me i just reacted like 'OMG r you joking?!Me and you ,no.' Was he tring to tll me something? Amanda didn't tell me anything about that,and she ALWAYS tells me EVERYTHING.Can you help me?Plez???!!!?!?

you shud have said yes, because that usually means he is interested and he was looking for a way to ask you out, but teying to stay cool .Try to get another conversation started so you can say yes this time. Good lukk!
P.S- Dont worry, if anything he probly feelzbad, cuzit kinda soundz lyk you rejected him.

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I am female, 23 years old and my boyfriend 22. After almost 2 years of relationship, my boyfriend called me ugly. What can I do or what can I say?

If your guy called you ugly, then you shoulod dump him, you shudnt be with sum one eho doesnt appreciate you! Dum him, and soo he will feel bad for losign you. But if it was a joke, then talk 2 him, about it and tell him that you were really hurt.

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14/f
okay well my friend said she didnt like this guy anymore but i like him a lot. he is everything that i look for in a guy and i am everything he looks for in a girl. would it be rude to start flirting with him.would it be mean if i dated him. i dont want to ruin our friendship.

well tell your friend that you are interested in this boy, and rilly ask her if she is rilly over him, because you dont want to ruin your relationship. Rilyy talk 2 her about him. Then she will rilly come out!

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14/F Hi,listen all girls look.There's this guy I like,Dakota Gorsuch,since third grade we've been crushing.But he can't get the couage to ask me out!he wants to but won't.he's going out with a good friend of mine.But he doesn't want to.What should i do? :[

WHy dont you take the first step, and ask him out. Duh! I mean after he breaks up with his girlfriend, and i would be mad at my friend. Or you can leave him a note, in secret, and tell him! Yay! Good lukk!

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i am almost positive i have anorexia, as hard as that is for me to admit. i don't want to tell any of my friends or family, but i know i need help and i cant do it on my own. i went online and searched for help sites, or centers near me to help and i found nothing. the first step is to admit you have a problem, and i am doing that, but now i cant even get help. if you know of any web sites that will help me, sites to find a place near me, or can give me any other advice, i'd appreciate it.

The only thing i can say is to tell some one you trust, because you need help. It may be hard at first, but it will get easier. Alot of people can die from anoresxiz like becky. Tell someone, we were learning about anorexia,i am glad you admitted it, but you need to tell some one before it is too late!

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